Sex

[Kadoodle]

You can learn all you need to learn by jackin off.

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[MR T3D]

Its fun, it can further the human race, and it can symbolize commitment to your partner.
do it, if you want, which you're going to, just USE PROTECTION.
rubbers, whatever... helmets.

also, its fun.

 

[Devin Parker]

My beliefs regarding sex are that it is a sacred thing that was designed by God and is thus a good thing, but like all such things it is easily abused. I believe it is intended for a married, mixed-gender couple. I believe that sexual preference is a far more fluid thing than people talk about it being (at least in terms of labeling people heterosexual, homosexual, and so on). I also believe that sex, when engaged in outside of its intended purposes (not only procreation, but also emotional/psychological bonding and, obviously, pleasure between a husband and wife) can be terribly destructive, ruining relationships, spreading venereal diseases, causing unwanted pregnancies, creating emotional bonds that result in damage when the participants don't give the proper respect and care to those bonds that they've created, and generally degrading what is a beautiful and pleasurable act into something tawdry and selfish. I believe Jesus when he said that when a man looks at a woman [that he's not married to] with lust, he's committing adultery in his heart and sinning against God.

My beliefs regarding sex mostly stem from the Bible, but are corroborated by personal experience, what my parents taught me, reading essays and reports on the subject, and from observing other people's lives and the effects sex has had on them, both positive and negative, either in obedience toward God or in defiance of Him.

 

[Jfswift]

I personally don't care if you have sex with someone as long as you're being safe about it. Generally speaking though the culture I grew up in frowned upon pre-marital sex though.

 

[Mistermixmaster]

Sex is an act you would only do with someone you truly love in my opinion. (Hence why I dislike people who go for "one-night stands" and such). It may just be because I'm old fashioned and a bit of a romantic, but that's the way it is in my book.

Learned it from? People learn this stuff from other sources? I thought this was more of something you'd have to find out on your own (about your stance when it comes to sex)? That's what I did at least.

 

[Kadoodle]

My beliefs regarding sex are that it is a sacred thing that was designed by God and is thus a good thing, but like all such things it is easily abused. I believe it is intended for a married, mixed-gender couple. I believe that sexual preference is a far more fluid thing than people talk about it being (at least in terms of labeling people heterosexual, homosexual, and so on). I also believe that sex, when engaged in outside of its intended purposes (not only procreation, but also emotional/psychological bonding and, obviously, pleasure between a husband and wife) can be terribly destructive, ruining relationships, spreading venereal diseases, causing unwanted pregnancies, creating emotional bonds that result in damage when the participants don't give the proper respect and care to those bonds that they've created, and generally degrading what is a beautiful and pleasurable act into something tawdry and selfish. I believe Jesus when he said that when a man looks at a woman [that he's not married to] with lust, he's committing adultery in his heart and sinning against God.

My beliefs regarding sex mostly stem from the Bible, but are corroborated by personal experience, what my parents taught me, reading essays and reports on the subject, and from observing other people's lives and the effects sex has had on them, both positive and negative, both in obedience toward God and in defiance of Him.

My atheist body is emitting high pitched laughter right now.

 

[thenumberthirteen]

O.T. well sex to me is something that should be between 2 people that love each other but hey everybody has their beliefs right now it's not so important but then again people keep saying that sex is like oxygen you aren't complaining unless you ain't getting any

What about between two people that love each other and one open minded roomate? Does that count?

Sex is like baking a cake. It's messy, hot, and delicious, but a pain to clean up afterwards.

I could make a remark about "Licking the Bowl", but I'm above that.

 

[The Wykydtron]

I don't really care about it one way or the other. Although I start to find it slightly disgusting if I think about it too in depth (Hmm there's probably some innuendo in there somewhere XD)

 

[Stephanos132]

There can be 2 kinds of sex to my mind. There's 'lovemaking', which would factor in a greater deal of intimacy and emotional bonding between the pair involved. There's then 'fucking' which is sex without any real attachment and is thus quick and easy fun between people who don't necessarily care for one another. Both have their places. In my experience, the former is more satisfying, particularly since it'll likely be long term stuff with all the effort already done.

 

[William Dickbringer]

O.T. well sex to me is something that should be between 2 people that love each other but hey everybody has their beliefs right now it's not so important but then again people keep saying that sex is like oxygen you aren't complaining unless you ain't getting any

What about between two people that love each other and one open minded roomate? Does that count?

Sex is like baking a cake. It's messy, hot, and delicious, but a pain to clean up afterwards.

I could make a remark about "Licking the Bowl", but I'm above that.

I probably should have mentioned that I'm open-minded about sex you wanna go have a threesome go for it

 

[Lexodus]

In one situation, it can be a heated, exciting release of emotion and frustration, and in the other it can be the ultimate act of intimacy between lovers. Either is fine, depending on what you're looking for. Regardless of what right-wing religious fuckwits will tell you, sex (and using contraceptive measures to eliminate unwanted pregnancies) is natural, and it's perfectly normal. In fact, not having sex (or at least masturbating) is unhealthy- apart from a stress reliever and something to help balance out your hormones, ejaculation of any kind helps to reduce the risk of testicular cancer in men (by reducing pelvic blockage and making sure everything works, etc. Sort of like when you try to use a car after leaving it in a garage for thirty years, you may have problems if you're not used to it and try to go at it one day).

Also, it sells.

