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Crazy_Man_42 said:
If they want to dress the way they do they can but if their blaming their clothing for being rape is just well, being lazy.

If they don't want to get rape then KEEP A TAZER OR GUN WITH YOU OR LEARN A MARTIAL ART. It's called self-defense ladies it's a better way to stop rape then protesting about it.
I took a women's self-defense class, and there are plenty of ways short of becoming Chun Li to prevent rape. Mostly, be aware of your surroundings at all times, and never go somewhere where you'll be at a disadvantage. Watch your drink, have your keys out before you get to your car or door, the buddy system, tell someone (parents, roommate, whatevs) where you're going and when to expect you back whenever you go out... Little things. Yeah, mace is good, and EVERY SINGLE PERSON should learn the methods of escaping common holds, but there are a number of people that will go out looking for a fight after they take up an offensively focused martial art.
 

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I don't mind if a woman exposes herself. The human body is a beautiful thing. I don't mind women dressing like "sluts."


However, I've met many girls who hide or lack a personality and advertise themselves as sex objects. I do not like this. Don't dress that way if its only purpose to make yourself a semen receptacle. Reserve that shit for nightclubs.
 

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evilthecat said:
chif-ii said:
Penis goes in, then out, then in. Orgasm happens.

Or is there something I'm not understanding about what happens during rape? My thought of how it worked was that orgasming was kinda like peeing, where you could delay it or something, but sooner or later it's gonna cum out.
Wow.. I'm told you don't get much sex education in the states, but..
Don't feed the troll.
 

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Kahunaburger said:
Guy Jackson said:
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I gave my references above for the 50% stats. I'm sorry but I really can't remember where I read 25%, and the Google I just did turned up numbers that were all over the place. It wouldn't make any difference anyway. Some people aren't liking what I'm saying and are asking for "proof" in an attempt to "win" the argument, but I already stated that I have no proof (no amount of stats could prove this, it's psychology ffs) and even if I produced it, it clearly wouldn't make any difference. I've stated my opinions and why I believe them to be true. Nobody else has produced jack shit by way of a counter-argument, unless you count the existence of the autonomous nervous system which is pretty fucking ridiculous given that 10% of women can't orgasm at all, and some women can orgasm without any physical stimulation whatsoever.
No, they've provided several well-reasoned critiques of your arguments, which you, for whatever reason chose not to address completely. The reason why your arguments have been met with such universal opposition is that they are:
A. insanely offensive,
B. obviously incorrect to any Escapist that has had a female orgasm or given a woman an orgasm.
Haha, I think we have a new low on the list of cheap shots. Well, whatever makes you feel better. I certainly believe that people are offended, but that wasn't my intention. To quote EDI: I intended to provoke, but not to cause distress.
 

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JonnWood said:
Kahunaburger said:
JonnWood said:
Kahunaburger said:
DisturbiaWolf13 said:
Wow, The Escapist has surprised me again. I knew this place was a bit of a sausage fest but I never thought we had this much sexism :-/
Clearly you haven't been reading the Brink or Other M threads haha.
I'd really, really like to know why some people are so obsessed with getting their parkour gunwoman on.
I'm more curious about why some other people are obsessed with others *not* getting their parkour gunwoman on.
Not that I'm against the idea, I just don't agree with the decision to not purchase the entire game because there aren't girls in it. Hopefully, they'll be in Brink 2.
Yeah, I'm also in the "they should have included female models, but I personally wouldn't turn down a parkour TF2 just because they do what everyone in the industry does" camp.
 

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I just want to let all the ladies out there know that I will never, ever antagonize a woman for sleeping with alot of men as long as I'm one of them.
 

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artanis_neravar said:
They can dress how ever they want, they just have to acknowledge that there are some sick fucked up people out there who can and will try to rape them given the chance, it's not the girls fault there is a good chance that they would have been raped if they were more "appropriately" dressed, but still in the same place at the same time with those same sick fucked up people.
Statistics and testimony from rapists, quoted earlier in this thread, support the conclusion that a woman's state of dress has nothing to do with why she is raped.

