Should I dump my girlfriend?

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Saviordd1

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Quiet Stranger said:
Okay so here's the story, I'll try to include all the details. Today my girlfriend and I were suppose to hang out, (okay well yesterday, as in Saturday) we had made plans in advanced and she knew this, so what does she do? She goes to go mountain climbing with a friend but doesn't even bother to tell me, I have to hear it from her mother, oh and she didn't forget, trust me.

According to my mother, my girlfriend has done this many times before (we've been together twice)

So yeah, anyone hear think I should break up with her? Also if it's anything extra, when she was sick with strep throat and laryngitis (and swine flu when it was going around two years ago) I hung out with her all the time, I didn't care if I got sick, I want to be there for her, you know, if she needed anything or just didn't want to be lonely. So when I get sick she doesn't even want to come over.
Honestly fuck relationships

On topic i would discuss it with her first before getting to conclusions
 

Bill_Stanbrook

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My take on this is that, if you have to ask on a forum if you should dump your girlfriend then she should probably be dumping you.
 

MyFooThurTS

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She's obviously not marriage material and you did say you've been with her for over 2 years, so... gtfo there while you still have a small window of opportunity!
 

Levitas1234

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Put yourself in her shoes, wouldn't you rather go mountain climbing with a buddy rather then spend time with you?
 

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One Hit Noob said:
One thing you need to ask yourself. Did she ever made you feel happy?
Probably in a sexual way, and that should be good enough to not dump her. If not then dump that ***** and spend your money on booze and your time at parties.
 

Klagermeister

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Hey, I know what it's like. My girlfriend never truly trusted me.
Mind you, the situation was much greater than the one you're in, but from experience I'll tell you this:

She's not worth running around and forgiving every damn time. She obviously doesn't trust or care to tell things to you.
Hell, if she can't tell you to reschedule, what makes you think she'll tell you when the shit really hits the fan?

By your tone, this relationship is obviously not something you want. Drop it and move on.
 

Biosophilogical

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badgersprite said:
If you have to ask the question, then you probably already know the answer.
Pretty much. I mean seriously, what's the point of entering into, and maintain, a monogamous relationship with someone if you don't even know if you want to be with them? I mean seriously, what is the point (don't you dare say sex!)?

If you feel like the relationship isn't right, then you probably shouldn't be in the relationship (there are very few exceptions to this rule).
 

Cory Legros

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You hung around her and risked Swine Flew? So she is worth that much to you? if she is you should try and patch things up. Maybe you did that because you wanted somebody to be worth that much to you. Try and think these things threw. Both of them I mean.
 

Not George Carlin

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Looks like you need advice from the master...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3DOvq8FsiUE&feature=fvwrel

[it's a joke, take it seriously and you'll be on Cops before you know it]
 

OneEyeX

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Quiet Stranger said:
Oh and she didn't forget, trust me.
I'm gonna need some trust exercises here. I'm going to fall backwards out of my chair, you run over and catch me.

Quiet Stranger said:
According to my mother, my girlfriend has done this many times before (we've been together twice)
OH GOD EVERYTHING HURTS WHY DIDN'T YOU CATCH ME.

Quiet Stranger said:
So yeah, anyone hear think I should break up with her? Also if it's anything extra, when she was sick with strep throat and laryngitis (and swine flu when it was going around two years ago) I hung out with her all the time, I didn't care if I got sick, I want to be there for her, you know, if she needed anything or just didn't want to be lonely. So when I get sick she doesn't even want to come over.
Here's my advice, I read this and my Mature-o-meter didn't even tick. Not even a little. My advice is simple; if a girl wants to rock climbing one day, that's fine. Really, if I forgot I had to hang out with my partner and went rock climbing once; that's a mistake, I owe an apology but if they break-up with me then they are clearly too insecure and needy.

Thus; stop being needy and get some pragmatism. This isn't a big deal, hardly worth anyones time.

Also; lrn2catch me. Jeez.