Jarimir said:
Playboy and Playgirl look quite a lot alike to me.
We don't have Playgirl Magazine over here so I can't comment on that. Also, playboy is not erotic magazine, it's magazine targeted at men with some light erotic content.
Jarimir said:
Apparently, some people will never see the point until men are objectified and demeaned every bit as much and as often as women have been. So, that is what I am rooting for. If you have to literally have your nose rubbed in shit for you to understand what shit is, then BATHE in it!
Men are "objectified" almost as much as women are (you cant objectify image, only real person) but men don't pay as much attention as women do. We don't call is sexist but stupid. And weather we like it or not is irrelevant, it has it's audience and does not hurt anyone who doesn'h have issues already.
Jarimir said:
I no longer care if it is also sexist or just as bad or even worse. If this makes me an evil person, then so be it. I am evil,
Grow an evil mustache and tie a woman to trail rails
Jarimir said:
When I first started reading/commenting on these "feminism in games" threads I thought it was a relatively simple and benign thing to say "Hey could we get some more games that don't have gratuitous heterosexual male sex appeal and/or use women as a quest item?" But apparently not. Apparently the glue that holds the universe together is giving adolescent-minded heterosexual gamer nerds exclusive consideration when making games, and God damn anyone to the lowest circle of hell for suggesting that such a narrow minded and lazy design ethic is in any way bad, unfair, undesirable, or harmful. And how dare any of us call that "sexist" because feminists around the world are trying to take our rights away.
And here we have you yourself contradicting yourself. I said over and over again that more active women in games, more well written and well rounded female characters is something wee all want. As long as you promote this, we are in agreement.
But then you switch to removing of certain storyline, mechanics and roles, Censorship is bad by default. I will stand for anyone's right to create anything, no matter how offensive it is. As you call for removal of certain things, i will fight for authors rights and against you. You can ridicule any work, criticize it and nitpick to no end. If you do that I will fight for your right to do that. Plain and simple.
Jarimir said:
Yup- my give a damn just broke... Even though I've grown up playing video games since 1980, all I have to do is go to a store to realize I have no interest in most games being made, marketed, or designed. I attribute some of this to the fact that I GREW UP. I don't care if games are sexist, and I certainly don't care how hard you want to fight to prove that they aren't. I don't care what other people ask for or the reasoning behind the request.
I am going to have to try to avoid these forums. By that I mean all forums. All they do is get me worked up over shit that ultimately doesn't matter. On top of that I get to read pages of text from people that just like to hear themselves speak.
If you don't like my long, rambling and incohesive response, well, that is what you get for butting in on the tail end of a conversation I was having with someone else.
Well, that is your personal decision. If you want to go, it's what you feel is best for you. Also, I don't mind scatter-gun approach to responses.
But, What I try to do here is point out to people that there are far more contexts in which these this potential problems should and must be viewed. Female perspective of affecting feelings and possible effects of it's influence on gender views of gamers is only small part of much bigger picture. Causes, reasons, other perspectives and facts are at least equally if not more important to scrutinize. Whenever is any subject viewed form single perspective and in one single context, false conclusions are bound to surface.
To answer your question "should feminism and gaming mix?" my answer is of course. Games are medium, and medium should be free for anyone and anything. Including things I agree with, I oppose and I don't care about. As long as there are no calls for restricting or censorship of medium, I'll stand for anyone's fight to use it. But that's the idea, USE it, not ABUSE it.