Sexuality / Being uptight
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1)As long as it's a big fucking bed.
2)Kind of, I mean I make jokes about porn with my friends, so yeah, I'm pretty open about sex.
3)Depends on the person. If they polity ask me to change the subject, then I will. If they call me a heathen, time for the pedophilia/necrophilia/really fucked up sex jokes; and boy do I have a lot.
2)Kind of, I mean I make jokes about porn with my friends, so yeah, I'm pretty open about sex.
3)Depends on the person. If they polity ask me to change the subject, then I will. If they call me a heathen, time for the pedophilia/necrophilia/really fucked up sex jokes; and boy do I have a lot.
1.1) Would you share your bed with a person of the same sex?
Well, my bed is a single, but I understand the point of the question.
If I'm in a situation that necessitates the sharing of a bed, I will not sleep, because it means that either I am at a friend's house, or they are at mine. I cannot sleep in such circumstances (Unless I have a reason for being tired already), due to severe trust problems. I have no qualms about being in the same bed as someone, though- it's no different to sitting next to them.
1.2) If no, what bothers you about it?
N/A
2) Can you openly talk about sex or sexuality?
Yes, but no one appreciates it, so I don't.
3) How do you act around up-tight people?
I try to correct their erroneous opinions. Yes, I am stating that not all opinions are equal, because they are not. I'd end that with an "That's just my opinion, OK?", to stop people arguing with me, but that would look foolish.
Remember, if I know that they are uptight, they are clearly in some way infringing on my rights to act the way I do, as I am not one to pry. I don't just stroll up to people and tell them to shape up.
Well, my bed is a single, but I understand the point of the question.
If I'm in a situation that necessitates the sharing of a bed, I will not sleep, because it means that either I am at a friend's house, or they are at mine. I cannot sleep in such circumstances (Unless I have a reason for being tired already), due to severe trust problems. I have no qualms about being in the same bed as someone, though- it's no different to sitting next to them.
1.2) If no, what bothers you about it?
N/A
2) Can you openly talk about sex or sexuality?
Yes, but no one appreciates it, so I don't.
3) How do you act around up-tight people?
I try to correct their erroneous opinions. Yes, I am stating that not all opinions are equal, because they are not. I'd end that with an "That's just my opinion, OK?", to stop people arguing with me, but that would look foolish.
Remember, if I know that they are uptight, they are clearly in some way infringing on my rights to act the way I do, as I am not one to pry. I don't just stroll up to people and tell them to shape up.
1.1) Ya I've done it before, as long as we don't wake up spooning it doesn't really matter
2) Me and my friends always talk abotu sex in fact its the only thing we ever talk about... mind you none of us are actually participating in it but we all wish we were.
3) I just don't talk about stuff if they don't want to, I know who is and who isn't comfortable about talking about such things so I watch who I'm around.
2) Me and my friends always talk abotu sex in fact its the only thing we ever talk about... mind you none of us are actually participating in it but we all wish we were.
3) I just don't talk about stuff if they don't want to, I know who is and who isn't comfortable about talking about such things so I watch who I'm around.
1) Yes. But I'm also gay...I guess I would also share my bed with a woman? That's the closest parallel I can really draw.
2) If contextually appropriate, I don't mind talking about it at all.
3) I don't change much at all. If they have a problem with me somehow, I just reign it in a little with them. I don't think it's an issue of compromising my identity - politeness and social adaptation are part of my identity.
Also, I'm guessing that girl was fairly young ("creepy" is a strange word to use there - if she had strong convictions from religion or some such, I'd expect a stronger word, otherwise I'd just expect her not to care). Either way, I'm also guessing you're NOT American by the way you mentioned that and it should probably be noted that (at least young) American's are not, by and large, the prudes significant portions of Europe seem to think we are.
2) If contextually appropriate, I don't mind talking about it at all.