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TB_Infidel said:
Well firstly a 'stud' is a bit of an urban myth as many studs are looked down upon by everyone - look at Jersey Shore. Would you call them studs or douches?
Good point, but then again, not many view them as studs. There are studs out there, Jersey Shore just isn't the place to look for them.
Secondly, nature is involved in this decision. Men can go around nailing anyone with little consequences, and of course women can not as they get pregnant. Therefore men have evolved to be more open about sex were as women have not and become more attached to a partner. Check google scholar if you want some proof.
O.O

So, if a man gets a woman preggers, no consequences. Right?
Either way, a stud or a slut is a bad thing as it shows that the person can not have a relationship and is either very insecure and/or hedonistic. To try to justify it is ludicrous and proves places like Iran to be right when it comes to Western standards.
I would really love to see a documentary of someone trying to live as a stud or slut while maintaining a relationship. Could be interesting.
 

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Guy Jackson said:
Kahunaburger said:
Guy Jackson said:
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I gave my references above for the 50% stats. I'm sorry but I really can't remember where I read 25%, and the Google I just did turned up numbers that were all over the place. It wouldn't make any difference anyway. Some people aren't liking what I'm saying and are asking for "proof" in an attempt to "win" the argument, but I already stated that I have no proof (no amount of stats could prove this, it's psychology ffs) and even if I produced it, it clearly wouldn't make any difference. I've stated my opinions and why I believe them to be true. Nobody else has produced jack shit by way of a counter-argument, unless you count the existence of the autonomous nervous system which is pretty fucking ridiculous given that 10% of women can't orgasm at all, and some women can orgasm without any physical stimulation whatsoever.
No, they've provided several well-reasoned critiques of your arguments, which you, for whatever reason chose not to address completely. The reason why your arguments have been met with such universal opposition is that they are:
A. insanely offensive,
B. obviously incorrect to any Escapist that has had a female orgasm or given a woman an orgasm.
Haha, I think we have a new low on the list of cheap shots. Well, whatever makes you feel better. I certainly believe that people are offended, but that wasn't my intention. To quote EDI: I intended to provoke, but not distress.
There's kind of an overlap between the two.
 

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evilthecat said:
JonnWood said:
Don't feed the troll.
That's a troll?

Do trolls get off on making people feel sorry for them?
Two types of trolls; the proper trolls, and the type of people for whom any response, positive or negative, only validates their opinion and increases their ego.
 

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Looking good and attractive =/= Looking like a slut

Stupid feministic sluts. It's just advice, it's not like they're imposing a new law or something.

And BTW there is a word for men who sleep around, it's called manwhores.
 

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JonnWood said:
artanis_neravar said:
They can dress how ever they want, they just have to acknowledge that there are some sick fucked up people out there who can and will try to rape them given the chance, it's not the girls fault there is a good chance that they would have been raped if they were more "appropriately" dressed, but still in the same place at the same time with those same sick fucked up people.
Statistics and testimony from rapists, quoted earlier in this thread, support the conclusion that a woman's state of dress has nothing to do with why she is raped.

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Exactly my point, thank you for backing it up
 

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Belated said:
There is nothing wrong with a slut parade. And by the way, "slut" is a totally derogatory term. It implies that there's something wrong with dressing sexy or being promiscuous. NO. There is nothing wrong with that. If a woman wants to look her best and get laid a bunch, she should be able to. What's the big deal? If she's happy doing it, let her do it. And NO. It is not a woman's fault she got raped. It doesn't matter how sexy she looked. If you rape a woman, it is on you. A woman should be able to dress how she wants to without feeling like she's endangering herself. It's not her fault if somebody rapes her, and she shouldn't have to expect that to happen.
Totally agreed. Though I can't argue with the logic that when a woman dresses slutty, they appear to be telegraphing to tohers that they want a sexual encounter; thus "inviting" perverts. That doesn't give rapists any excuses for their actions, but it does mean that a slutty dressed girl should be aware of what they are conveying to total strangers. They should know the risk, even when there shouldn't be one in a decent society.

I think that society needs to be more accepting female promescuity, and not treat casual sex as acceptable just for men.

