SEX!!!
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Whilst I would necessarily argue that sex is an important part of a relationship, however, I think an absence of sex is more concerning. Sex can be an excellent barometer for how people within the relationship are really feeling about each other. I find that the sex tends to fly out of the window when a relationship is gasping its last breaths. It's just another way of being intimate.
That said, I think it's foolish to hold sex in such high regard. If everybody is a consenting adult, using the highly necessary protection, I don't see why people shouldn't shag whoever they like. The whole idea that society has of sex being this "sacred" thing that needs to be protected is more damaging than helpful. Fidelity is one thing, but casual sex doesn't hurt anybody.
That said, I think it's foolish to hold sex in such high regard. If everybody is a consenting adult, using the highly necessary protection, I don't see why people shouldn't shag whoever they like. The whole idea that society has of sex being this "sacred" thing that needs to be protected is more damaging than helpful. Fidelity is one thing, but casual sex doesn't hurt anybody.
I think either people aren't getting enough of it, or they aren't having the right kind of sex. Experiment a little, try boys and girls. Try some BDSM or sadism, or cross-dressing. There's a whole world of sexual experiences out there waiting for you.
I would insert my own opinion here, but Mazty seems to be arguing from my side of the fence well enough. Thanks, Mazty.
Sex is an incredibly important part of any relationship, as is any show of affection. Casual sex is a completly different matter, and I don't think it in any way substitutes or is comparable to sex based on love. However, I don't get much of the love kind.
This.SmilingKitsune said:
I have to say, sex is very important, provided you're in a relationship. If you're with someone you love, then sex is clearly going to be an important part of that relationship, as a way of showing your partner you love them. Obviously, it's only one of the ways of doing so, but it's one of the best ways.
For the life of me, I can't understand the appeal of casual sex. I just can't understand the mindset where you'd want to sleep with someone without actually having/wanting a relationship with them.
YES PLEASE!!!
Oh... wait what...?
*Reads original post*
So this isn't an advertisement for local prostitution? Fuck that.
As for my thoughts. I think that if sex was wrong, evolution must really hate the human race to have created horniness just to tempt us.
Anyways, how could something so great be wrong in any situation?
Oh... wait what...?
*Reads original post*
So this isn't an advertisement for local prostitution? Fuck that.
As for my thoughts. I think that if sex was wrong, evolution must really hate the human race to have created horniness just to tempt us.
Anyways, how could something so great be wrong in any situation?
Casual sex, I don't see the problem with. Are the people who are against casual sex here also against masturbation? Because really, that's the point of casual sex. It, in the psychological realm, is basically like extremely enhanced masturbation. You've got two people who are sort of friends, both find themselves wanting sexual release (the reason we masturbate), why would they use their hands when they could just as easily use each other? As long as both parties realize that it only is just super-masturbation they should be fine. And those two people have probably mutually agreed that they're okay with it, in which case people who argue against it are just trying to force their morals into other people's faces.