I prefer Fallout 3 over New Vegas and Skyrim. Here's why:
I don't like being the center of attention, IRL and in games. I really don't like being the focus of praise or, at worst, worship, for doing stuff that's - to me - not all that extraordinary.
Skyrim does it the worst. It seems every establishment I go into and do their work, I end up either doing something 'amazing' that everybody lavishes praise and attention on me for, or the leader of the group/place. Thieve's Guild, Dark Brotherhood, Companions, College of Winterhold to name some. Then there's the whole Civil War and Dragons business - which nobody seemed to able to make any progress in until me, a lone soldier, turns up and fixes everything with zero effort. I don't buy it, and it ruined an otherwise benchmark of a game.
New Vegas was a bit of the same, but not at such a scale. I happen to be the dude carrying the item that changes the Wasteland, and somehow that makes me the hero.
House explains that he needed me to go and get the Chip, so he had Victor dig me out and send me to the Lucky 38 - because he's contractually obligated to not send Securitrons into the casino after Benny unless the casino specifically requests them, or under extraordinary circumstances. Well, doesn't the casino owner stealing from House count as breach of contract in the first place? And why *me* specifically? There's plenty of people who don't have bullets in their heads who'd love to work for House directly - with all the benefits that come from that.
The same with the NCR vs Legion war - the whole thing was at a total stalemate until I show up and fix everything with no effort. Shoot dudes > some spy work > world's greatest hero.
Right.
However, in Fallout 3, I feel like I was just 'helping', with the Brotherhood spearheading the operations, and I'm just there to help out, doing other stuff they didn't have the resources for. The final battle for the Purifier - I was just one soldier of many who happened to know the code thanks to my father. My part was bigger than that of any other wastelander or ex-vault resident, but I was born into that and circumstances pushed me deeper into the situation.
I was never asked to do anything massively heroic, like in Skyrim where I was the ONLY ONE who could kill dragons or in New Vegas when I was the ONLY ONE who could decide New Vegas' fate. Most of the stuff I did in Fallout 3 I either just barely managed to pull off or couldn't without heavy armor and weapons, or outfitting my follower with the same. New Vegas I could rofl through with light armor and basic projectile weapons... while everyone revered me as some kind of immortal demi-god - 'The Courier', ooooh.
Right.