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brunothepig said:
Scratch that. This is the one you want.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Appeal_to_nature
There you go. Now your intuition is accompanied by a name and reason.
From the people I know, that's bullshit.Bocaj2000 said:
Sex is sex, it's something people can do nowadays for whatever reason they please, but for the most part its for pleasure imo.
Personally, my views on Sex is that there's a huge hypocricy with it, we all tend to consider it somewhat taboo, yet we'll admit its appeal. Shows and advertisements will feature sexually appealing content to better address their audiences, but we're expected to consider sex itself a private thing. Girls dress in sexually provocative clothes yet they wish to not be 'objectified', which is what tends to happen when someone is sexualised.
Hey, don't compare me to someone using Christianity in this discussion this is just my opinion nothing to chew me out for would it be better if I changed it to cared aboutJochemDude said:
Sex is alot like air. Its no big deal unless your net getting any.
It's also alot like pizza. When its good, its REALLY good, when its bad, its still pretty good.
It's also alot like pizza. When its good, its REALLY good, when its bad, its still pretty good.
I'm an 18-yr-old virgin. I learned about sex from my family. They taught me that men just want sex from me. I was born in a Christian home & I'm waiting until I meet the right guy to have sex for the first time. That might mean waiting until marriage. I wouldn't mind waiting because that means I'm sticking to my beliefs.
Like I said, I learned about sex from my family. My grandparents are 87 & 90 yrs old & have 7 kids. I actually received a cake in the shape of a penis in March as a belated bday cake. I'm not allowed to speak of anything though.
Like I said, I learned about sex from my family. My grandparents are 87 & 90 yrs old & have 7 kids. I actually received a cake in the shape of a penis in March as a belated bday cake. I'm not allowed to speak of anything though.
Some people don't believe me when I say sex is like steak to me. When it's good, it's among the best things available to humankind. When it's bad, it's terrible... and I have no qualms about telling her (or the chef) exactly how terrible... and what went wrong.
For instance... never eat beef in Germany. They let 'em rot a little on the hanger over there.
For instance... never eat beef in Germany. They let 'em rot a little on the hanger over there.
Considering we're one of the few animals on the planet that indulge in sex purely for pleasure, I'd say sex is a pretty natural urge. People's beliefs about how sex should be handled, I find, reveals more about their social situation than sex itself. For example, there's still a lot of 'no sex before marriage' sentiment, and yet marriage is merely a social institution. Sex was around long before marriage was invented, and the belief the two should be interwoven is a social device to minimise those awkward moments when you find someone you like is banging someone else.
It's one solution for avoiding that, though I prefer the system where you act like an adult and not get hung up on those you have casual sex with. As long as it's plain as day from the get-go that it's casual, there shouldn't be a problem. I've had a few casual relationships before finding someone I considered worth having a long term, loving exclusive relationship with, and you know what? I had sex with them BEFORE falling in love with them. I don't really see anything wrong with this system as we're both very happy and faithful to each other. And we're not even close to marriage.
And for education- I got the usual condom on the cucumber sex ed in school, and built up in my mind the idea that the first time is not special, it is just awkward. The irony being when my first time came around all I wanted to achieve is make it seem like I'd done it before. I wasn't expecting it to be amazing, I wasn't even expecting orgasm. As a result of taking a realistic view going in (as opposed to idealistic), I actually had a great time
Bottom line is sex is what you make of it. If a couple wants to use it to consumate their deep love for each other that's wonderful. But to deny other people from screwing casually is to deny the fact that at a base level, sex feels good. As long as people engage in sex in a mature, laid back -and legal- way, then it doesn't matter how they do it, nor does anyone have the right to dictate how they do it.
No sex before Marriage? I don't think I could ever subscribe to that one though...
It's one solution for avoiding that, though I prefer the system where you act like an adult and not get hung up on those you have casual sex with. As long as it's plain as day from the get-go that it's casual, there shouldn't be a problem. I've had a few casual relationships before finding someone I considered worth having a long term, loving exclusive relationship with, and you know what? I had sex with them BEFORE falling in love with them. I don't really see anything wrong with this system as we're both very happy and faithful to each other. And we're not even close to marriage.
