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Hmmm tough one,
I enjoy it yes...ofc I do
Do I require it every day in the relationship....no not at all.
I enjoy it yes...ofc I do
Do I require it every day in the relationship....no not at all.
Sound argument, too bad most religions doesn't share your genius : /Time Travelling Toaster said:
Personally I don't understand why some look down on people that factor in sex as a major part of a relationship. I know plenty of people who won't consider a long-term relationship if the sex isn't "enjoyable" enough. And there is nothing wrong with casual sex as long as both know that that's what it is and nothing more.
Now that I don't agree with, and it's pretty much what I was reffering to in my post.WrongSprite said:
Obviously sex shouldn't be the main thing in a relationship, but totally dismissing it as something non-important seems silly to me.
I think there's nothing wrong with that.Pipotchi said:
stupid thing to sayWrongSprite said:
sex improves a relationship as orgasms realease hormones that helps develop attatchement, and its when a person seems most vulnerable. Most relationships get much stronger after sex. Pre-marital is your perogative.
Wow! I try to escape my social psych revision and end up here. It's some kind of omen.
Not to generalise too much or anything, but there is a substantial amount of evidence to suggest that online communities rate lower in real-world sociability. Considering this, and also my 1st hand knowledge that attractive, highly computer game-tollerant females are something of a rare find, could it be that the population of TEM forums are getting laid less? This would explain an aversion to the topic of sex, and the adopted disapproval of casual relations screams 'excuse/defence mechanism' to me.
Eesh. I need to get laid.
Not to generalise too much or anything, but there is a substantial amount of evidence to suggest that online communities rate lower in real-world sociability. Considering this, and also my 1st hand knowledge that attractive, highly computer game-tollerant females are something of a rare find, could it be that the population of TEM forums are getting laid less? This would explain an aversion to the topic of sex, and the adopted disapproval of casual relations screams 'excuse/defence mechanism' to me.
Eesh. I need to get laid.
Did you just say that every person on earth requires sex for a healthy, loving relationship?
You actually believe that? Because you can just decide what is right and wrong, correct?
WRONG.
You dont know that, get over yourself.
You actually believe that? Because you can just decide what is right and wrong, correct?
WRONG.
You dont know that, get over yourself.
Well, I really don't understand why people care about it so much, or even want to have it, for that matter. It is disgusting, in actuality. I mean, all the bodily fluids, disease, and proximity to the anus 'n what not...
I'm stayin' a virgin until I find a lifelong mate who can make that sound appealing. (among other qualities of course.)
I'm stayin' a virgin until I find a lifelong mate who can make that sound appealing. (among other qualities of course.)
The bonding hormone, Oxytocin, is typically a female-thing. Males release dopamine. The women get attached while the men fall asleep. >.<Wait...What said:
Also, it's something of a fallacy that relationships get stronger after sex. There's a strong correlate, however, between the success of a relationship and the amount of time in an abstained relationship prior to having sex. So a couple who are together for 2 years prior to sleeping together, are significantly more likely to stay together than if they sleep together almost immediately.
Sex is a fundamental part of a healthy relationship. Its absence is very, very conspicuous. There might well be some people that don't need it, but they're the extreme, marginal minority.
That said, a relationship based completely upon sex can turn out just fine, as long as both parties recognize and understand that. There's nothing wrong with casual sex.
ThatJagoGuy is right; I think there's a lot of people here who aren't having sex, never have had sex, and don't see it as likely that they will have sex in the foreseeable future. Since this is a pretty bug social handicap in our society, one of the best ways to get over this is to deny its importance, or even to look down upon people who do have a lot of sex in order to place themselves at a higher level of importance.
That said, a relationship based completely upon sex can turn out just fine, as long as both parties recognize and understand that. There's nothing wrong with casual sex.
ThatJagoGuy is right; I think there's a lot of people here who aren't having sex, never have had sex, and don't see it as likely that they will have sex in the foreseeable future. Since this is a pretty bug social handicap in our society, one of the best ways to get over this is to deny its importance, or even to look down upon people who do have a lot of sex in order to place themselves at a higher level of importance.