3) I don't change much at all. If they have a problem with me somehow, I just reign it in a little with them. I don't think it's an issue of compromising my identity - politeness and social adaptation are part of my identity.
Also, I'm guessing that girl was fairly young ("creepy" is a strange word to use there - if she had strong convictions from religion or some such, I'd expect a stronger word, otherwise I'd just expect her not to care). Either way, I'm also guessing you're NOT American by the way you mentioned that and it should probably be noted that (at least young) American's are not, by and large, the prudes significant portions of Europe seem to think we are.
1. I'm bi, so I'm more than comfortable with others, though I feel guys are hesitant. Y'know, homophobia and what-not.
2. Yep! Not disturbed by it in the least.
3. Try to be respectful, unless they're judging me, in which case I make it my mission to make them as awkward as possible.
2. Yep! Not disturbed by it in the least.
3. Try to be respectful, unless they're judging me, in which case I make it my mission to make them as awkward as possible.
1.1 I m strait, but I would and I have shared a bed with other women. I would rather sleep on a
bed than the floor or a couch. It really is no big deal to me. I have even slept next to my
gay female friends. That has only been a problem once when a not so close friend decided
she need to feel me up. That was annoying.
1.2 N/A
2. I am not a very open person in general, but among the people I trust I am completely
comfortable talking about my sexuality. Some would say too comfortable.
3. I find uptight people annoying. I usually avoid them, but if in the right mood, I may be
inclined to mess with them.
bed than the floor or a couch. It really is no big deal to me. I have even slept next to my
gay female friends. That has only been a problem once when a not so close friend decided
she need to feel me up. That was annoying.
1.2 N/A
2. I am not a very open person in general, but among the people I trust I am completely
comfortable talking about my sexuality. Some would say too comfortable.
3. I find uptight people annoying. I usually avoid them, but if in the right mood, I may be
inclined to mess with them.
1) Would you share your bed with a person of the same sex?
This might be different because I'm a girl, but I've shared a bed with several of my friends. (In a non-sexual way) sometimes more than 2 of us in the same bed.
2) If no, what bothers you about it?
2) Can you openly talk about sex or sexuality?
NO. I get embarrassed really easily. I can't even say the word sex to most people. I'm not so bad on forums, but real life? nuh-uh.
3) How do you act around up-tight people?
Hmn? I don't really know.
This might be different because I'm a girl, but I've shared a bed with several of my friends. (In a non-sexual way) sometimes more than 2 of us in the same bed.
2) If no, what bothers you about it?
2) Can you openly talk about sex or sexuality?
NO. I get embarrassed really easily. I can't even say the word sex to most people. I'm not so bad on forums, but real life? nuh-uh.
3) How do you act around up-tight people?
Hmn? I don't really know.
We Americans are pretty uptight when it comes to sexuality It's what we're programmed to think as you can see with our laws and history when it comes to that sort of thing. It's quite sad.
1. If I had to, then yeah I won't have a problem with it. I've done it in the past and if you really think about it, you're going to be unconscious anyway so what's the difference? My only problem would be if the other person woke me up, but that's regardless of gender.
3. Sex is sex. There is nothing really special about it. It just happens to be idolized more or less depending on what kind of society you live in, for example, here in America it just happens to be the big score because of how it is viewed in our society.
I usually don't talk about it because, being American myself I run the risk of running into those that are uptight or idolize it and I figure I'd save myself the headache, unless of course it is brought up by some one else then sure, I'll talk about anything really.
4. I don't act any different, why should I let some one who is uptight about something change the way I would act. If we're talking about some one being uptight in terms of sexuality, chances are they won't bring up the topic in the first place so once again I save myself the trouble by not doing so either. Though if they did, then conversation ahoy, maybe then I will get a read on why they are uptight in the first place.
1. If I had to, then yeah I won't have a problem with it. I've done it in the past and if you really think about it, you're going to be unconscious anyway so what's the difference? My only problem would be if the other person woke me up, but that's regardless of gender.
