Unless you truly feel that this is a relationship worth keeping, and she genuinely loves you back, dump her. Don't drag out relationships that you know won't hold, it only makes it more painful when they break.
Should I dump my girlfriend?
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This seems like the most likely answer. If you feel it necissary, ask her is she has a problem with your relationship, that leads her to leaving without notifying you.L3m0n_L1m3 said:
Just my suggestion.
Communication is the key to every relationship. My fiance and I almost split after 4 years of being together over what would have been "irreconcilable differences" but as it turns out they weren't "irreconcilable" after all. We just needed to talk and make very small adjustments.Quiet Stranger said:
This sounds exactly like something that happened to my best friend, only his GF lied to him and me so that she could go dancing with another dude.
OT: Dog, fuck dat *****. she clearly not got a very high opinion of you if she blowing off your pre-made plans to go hang out with some friend. Maybe like long-lost hasn't seen in 18 years shows up out of the blue friend, but normal friend hell nah. If she had told you, it'd be different. Is her friend a heterosexual dude? then definitely break her up,she cheatin on your ass or bout to be.
OT: Dog, fuck dat *****. she clearly not got a very high opinion of you if she blowing off your pre-made plans to go hang out with some friend. Maybe like long-lost hasn't seen in 18 years shows up out of the blue friend, but normal friend hell nah. If she had told you, it'd be different. Is her friend a heterosexual dude? then definitely break her up,she cheatin on your ass or bout to be.
wut? How is that a prize?Impluse_101 said:Your prize!Vampire cat said:
But I completely agree, if you are asking people if you should then you are too in doubt to really be in this relationship
It's renamon, sporting a lovely shade of red. Also she apparently doesn't brush her teeth very often.Vampire cat said:I... Can't tell what that is.Impluse_101 said:Your prize!
yeah sorry but if you made these plans a while back then she pulls this shit and she has done this shit before it's time to kick a ***** to the curb son
IMO i wouldnt be asking others what you should be doing about this...... its your choice dude, and your choice alone!
OH DEAR GOD!! IS THAT RENAMON!???? WHAT THE HELL HAPPENED TO HER!!?Impluse_101 said:Your prize!Vampire cat said:
OT: Talk to her about it
She sounds like a really annoying person. Just saying. But yeah, I'd probably have broken up with her already if it's been happening before.
'Cos it sounds like she's deliberately trying to avoid you, so what's the point?
'Cos it sounds like she's deliberately trying to avoid you, so what's the point?
It's a bit difficult to assume that she's going to do everything for you that you do for her - that's sounds bad, but bear with me. She may not consider coming over to see you even though you're sick to be something you do for your loved ones without thinking about it. Me, I'd be worried you'd think I was clingy and overcompensating, not to mention strep throat is an awful thing to get. Not everyone will automatically give you what you would automatically give them; it's a fact of life.
However, blowing you off without telling you is pretty bitchy. I'd say talk to her about why she it; try to come to an understanding. But if in the end it doesn't work, forcing it to work is a bad idea; I tried that with my sister for two long miserable years and it is hellish. Breaking it off quickly when you need to is less painful than slowly dragging yourself over a road of glass for a considerable chunk of your life.
However, blowing you off without telling you is pretty bitchy. I'd say talk to her about why she it; try to come to an understanding. But if in the end it doesn't work, forcing it to work is a bad idea; I tried that with my sister for two long miserable years and it is hellish. Breaking it off quickly when you need to is less painful than slowly dragging yourself over a road of glass for a considerable chunk of your life.
As a woman with a high school psychology course under her belt I say talk to her, first alone, then maybe get her to talk with both you and your mother.
Tell her what's been going on, what you feel, etc, and see how she reacts.
If she understands and tries to work things out with you, you could salvage the relationship
If she makes excuses and seems uncomfortable or annoyed by the extra time she must now spend with you then you should end the relationship now before you get hurt worse.
Good luck man. Good luck.
Tell her what's been going on, what you feel, etc, and see how she reacts.
If she understands and tries to work things out with you, you could salvage the relationship
If she makes excuses and seems uncomfortable or annoyed by the extra time she must now spend with you then you should end the relationship now before you get hurt worse.
Good luck man. Good luck.
As others have said, you need to sit down and talk to her, not us. If this was a one time thing, then I can see it as something hurtful, but nothing I would think requires breaking up over. Perhaps she purely forgot, though you said you know she didn't [as fact] so you clearly know something we do not, which is another problem; we're not you, we don't know your girlfriend and we obviously do not know any of the circumstances that surround your relationship with this individual.
Sit down and talk to her. If this was just one instance, treat it as such and give her the benefit of the doubt unless you have bulletproof evidence to support otherwise. If this is a reoccurring theme, then you need to address it as a more serious matter. If it quacks like a duck, walks like a moose and looks like a pig, then you clearly don't know what you're dealing with until you figure out the underlying reason for her ditching you, that being intentional or unintentional. Only then can you know which animal it is and how to go about it. Best of luck.
Sit down and talk to her. If this was just one instance, treat it as such and give her the benefit of the doubt unless you have bulletproof evidence to support otherwise. If this is a reoccurring theme, then you need to address it as a more serious matter. If it quacks like a duck, walks like a moose and looks like a pig, then you clearly don't know what you're dealing with until you figure out the underlying reason for her ditching you, that being intentional or unintentional. Only then can you know which animal it is and how to go about it. Best of luck.
