Sexual Experiences you've always wanted to try

[Relish in Chaos]

Well, since I?m a 17-year-old virgin?practically everything. As long as it doesn?t include anything like piss, shit, an extreme quantity of unnecessary blood, or potentially illegal activity (like being caught by the police for indecent exposure; i.e. exhibitionism ? although I guess subtle exhibitionism would be nice). But so far, the ?kinkiest? thing I?ve ever done is masturbate in the toilet of a girls? grammar school that I was doing Work Experience at. And that?s because I was really horny, which should be understandable, since practically all the girls wear short skirts.

I?m curious about trying anal sex (male or female; if I?m going to be honest, I?m somewhat bicurious), since looking at it in porn does turn me on. I once tried circling the?you know, ring, but it didn?t do anything for me. Or maybe I didn?t put it in deep enough to get pleasure from it. Either way, I haven?t tried anal stimulation since; I?m scared about sticking a finger that may or may not be lubed up enough too deep and it not actually giving me any pleasure.

Plus, I?ve heard stories from my friends who?ve done it with girls about how it can be quite painful when you think about the dick-to-tight-ass ratio, and, well?I bet that, if a future girlfriend asked me to do anal, I wouldn?t be 100% excited about sticking my dick in her shitter, even if I?d fantasize about it all the time. But hey, I?m still a virgin, and being an overly anxious overthinker, I?m even nervous about just vaginal sex (I?d probably shit myself if I ever got an STD, and I?d shit myself even more if I got pregnant).

well I am still a virgin so getting that away would be the first step.

second step would be, you know I always wanted to have sex with a Muslim girl, I don't know why as I am a atheist and have never been to fond of religion, yet I always wanted to do it with a Muslim girl.

might have something to do with the skin colour.

Maybe it's the "taboo" and/or "challenge" factor? The same reason that nun fetishization is so popular?

I'd like to try sex without the fear of my kids walking in.

I remember what it used to be like ... It was good.

Now it's "quick or they will wake up" ... not so good.

You should take a holiday just between you and your wife, leaving your children in the care of a babysitter or something. That is, if you have the time and money.

Edging. More technically known as "orgasm denial", it is a specific form of domination where they put you on the edge and keep you there for as long as they can. Now, obviously this is sort of tricky, as it requires your partner to have enough familiarity with you and your behavioral quirks to know how far is too far to push you, but from what I hear, the results are positively mind-shattering.

I've never heard of edging, but it does remind me of something - tantric sex. That is, using buddhist tantric meditation techniques that allow a man to hold himself at the edge of orgasm without actually having one.

Actually, I knew a guy who could orgasm without ejaculating. Apparently there's a point just between orgasm and ejaculation and he could get to one and then haul back and prevent the other. He could orgasm a dozen times in one night. And, when he finally let himself ejaculate, it was explosive. I've never heard a man yell louder during sex (also, he hardly made any noise at all during his non-ejaculation orgasms).

So I think "Edging" must be similar, except where tantric is the man holding himself at the edge, edging is when the partner walks that line. It certainly does sound complex. Not sure I'd have the patience for it.

Yeah, I've heard about "edging", and I've tried it myself, but I just don't have that level of sexual/masturbatory mastery yet. And eventually, I just lose my patience and wank at full speed until I climax.

 

[TheOrb]

um lets see what i always wanted to do is autofellatio and a treesome

oh, you mean this?

lol

sorry

Applause, applause for this person NOW!

Oh wow. This thread. It's going to go places. Places none of us ever wanted to actually visit.

Anyway. I've always had a bit of a thing for exhibitionism. Extrapolate further from there.

"I said my drugs would take you places. I never said they'd be places you wanted to go..."

Oh Scarecrow... you so crazy.