 

[Diligent]

Spoiler: snip

Wanting sex, as I'd say any normally developed person would, yet not being able to have it does crazy things to the mind.

First 6 months without sex: This isn't so bad, I'll have it again eventually and hopefully it will be with someone I both care about and find attractive.

1 Year in: Well this sucks, everyone else seems to be having it. Guess I just haven't found the right woman yet.

2 years in: I'm totally off sex now, I don't even care anymore. At this point the sex drive shuts itself down on the understanding you're probably not going to be getting any soon.

3 Years in: Sex drive still dead, you don't notice girls as much, seeing people as couples grates on the nerves a little but nothing major.

4 Years in: Sex drive returns with a fury. Sod love, sod a relationship, I'd be happy with a one night stand.

5 Years in (Currently): If it's legal it's possible. Say goodbye to standards, any notion of relationships or even friendships with the gender you find sexually appealing. You begin to both hate and crave that gender. Becoming a pervert takes a drastic increase, doesn't matter if she's fat/old/has no teeth/has some sort of skin disease, at this point you would. I don't think it's possible to get to 5 years if you actually have any clue how to attract your gender of choice, so at this point you are even more lost. Then of course there is seeing other people together, especially when it's a less attractive guy than yourself with a really attractive girl. WTF?!

Paying for it? I can understand paying for it if you can already get it for free and feel like a bit of fun, but to pay for it when you can't get it? Is there a worse way to throw away your manhood than to be so pathetic you have to pay to know the touch of a woman.

Sex is great, OP. Sex can enhance a relationship, it can be a pleasureable act between two consenting adults or it can be used for reproduction. It's hardwired into us to seek it, to desire it, the same as breathing/eating and sleeping. If you are denied breath, you feel a massive amount of pain and die, if you can't eat, you starve, causing pain and other problems. You are forced to not sleep, then you gradually go insane. I'm pretty sure the same happens with sex, to be denied a basic human instinct will have a serious effect on your mind over a long enough time frame.

I've known people who haven't had sex for say, a month. They are already ratty and it plays alot on their mind. 5 years, 60 months, 1820 days...god damnit...

You hit the nail on the head, but get back to me if you get to year 8.
Want a preview? You will be considering buying a shotgun, and using it for something sinister.

I'm just kidding.
[sub]or am I?[/sub]

 

[Fiannaz]

My views on sex is simply as either a pass time thing wich 2 (or more) do or as a deeply emotional and intense love making when 2 people truly love each other (this time there cant be more than 2 for obvious reasons).

Any 2 persons can do the first option. Can be anything from friends to total strangers being drunk or something that would be translated into something like sex buddies. Pure and simple lust with no need for love feelings

The second 1 is the romantic relationship consumation. Its not needed to keep a relationship together always. Sex isnt what drives every human being after all.

Those are my 2 views on sex and how i see it. Any 2 persons can have sex even though some variations are disgusting in some peoples eyes (read gay sex)

 

[crunchieman]

Lol 69 comments when I saw this thread in latest posts. So of course I had a look.

But anyway as I'm 15 I know my opinion is highly valued on this or any other subject. So imo sex can be recreational, horrible, and an act of love.

EDIT: I should just go to bed....

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

I learned about sex when I was about 5 and woke up early one morning and was flipping through the channels and found out that we apparently had a free porn channel that ran from sometime late at night and into the early morning. My parents caught me watching and there was some explaining.

As for my views...Well, I think that ideally sex should be with someone you care about and love. Realistically, it's something that just comes natural to us. It's fun, relieves stress, and just plain feels good.

 

[MelasZepheos_v1legacy]

I think it should be kept as a physical expression of the love you feel for someone. Anything else and I think it cheapens the act.

Mainly I learned the mechanics of sex from my parents, who made sure I knew what went where and how to be safe, and the emotions of sex from literature and the media. I know it sounds like a ridiculous old-fashioned view, and I've been called out on it before (amusingly usually by girls, traditionally the more emotional about this), but I do honestly believe you shouldn't take the romance out of sex.

I think in a more practical standpoint it needs to be discussed more; teenagers will be curious, and especially with the rise of the internet and the ease with which you can find this stuff out for yourself, there needs to be a cultural maturing about sex and sexual discussion. It isn't enough anymore to just not talk to children because if you don't they'll find out untruths from the internet/pornography. It isn't correct to say that talking to children about sex leads to them doing it more, that's actually a sign that whatever you were saying to them was entirely the wrong thing.

From my experience (and I fully acknowledge that I could be the exception) my parents' intial introduction to sex was to describe it as something that was only done between people who loved each other, and that was all I knew about it for quite some time, so when it came down to discussing the mechanics my viewpoint was already 'so I know you only do this with someone you love, so how do you actually do it?' If instead of only describing the physical basis of sex with teenagers you made an attempt to make them understand the emotional side you might find it helped them more.

But those are the thoughts of an old romantic, so feel free to ignore them.

 

[Ross Gilligan]

Sex is what happens when a Mummy and Daddy love each other very much. They hug in a special way and it summons a stork who drops a baby. Or at least, that's what I was told.


It definitely isn't a fun process, which is guaranteed to reduce my unfit body to a sweaty mess before flinging cash at the prostitute and rolling over to sleep...

 

[LittleChone]

Me want.
But only if it's OK with the person I'm with.

(ergo, never had it.)

 

[captaincabbage]

Bangin' is a most intimate affair. I've always thought it's best with someone you love deeply.