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Sex is something that has you to get in someone's personal bubble and make them feel better, which requires a lot of trust. So, like hugging, it took on a very personal meaning. Even moreso than kissing or touching because it really shows what a person is like without restraint, when they are in the most bliss.
I don't believe it should be between two people (man and woman) who love eachother because it's "right" or "personal" or any other socially-stated shit. I believe it should be between however many concenting parties care deeply for eachother and trust eachother. Because it's putting yourself in their hands.
I don't believe it should be between two people (man and woman) who love eachother because it's "right" or "personal" or any other socially-stated shit. I believe it should be between however many concenting parties care deeply for eachother and trust eachother. Because it's putting yourself in their hands.
Sex, you say?
Well, I'm not particularly knowledgeable in that area, I've only had sex with two different people(one of them being my current, absolutely lovely boyfriend, and a douchebag before him).
For me, sex is an act of showing real trust and comfort with another person. It is not something you should do just for the sake of doing it, or because you just feel obligated to do it. A lot of people seem to have the impression that sex is a "must" in a relationship, as they seem to jump into it fairly early. There's of course nothing wrong with it, if you can do it early on, or if it takes a year, doesn't matter, but you should be sure about it - regrets for something like that can be devastating for your mental health(especially if you're young).
Something I think is very, very important with sex however is precaution - use fucking protection(pun intended). I have a neighbour, she had a kid at fourteen and the guy she had the kid with of course left her shortly after she gave birth. And do you know what the most horrible thing about it is? She didn't tell her mother until she was in the 7th month.
Now, I absolutely don't look down on casual sex, some people are able to enjoy that just fine. But for me personally, I wouldn't be able to be that intimate with a person I didn't fully trust and know, however.
My boyfriend is epic by the way. No more details.
EDIT: Oh, right, these opinions are based on personal experiences and a LOT of observation(I hung out with people who thought that getting piss drunk around strangers ten years older than them and having sex behind their parents back was a great idea, and that there was nothing at all that could go wrong).
Well, I'm not particularly knowledgeable in that area, I've only had sex with two different people(one of them being my current, absolutely lovely boyfriend, and a douchebag before him).
For me, sex is an act of showing real trust and comfort with another person. It is not something you should do just for the sake of doing it, or because you just feel obligated to do it. A lot of people seem to have the impression that sex is a "must" in a relationship, as they seem to jump into it fairly early. There's of course nothing wrong with it, if you can do it early on, or if it takes a year, doesn't matter, but you should be sure about it - regrets for something like that can be devastating for your mental health(especially if you're young).
Something I think is very, very important with sex however is precaution - use fucking protection(pun intended). I have a neighbour, she had a kid at fourteen and the guy she had the kid with of course left her shortly after she gave birth. And do you know what the most horrible thing about it is? She didn't tell her mother until she was in the 7th month.
Now, I absolutely don't look down on casual sex, some people are able to enjoy that just fine. But for me personally, I wouldn't be able to be that intimate with a person I didn't fully trust and know, however.
My boyfriend is epic by the way. No more details.
EDIT: Oh, right, these opinions are based on personal experiences and a LOT of observation(I hung out with people who thought that getting piss drunk around strangers ten years older than them and having sex behind their parents back was a great idea, and that there was nothing at all that could go wrong).
Ok, that's just creepy. That's EXACTLY what I was gonna say, including the losing my virginity at 14 bit. Although my parents don't know so shhhhhhhh.BlueberryMUNCH said:
I think, as Mr. Munch said (heh heh), that it is better to decide for yourself what your views in it are rather than it be drummed into by parents, school or whatever. That isn't to say that you shouldn't listen to them though.
I believe sex is just an act and should never be mistaken for love. I almost got punched by one girl back in high school since she believed that sex=love and I told her that her boyfriend did not respect her in the slightest.
(this was not an uncalled for thing to say either, her boyfriend was supposed to watch her kitten while she went on vacation but he sold it to some guy on the street for $20 and just gave her the money. I think they were together about for about 2 months after that too. she was very stupid)
(this was not an uncalled for thing to say either, her boyfriend was supposed to watch her kitten while she went on vacation but he sold it to some guy on the street for $20 and just gave her the money. I think they were together about for about 2 months after that too. she was very stupid)
Awww! I was hoping for a dirtier thread. Oh well...
