This right here....i quit my job before i had another one...yeah it was a weekend thing...easy but a pain in the ass...and iwas out of a job for about a year...find a job first then drop this "boss"...oh and report her every step of the way...just because you cankhaimera said:Find a new job first. You may regret quitting later when you're broke.
MadeinHell said:I've been working at a gas station of a company I will not name for almost 4 months now. The first month it was a really nice job, not extremely well payed but I live with my parents so I don't really have to pay for a flat or food. Anyway, as I said first month it was a really good job. My boss was good and helpful, workmates were nice and friendly and overall it was a nice job experience. But 3 months ago a new "boss" came to us and instantly everything went down the shitter.
Not only is this boss annoying, and ungrateful for everything we do. She also considers herself a master of "mobbing" her employees. And I really mean it, in 3 months our scores fell down badly (we were one of the top stations in the region and now we are one of the worst) and both me and my co-workers are just tired and pissed off about what's going on. I'm considering leaving the job but my family suggests that I should at least start looking for a new job first and than "maybe" leave. Quite frankly I don't want to. After what has been going on for the last 3 months I'm mentally and physically exhausted.
Literally I feel like shit. When I started the job I felt good when I was going there to work, I knew like today I was going to earn myself some money, but now... now I just don't care.
As an example of what kind of person my boss is let's say this little story from yesterday/this morning (night shift). We got a huge delivery at about 2AM (Me and my co-worker). And by huge I mean HUGE, like at least 2 times too big for our magazine. We had to work our asses off for 5 hours carrying lot's of heavy stuff which would normally not be necessary. Why was it necessary? Because our boss decided that we need a HUGE delivery in case WW3 happens or something, I don't know... even the delivery guy was surprised as to how much stuff we got. After we were finished we were tied but had the feeling of a job well done. Than out of nowhere (at 7am) came our boss.
First thing I hear? "Why the fuck are the toilets not clean?!" (and I DID clean them) "What the fuck were you doing all night? Get to work", than I pointed out at what we did and said that I'm going home cause my shift ends at 7am "You are not going anywhere until you do this this and this" (about 2 hours of work and I was already after a 12 hour shift). Than I just couldn't hold it any longer. I literally exploded in front of my boss throwing curse words I didn't even know existed and getting myself to the edge of crying (and I'm not a person who just bursts out crying whenever I hurt my pinky). And I got out of there as soon as I could.
This thing made me realise what wreck of a person I have became, exhausted, easily annoyed and probably depressed.
I want to quit. Only I don't know if I really should. Getting a job is not really easy nowadays and this one pays well for my needs.
I just... I just don't know if I'm just overreacting or do I have serious reasons to leave.
Please help guys
PS. It's not like it's my first job. It's just the first one that caused such... "feelings" in me, literally I never wanted to punch somebody so hard as my boss now.
The above is excellent advice. Start looking for another job TODAY.khaimera said:Find a new job first. You may regret quitting later when you're broke.
Indeed.BGH122 said:Know what this thread made me realise? No-one even bothers to read half way down the first page.
I'm glad you found a new job and got away from that wretched hag.