And for education- I got the usual condom on the cucumber sex ed in school, and built up in my mind the idea that the first time is not special, it is just awkward. The irony being when my first time came around all I wanted to achieve is make it seem like I'd done it before. I wasn't expecting it to be amazing, I wasn't even expecting orgasm. As a result of taking a realistic view going in (as opposed to idealistic), I actually had a great time
Bottom line is sex is what you make of it. If a couple wants to use it to consumate their deep love for each other that's wonderful. But to deny other people from screwing casually is to deny the fact that at a base level, sex feels good. As long as people engage in sex in a mature, laid back -and legal- way, then it doesn't matter how they do it, nor does anyone have the right to dictate how they do it.
No sex before Marriage? I don't think I could ever subscribe to that one though...
There are a number of AIDS patients who might differ with you on that.TheRightToArmBears said:
EDIT: Your argument also assumes that sex is best enjoyed outside of marriage. I'm arguing that it's the opposite: that sex is designed to be at its best and most fulfilling within marriage, so engaging in sex outside of marriage is actually indulging in a lesser version. Also, bear in mind that I'm arguing potentials, here - it's not always going to be fantastic in a marriage, and extramarital sex can be very exciting, but in the long run, you're cheating yourself out of something better.
Nonsense. True religion demands clear judgment.JochemDude said:
The Bible says that no one's without sin. So, yeah.Father Time said:
I'll cut the basics and skip to something I've been thinking about recently.
Typical porn bores me now. Perhaps its partially the formulaic progression, but I feel that its because all too often its just the man asserting a dominant role. Yes, I know this is typically divulged through cliche "sex dialogue" and perhaps shouldn't be taken seriously, but why does it persist?
Its not even the dominance of the man that bothers me really: its just the lack of balance between the two participants... it just feels... selfish.
For me, sex is a reciprocal/symbiotic act. Pleasure for pleasure. Sensation for sensation. If sex is ever one-sided, it becomes well... its still sex, but its different. I suppose reciprocal sex is fueled by love and lust while selfish sex is just lust. Maybe some people are alright with that, but I don't find it quite as compelling.
Oh, and I hate America's stigma on virginity. It's degrading, and creates insecurities
Typical porn bores me now. Perhaps its partially the formulaic progression, but I feel that its because all too often its just the man asserting a dominant role. Yes, I know this is typically divulged through cliche "sex dialogue" and perhaps shouldn't be taken seriously, but why does it persist?
Its not even the dominance of the man that bothers me really: its just the lack of balance between the two participants... it just feels... selfish.
For me, sex is a reciprocal/symbiotic act. Pleasure for pleasure. Sensation for sensation. If sex is ever one-sided, it becomes well... its still sex, but its different. I suppose reciprocal sex is fueled by love and lust while selfish sex is just lust. Maybe some people are alright with that, but I don't find it quite as compelling.
Oh, and I hate America's stigma on virginity. It's degrading, and creates insecurities
I learned about both the opposite sex and sexual intercourse from browsing the internet and finding pictures of naked women and free online porn sites...Though later on after that my parents tried to impress upon me the idea that its a very special and intimate act to be shared only between a man and a woman who have married. And they kinda succeded, I like watching porn but I intend to wait and marry before i have sex my self
Look am not gonna hate them or shun them. I still act nice to everbody regardless.I am driven by my own set of morales and codes. When someone goes against any of them espiccialy the big ones i tend to aviod them unless there like a friend of 10 years. I just find it disgusting that people think of sex as just an act and somthing thats a naturaul step in any! replationship.Father Time said:
Met a girl once. she said she dosent really like hercurrent bf but hes great in bed so she'll keep him around a bit. Disgusting.
Sex is not a nessicary thing in life and should only be shared with your husband and or wife.
Ahah hah.thenumberthirteen said:
Well played sir, well played.
I know nothing about sex due to my lack of experience, I think the less you have sex the more fantastic the idea becomes. However it seems when you become a little more practiced its less of a "OMG SEXORz" thing and more of an intimate time between two people. Unless you're sleeping around... then it's just bumping ugly I suppose...