OT: I don't know... I'm a virgin so.. sex? I'd like to have sex with an older woman. I'd like to try a threesome, although considering the bias that says a two-woman threesome is erotic and a two-man threesome is "gay" I don't think my chances look good, without me losing face with 50% of my friends. I'd be ok with some minor ass-play like the OP (after all, prostate stimulation can lead to incredible orgasms)... Actually, you know what? I think I'd be ok with having sex with another man, provided I'm the "top". But then you get into the politics of the courtesy reach-around and I don't wanna be grabbin' penis... Back on track, I'd definitely be down for role-play/cos-play sex. I never really got Voyeurism but I was thinking about it today: "It's like being there for porn, only the men aren't hung and the women aren't making hilariously fake noises." I just read through a list of sexual fetishes... I don't feel like doin' ANY of that.

This is a lot to think about. Thanks New Guy!

Why? Why enter politics in sex!?

For me, well, sex would be a START. But generally I'm not into sex as a concept.

 

[Pieturli]

First world problems?: your penis is too big.

I have a friend who actually does consider that a problem. He gets really sensitive about it, and considers it horrendously embarrassing to have to ask for extra-large condoms when he's at the shops.

Fuckin' weird.

Actually, I remeber reading a survey about what causes problems in bed for women, and "too big" placed second, while "too small" was like 12th. It makes perfect sense I think, I mean I could imagine that it would be quite painful for a woman. Even I've had trouble "fitting" sometimes and I'm really not that big.

YES. Thank you for saying that. Bigger is not always better. Sometimes bigger hurts like a ***** and doesn't make me want to go for seconds.

OT: Ha! Sex noobs the lot of you! (I kid, I kid. I mean no offense or virgin shaming) I've done just about everything everyone else has mentioned. The only reason I haven't done more is because of how limited in resources and privacy me and my boyfriend are (I live in a college dorm, he lives with his parents while he attends college. I'm the only one with the job). But I have had a threesome, twice.

There are lots of things I'd like to do. I'd like to go through with anal, but it really, really hurts. I'd also like to peg my boyfriend, and try some BDSM. So, once we get our own place we'd probably end up doing some of that.

Your boyfriend sounds pretty lucky. Except for the pegging thing. Having a doctor shove what I'm pretty sure was most of her upper body into my ass proved conclusively that I'm not into butt stuff.

Anal is really fucking unpleasant sometimes, even for the guy. It's all about relaxation and holy shit I sound so creepy I'm going to stop now.

 

[TheOrb]

ten minute hug

Ah, yes. Snuggling. Would love to have that. Would not bother with sex if I had that.

Captcha: Let go.

 

[Wraith]

Seems like some people are afraid to share. Well, I'm not.

In the realm of possibility? Having my own harem. Like in those crappy ass mangas, where I have multiple women of different shapes, sizes and personalities fawn over every trivial thing I do and try desperately to win my favor with their bodies. I say it's in the realm of possibility, because of how often shit like that seems to happen to my friends.

Outlandish fantasy? For any and all characters in cartoon shows, manga etc. that I find attractive to climb out of their respective medium and have the horizontal monster mash with me, in a human body that best replicates their normal form.

(Of course this could be achieved by having sex with a cos player, but... it's not the same. Because I'd know it's a cheap imitation.)

There's no shame in my game.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

Yeah, I've heard about "edging", and I've tried it myself, but I just don't have that level of sexual/masturbatory mastery yet. And eventually, I just lose my patience and wank at full speed until I climax.

Um, I've never heard of this being used while masturbating. But then, I don't know that much about it.

Also - have you tried tantric meditation techniques? The aforementioned boyfriend had studied tantric meditations and techniques and apparently they helped him actually accomplish such things.

 

[newfoundsky]

Sex on a trampoline, girl on top. The ultimate ride. If I had a girlfriend I'd be doing it right now.

What if she wanted to wait till marriage or something? Then you would be doing it in the future. . . . Does that count as still doing it? Can I have a turn?

Hmmm.. . .As for me, BDSM with two female "slaves".

 

[Jynthor]

I'm going to be unoriginal and say I'd actually like to experience sex first.
But ignoring that, on a slightly more original note I always wanted to try lesbian sex, which is of course impossible since I'm a guy.

It's a cruel, cruel world.

 

[MortisLegio]

ten minute hug

Ah, yes. Snuggling. Would love to have that. Would not bother with sex if I had that.

Captcha: Let go.

So... I'm not the only one who just wants to cuddle.

 

[Fire_Drake]

I've always wanted to try sex in a hot tub. There is nothing hotter than a naked woman in a hot tub.

Concerning shower sex...
Water is not a lubricant. Even if you'll deal with slippery floor, cold tiles, height difference and everything else that can go wrong, add to it the fact that water chafes. Same for hot tub sex, and any other body of water.

Dude, stop killing my dream!

I?m curious about trying anal sex (male or female; if I?m going to be honest, I?m somewhat bicurious), since looking at it in porn does turn me on. I once tried circling the?you know, ring, but it didn?t do anything for me. Or maybe I didn?t put it in deep enough to get pleasure from it. Either way, I haven?t tried anal stimulation since; I?m scared about sticking a finger that may or may not be lubed up enough too deep and it not actually giving me any pleasure.

Dude, bisexual man here to say that anal is pretty awesome. Also male or female it feels pretty much the same.

As far as anal masturbation the sphincter isn't the important part. You gotta hit the prostate. Its like the male g-spot. Dude it will blow you mind.

Plus, I?ve heard stories from my friends who?ve done it with girls about how it can be quite painful when you think about the dick-to-tight-ass ratio, and, well?I bet that, if a future girlfriend asked me to do anal, I wouldn?t be 100% excited about sticking my dick in her shitter, even if I?d fantasize about it all the time.

You gotta stretch things out first. Sex toys help no matter if you're male or female. Also, like that one chick was saying, you gotta lube up a ton.

Anal is fucking sweet dude. You owe it to yourself to give it a try once you get with someone.

Yeah, I've heard about "edging", and I've tried it myself, but I just don't have that level of sexual/masturbatory mastery yet. And eventually, I just lose my patience and wank at full speed until I climax.

I've edged by accident before. Like I'll be reading a porn comic and then I'll reach the end of the comic before I get off. So I have to load another one and then I'm not close anymore so I have to work up to it again. Also happens in hentai comics with a lot of story between the sex scenes. I'll be reading along with the plot and cool down then get hot when the action does then cool down again. That goes on til I hit a super hot one and BAM awesome orgasm.

Also I've done the thing where my fiancee and I will be having sex and I'll think I'm there and pull out but I'm not quite there yet so I wait a second and then we keep going. That kinda frustrates her though so she usually tells me to just put a condom on if I do that like more than once.

 

[TilMorrow]

*Cringes at the thread* I hope these aren't going to increase in intensity as a popular topic now. I'm getting out of here before I'm stuck on the bus that people have already said that is taking this thread to strange and wonderful places.

OT: I guess I've always wanted to try Sax. It's a cool instrument. Wait, am I doing this right?

 

[Theminimanx]

Sex, me?
Lets work on getting a girlfriend first, then we'll talk about what comes after.

You should take a holiday just between you and your wife, leaving your children in the care of a babysitter or something. That is, if you have the time and money.

You are now making me question every single time my parents left the house to "have dinner together". Thanks man.

I want Natalie Portman to sit on my face.

Spoiler: Here you go.

I had to.

 

[Iron_will]

Well, there is one thing I have always fantasized about which is obviously completely impossible (sigh).

Having sex while being the woman in the situation.

 

[Dr Pussymagnet]

Have a fully clothed woman sit on my face as she tells me my life is going nowhere and I'm a disappointment.

 

[Pinkamena]

Any sort would probably be nice. I am not picky.

 

[6_Qubed]

Edging. More technically known as "orgasm denial", it is a specific form of domination where they put you on the edge and keep you there for as long as they can. Now, obviously this is sort of tricky, as it requires your partner to have enough familiarity with you and your behavioral quirks to know how far is too far to push you, but from what I hear, the results are positively mind-shattering.

I've never heard of edging, but it does remind me of something - tantric sex. That is, using buddhist tantric meditation techniques that allow a man to hold himself at the edge of orgasm without actually having one.

Actually, I knew a guy who could orgasm without ejaculating. Apparently there's a point just between orgasm and ejaculation and he could get to one and then haul back and prevent the other. He could orgasm a dozen times in one night. And, when he finally let himself ejaculate, it was explosive. I've never heard a man yell louder during sex (also, he hardly made any noise at all during his non-ejaculation orgasms).

So I think "Edging" must be similar, except where tantric is the man holding himself at the edge, edging is when the partner walks that line. It certainly does sound complex. Not sure I'd have the patience for it.

OH BOY I AM HAVING THIS CONVERSATION 8D

From what I can tell, we are talking about exactly the same thing, just using two different names for it. Orgasm control can be done alone or with a partner, but I would imagine it's harder (HA!) to do by yourself, largely because of whether or not the Controlled has the patience for it. Hence, I would prefer to have a partner to monitor it from the outside because I have almost no patience or willpower naturally.

Another fun thing to try would be public domination. Not like whips and leather where everyone can see it, but subtle stuff. Sneaky stuff. No panties and an egg vibrator taped in place. Long sleeved coat and hands cuffed behind the back. Knee-length skirt with the knees tied together, and all of it while grocery shopping! With a bit of imagination, you can have a lot of fun.

See, I've heard of that and I really don't get the appeal. Why would I want to be horny at the grocery store if I can't actually have orgasms there? I know this turns people on, and they do it, but I just don't get this one. No fault to those who do.

OH BOY I AM HAVING THIS CONVERSATION AS WELL 8D

(I'm having fun with this, is it obvious?)

The appeal, to my understanding, has to do mainly with frustration. That is, a buildup of sexual energy and arousal without any actual release. The person being dominated might actually have orgasms, but they would be so focused on not giving themselves away that they couldn't let go and fully enjoy themselves. The idea here is that when you finally get your poor little toy home, they will have been driven to a garment-rending lust. But then, if you started edging them, that'd just be mean. >:3

Personally, my play activity of choice is roleplaying. ^^

OH BOY I AM... actually, now it's my turn to not get the appeal. What's the point of pretending to be someone else? Like, the "sexy librarian" thing for example. To my reckoning, the appeal there would be having your little adventure in a library. Or maybe I'm just projecting my public fantasies. And more generally, the conventional fantasy roles all strike me as some form of Domination/submission or another, with the role changing the relationship. And if D/s is your aim, why bother with the roleplaying?

 

[Loethlin]

1) Double penetration. With two actual men. I've done it with one man and a sex toy, so I have the basic idea, but I'm curious and would like to experience the real thing.

I've tried that. Better with a sex toy. Guys couldn't coordinate properly and I just got bored. I thought it'd be so much fun, but sadly it wasn't. Maybe if you can find guys who actually can coordinate, it'll be better for you.

Concerning shower sex...
Water is not a lubricant. Even if you'll deal with slippery floor, cold tiles, height difference and everything else that can go wrong, add to it the fact that water chafes. Same for hot tub sex, and any other body of water.

Dude, stop killing my dream!

Sorry, Dude. It's worth trying, but you'll be sore or disappointed or both. But how else will you learn?

Ahah. Not what I think about it, I don't actually have anything I'd like to try anymore. Which is either very sad or very disturbing. All I wish for is for the guys doing me like doggystyle more.

 

[prophecy2514]

Sex on a trampoline, girl on top. The ultimate ride. If I had a girlfriend I'd be doing it right now.

What if she wanted to wait till marriage or something? Then you would be doing it in the future. . . . Does that count as still doing it? Can I have a turn?

Hmmm.. . .As for me, BDSM with two female "slaves".

If she wanted to wait til marriage then she would quickly go from being my girlfriend to being single again, this in non negotiable.

and can you have a turn?