I believe sex is good, it should be experienced by everybody on earth. If you don't experience it you are totally missing out!
I believe sex is good, it should be experienced by everybody on earth. If you don't experience it you are totally missing out!
BURN THE GENERAL STUDIES HERECY! yeah im form england to....i cant reall elaborate whats all ready said, soo yeah....good luck with your 'work'.BlueberryMUNCH said:
Well, for most of my life my knowledge of sex came from episodes of Friends, and I was quite convinced that Sex consisted of wrestling underneath bedsheets for an appropriate amount of time, erupting from the duvet, panting, saying a one-liner, then returning to the wrestling.
Apparently it's more than that though. Which I learned the embarrassing way
Apparently it's more than that though. Which I learned the embarrassing way
Sex has always been something that has been taught by society and how people are judged by their sexual activities. Now we have a very diverse community of people who are either slutty, prude or somewhere in between. If people are judged for having sex too young then the people around them are more likely to be similarly judgemental and wary of sex until society accepts it as okay. Those who grow up in areas where people simply do not care about whether someone has had sex or not are likely to have sex before society says they are ready to, which leads to them being seen as slutty by the people who are somewhere in between.
There are more than just sluts, prudes and the indifferent however. I've just given you a brief summary of where I reckon most people get their sexual attitudes.
I really don't care about sex too much, I prefer the challenge of getting the girl and then the accomplishment of actually doing it. That said, I am a virgin.
There are more than just sluts, prudes and the indifferent however. I've just given you a brief summary of where I reckon most people get their sexual attitudes.
I really don't care about sex too much, I prefer the challenge of getting the girl and then the accomplishment of actually doing it. That said, I am a virgin.
It is overrated.
It does not cement a relationship.
Most of what i know about it, was from sex ed class in year 6 all the way to my 2nd year in college (they kept badgering us to get checked for chlamydia).
Non religious, in case it is of any relevancy.
And selling your body is bad.
It does not cement a relationship.
Most of what i know about it, was from sex ed class in year 6 all the way to my 2nd year in college (they kept badgering us to get checked for chlamydia).
Non religious, in case it is of any relevancy.
And selling your body is bad.
bah, I think not..Bocaj2000 said:
OT: in a word overrated. Its one of those things in life that you only really want when you don't have it, but once you do have it (on tap i.e. a steady GF) you're not that bothered. Just mother nature fucking with us.
I don't think it deserves the Stigma it has. It's as meaningful as you want to make it. It's a physical extension of emotion. It can be deep, meaningful and passionate, or it can be cold, meaningless and purely physical. It's neither one or the other.
It's pretty uninteresting to me.
Thinking about it makes it seem kind of gross and awkward, what with all secretions and positioning and everything. The grotesque smells of each participant's genitals and BO from all that dang sweat all over the place. Doesn't seem that fun.
Which is why I am confounded by this culteral fucking obsession with it. All anyone cares about is who is getting it with whom and how and why the fuck is this even slightly important.
Anyway, I guess I learned most of it from TV and other kids at school. Any gaps in my knowledge were filled in by multiple molestations.
Thinking about it makes it seem kind of gross and awkward, what with all secretions and positioning and everything. The grotesque smells of each participant's genitals and BO from all that dang sweat all over the place. Doesn't seem that fun.
Which is why I am confounded by this culteral fucking obsession with it. All anyone cares about is who is getting it with whom and how and why the fuck is this even slightly important.
Anyway, I guess I learned most of it from TV and other kids at school. Any gaps in my knowledge were filled in by multiple molestations.
"Sex is like socks to me. There are plenty to go around, but I can't seem to find any."thenumberthirteen said:
Oh BlackAdder.
OT: Heterosexual sex is putting ones penis into a womans vagina. Sex between two men is putting ones penis inside the bum hole of another man. Sex between two women, is... Like... I have no idea how it's done, but I assume that is involves a lot of use of the fingers and tongue.
Of course all the sex that I'm talking about is just the basic. And I'm not going to go into the emotional side of it all.
That all being said, I've never had sex.