Phasmal said:My point WAS that being huge is hard work.verdant monkai said:I see.
Attaining huge status is hard for anyone (believe me I know), I think you just made up the myth that women instantly get huge from the gym. As everyone I talk to in my gym says it takes ages and hard work.
But as I said if you want to go down the muscular route then that fine, but if you do end up with Hulk arms most guys won't think its a good look. I won't pretend to know how muscular you are but you probably aren't built like a brick shit house.
Anyway thats just an opinion held by me and most of the guys I know.
Speaking to other ladies as to why they DON'T lift weights, the reason I always get is `I don't want to look all huge and disgusting`, as if that's gonna happen the second you pick up a dumbell.
I don't lift weights at all (hence the part of my quote saying I can't even do a push-up), but I'd like to have more strength.
I think that's overall a good thing.
I'm not saying you can't not like muslcey women, I'm just saying it's not going to be a factor in the majority of women who lift weights.
If time is an issue, there are a couple of very good two days a week routines floating around online, like Karl Schudt's 5/1 program.
If getting to the gym is the problem, check out Pavel Tsatsouline's book "The Naked Warrior" which is a bodyweight strength training book. Just remember that, as Pavel says in the book, the best results come from working with barbells, kettlebells and pull up bars. Bodyweight training is a sort of last result that will get you results, but it will be a bunch slower and the progress will peter out much more quickly.