3. Sex is sex. There is nothing really special about it. It just happens to be idolized more or less depending on what kind of society you live in, for example, here in America it just happens to be the big score because of how it is viewed in our society.
I usually don't talk about it because, being American myself I run the risk of running into those that are uptight or idolize it and I figure I'd save myself the headache, unless of course it is brought up by some one else then sure, I'll talk about anything really.
4. I don't act any different, why should I let some one who is uptight about something change the way I would act. If we're talking about some one being uptight in terms of sexuality, chances are they won't bring up the topic in the first place so once again I save myself the trouble by not doing so either. Though if they did, then conversation ahoy, maybe then I will get a read on why they are uptight in the first place.
Let's take the questions one at a time
So long as he keeps his pants on I don't think I'd have any problem with ithyperhammy said:
With most people yes
Depends entirely on what you mean by up-tight.
1. I see absolutely no problem with sleeping in the same bed as another male.
2. I can, though I prefer not to. I don't have any qualms about it, there's just better things to talk about.
3. Around uptight people, I just act as I usually do. Leaves more than a few uncomfortable.
2. I can, though I prefer not to. I don't have any qualms about it, there's just better things to talk about.
3. Around uptight people, I just act as I usually do. Leaves more than a few uncomfortable.
1) No... simply because I like my space.
2) Sorta.
I'd go into detail and explain what I mean by that, but I'm not comfortable doing so. <.<
3) How do you mean up-tight? If you mean uncomfortable to be talking about sexuality, well, I just said I am one of those people, so I'm not going to conflict with them at all. If you mean sexually conservative, anti-homosexuality etc., then I'm likely to get into an argument with them.
2) Sorta.
I'd go into detail and explain what I mean by that, but I'm not comfortable doing so. <.<
3) How do you mean up-tight? If you mean uncomfortable to be talking about sexuality, well, I just said I am one of those people, so I'm not going to conflict with them at all. If you mean sexually conservative, anti-homosexuality etc., then I'm likely to get into an argument with them.
1.I don't care and ever will. As long as he has some clothes on...
2.Depends on who it is.
3.I try and respect them, but if they make the first move, they'll be sleeping on the floor! Of course this is when I have to be around them in situations like that. But in life I just try and respect their views. Or I sometimes fire the first shot.
2.Depends on who it is.
3.I try and respect them, but if they make the first move, they'll be sleeping on the floor! Of course this is when I have to be around them in situations like that. But in life I just try and respect their views. Or I sometimes fire the first shot.
1. I've done it before. Didn't bother me.
2. See 1
3. I'm somewhat open. As open as someone who has never done it can be.
4. Well, with them, sex never comes up.
2. See 1
3. I'm somewhat open. As open as someone who has never done it can be.
4. Well, with them, sex never comes up.
1.1)Ya, I'd be cool with either gender. To be honest, I wouldn't trust my actions around people of opposite gender.
1.2)See 1.1.
2)Ya sure, what's the big deal?
3)I usually think that maybe they don't want to talk about sexuality to compensate for their inability to decide what their own sexuality is. I let it go.
1.2)See 1.1.
2)Ya sure, what's the big deal?
3)I usually think that maybe they don't want to talk about sexuality to compensate for their inability to decide what their own sexuality is. I let it go.
1.1) I have. I really don't mind sharing a bed as long as it is big enough. I will admit the intimacy in the relationship does effect my tolerance of how big the bed can be.hyperhammy said:
1.2)N/A
2) Yes
3) Depends if I like them. If someone is uptight and I don't like them I will do everything in my power to make them uncomfortable. If I like them then I will bring it up offhandedly or when it fits the situation.
Lol, what? Are we living in the same America? In the America I live in I flip to a random channel, wait five minutes, and see someone using their sex appeal to sell something. Let's not get started on movies either.snowfox said:
