Sexual Partners

[sorry user name taken.]

I don't think it matters you're with that person ''only' and everyone has different experiences look at Russel brand for god sake apparently he's slept with 1000 women...((apparently)) and katy perry doesn't same to care '

its between you two only any way if you let a problem like that bother you then you won't get any where...I'm not saying how many I've had all that matters is who I'm with now and that's ''smilingkitsune'' ^_^

 

[quiet_samurai]

Twenty-nine exactly. I can recall each and evey one of them, these are women that I have actually had intercourse with, I don't really count oral. Maybe I should though, then that would put it at 43. And as far as girls that I've just made out with out fooled around.... yeah I couldn't tell you, I'm kind of a kissing whore.

I'm like you OP, to some it would seem like I'm a slut but I have friends that have cleared the 100 mark and beyond. I have other friends that are as low as two or three. However I'm not one of those guys that would put another down for something like that, If you wanna sling it around for anyone to have or keep it for one person then that's your business.

Getting lots of sex from lots of people has it's advantages and yet has it's disadvantages, it just depends on which suits your taste.

And to clarify, I'm 27 yrs old and lost my V-card at 16. But I had a pretty big dry spell between that and 18. Once I moved out of my parents house though and went to college, the longest I've gone without it is about 4-5 months.

EDIT: Heres a neat litle article I just read today that sorta contributes to this thread.

http://www.cnn.com/2010/OPINION/07/27/ryan.promiscuity.normal/index.html?hpt=C2

 

[Dexiro]

My views on it are a little awkward.

I have a really relaxed/playful attitude towards sex but at the same time i'd only want to do it with someone i'm really good friends with. I'm not quick to judge but i'd be a bit cautious if someone was having over 2 partners per year, i'd get to know them better first though of course :3

I'm still at 0 sadly, only gay guys i know are kinda feminine D:

 

[sorry user name taken.]

Here's another question here: What constitutes a high number? Is 10 high? 5? 30?

i'd say 30... but are you saying ''sleeping together'' or..''fooling around'' might lower the numbers a bit

 

[DazZ.]

Does a 1 night stand count as a sexual partner? Or do you mean proper sexual partners?

If you start including all the one night stands of a persons life I don't see how you could remember the exact amount.

 

[comadorcrack]

Here's another question here: What constitutes a high number? Is 10 high? 5? 30?

Good question.
My girlfriend has only ever slept with me, And I've slept with 5 people including her.
I'd hardly say that's a high number, but perception is perception.

 

[Lord Mountbatten Reborn]

0 sexes.

There's no stopping me now!

 

[PrinceTyke]

0

Yay! Not that it's for a lack of trying. I can't say I have strong opinions regarding either sluts or prudes. However many people they stuck it in/stuck inside them is their business.

Me too, yet another 0. And I try too, although I'm just 16. All of my girl friends (friends that happen to be girls, that is) "like the idea of us being just friends" better... And, yeah, if it's someone I don't plan on having any sort of intimacy with, I don't care. But as far as the intimate ones, I don't have any experience, so I really wouldn't know...

 

[Celtic_Kerr]

I've had no sexual partners. You might almost say I'm saving myself at the moment until I find the right one for me. Not that I'll try to...you know...with that person as soon as I meet them. If they want to, I'll do it, but not until then.

I think a high number isn't a good thing. But if that's just the mates you've had, that makes it a bit more okay. If it's the number of people you've slept with just to sleep with them, then...yeah. Not good. I don't really know what I'd consider a high number.

My 10-12 in a year and 4 months is pretty high, and in retrospect I regret the one nighters that got me there. Without them I'd be at 3... I hate really bad break ups

 

[MiracleOfSound]

Uh, somewhere between 30 and 35.

I was a huge slut before I met my lady.

Add to that the fact that I was usually in long term relationships so most of those happened in the space of 2-3 years.

 

[Nmil-ek]

Enough to look like a stud by comparison to these other numbers.

 

[child of lileth]

7. I've had way more relationships, but not all of them get serious enough for that.

For me, I don't really even want to hear how many people the person has been with. As long as they were safe about it, weren't an actual slut about it, and get tested regularly, I'm fine with them.

 

[JediMB]

0.

Spent the first 22 years of my life not really caring about sex or relationships.

In hindsight? Not a good thing, for various reasons.

 

[Blueruler182]

None, but I'm 18, so that's not too bad. I've had the opportunity twice, the first time I was just too afraid to move forward and the second one I was afraid she'd cut my throat after. Fun times...

And at 28, 10 isn't that high a number, I don't think. 30, definitely, but not 10. Not low, but not high.

 

[SmilingKitsune]

So far I've only slept with one person, my girlfriend Rachel, and I wouldn't have any regrets if it stayed that way ^_^.

 

[BonsaiK]

I'm not saying my number, and in fact I'm not even sure what it is because I don't know where the "sexual partner" line is drawn. Sometimes that line can get pretty hazy.

Someone's experience level doesn't factor at all into my decision about whether I'd want to be with a person. I don't think it really changes the quality of things either, unless you're dealing with a complete novice, because let's face it no-one is good at anything the first few times. That's okay though because novices can be trained...

 

[fluffybunny937]

0
I turn 19 soon, so it's not like I'm the 40 year old virgin, yet. But then again every woman alive is smart not to sleep with me. I'm not in any way good looking; quite hairy(everywhere), overweight, nothing special in waist down area (but then again they can't know that since I don't take off my pants in front of them), face isn't appealing to look at, I'm not that interesting to talk to, Horrible at jokes. So yeah, I kind of suck.

 

[conflictofinterests]

5 clinical relationships, only 1 of them was penis-in-vagina. Though I may regret some of my oral encounters, I don't think I'll ever feel even remotely bad in my choice of sex partners. I'm not particularly inclined to increase my number now, but me and my boyfriend have a pretty open sex life, and that could involve picking up a temp here or there.

 

[IckleMissMayhem]

If you start including all the one night stands of a persons life I don't see how you could remember the exact amount.

Depends on how many a person has!

As for me, my "magic number" is 4. I don't think that's so bad for someone who's been sexually active for 6 years. (Although I've been with my current partner for 4 years now.)

Someone's experience level doesn't factor at all into my decision about whether I'd want to be with a person. I don't think it really changes the quality of things either, unless you're dealing with a complete novice, because let's face it no-one is good at anything the first few times. That's okay though because novices can be trained...

Well said!!