Those who trade freedom for safety deserve neither.
I hate that phrase. It is almost always used by people from very safe (and free) worlds. Try telling a starving, diseased person in a war torn, developing country to favour liberty over basic survival. Security breeds democracy, liberty and moderation; insecurity breeds extremists, tyrants and demagogues - people who will exploit desperation by promising drastic and simple solutions. Nazis, communists and Islam fundamentalists can never gain real power in a stable society, but they will always gain opportunities in times of stress or calamity.

Instead of discouraging dressing sexy, the police should be encouraging conceal carry licensing for women. They have a right to protect themselves, but they shouldn't have to give up something they enjoy in order to do it. So why not add something instead? Add a gun. And no, a gun is not a big deal. It's a tool. A tool for self-defense. People have a right to protect themselves. And no, an innocent person with a gun just trying to protect herself is not a danger to society.
Why specifically a gun? In most circumstances, canned mace is far more practical; it is cheap, it requires no training or maintenence to use accurately and effectively, it is unlikely to kill someone (so one can be less reluctant to use it in face of a threat), and it WORKS. When people think "self-defence", they are too quick to think "gun". Depending on your situation, there are more sensible options.
 

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Vault boy Eddie said:
Fagotto said:
Rather than listening to advice that probably won't come in useful since most rapists know their victims and would restrict their lives they instead choose to have a parade. If those were my options I'd have a parade too.



That parade seems like it'd be a good place to find a one night stand though ;D
And maybe even something itchy on your genitals :-S
HA! priceless
 

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JonnWood said:
Hello, I am a conservative Christian.

You are wrong.

Sincerely,
Which bit?

jboking said:
So, if a man gets a woman preggers, no consequences. Right?
Biologically speaking, no, he has nothing to be worried about. He can walk away and he could not see her ever again and it would not affect him.
However morally and socially he does......but that is something new.

jboking said:
I would really love to see a documentary of someone trying to live as a stud or slut while maintaining a relationship. Could be interesting.
Aye, though something more basic but interesting is the age old test of getting a girl to ask every guy she see's if they will sleep with her and then get a guy to do the same with women. The results are the same every time. The women say 'no', and about 3/4 of the men say ' Yes', and the other 1/4 ask her out for a date. It is just how men and women are wired.
 

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TB_Infidel said:
maninahat said:
Perhaps they are making an issue of gender double standards: a promiscuous man is a "stud", and is often treated by his peers as cool for it. A promiscuous women on the other hand is a "slut" and is considered the worst thing possible. In otherwords, a woman can't enjoy herself like a man without being seen in a negative light.
Well firstly a 'stud' is a bit of an urban myth as many studs are looked down upon by everyone - look at Jersey Shore. Would you call them studs or douches?
Secondly, nature is involved in this decision. Men can go around nailing anyone with little consequences, and of course women can not as they get pregnant. Therefore men have evolved to be more open about sex were as women have not and become more attached to a partner. Check google scholar if you want some proof.

Either way, a stud or a slut is a bad thing as it shows that the person can not have a relationship and is either very insecure and/or hedonistic. To try to justify it is ludicrous and proves places like Iran to be right when it comes to Western standards.
what if they just wanna have sex? no strings attackted...sex is fun you know...
 

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TB_Infidel said:
maninahat said:
Perhaps they are making an issue of gender double standards: a promiscuous man is a "stud", and is often treated by his peers as cool for it. A promiscuous women on the other hand is a "slut" and is considered the worst thing possible. In otherwords, a woman can't enjoy herself like a man without being seen in a negative light.
Well firstly a 'stud' is a bit of an urban myth as many studs are looked down upon by everyone - look at Jersey Shore. Would you call them studs or douches?
Secondly, nature is involved in this decision. Men can go around nailing anyone with little consequences, and of course women can not as they get pregnant. Therefore men have evolved to be more open about sex were as women have not and become more attached to a partner. Check google scholar if you want some proof.

Either way, a stud or a slut is a bad thing as it shows that the person can not have a relationship and is either very insecure and/or hedonistic. To try to justify it is ludicrous and proves places like Iran to be right when it comes to Western standards.
So you are against promiscuity entirely? Even in this modern age where accessable and reliable contraception rules out the potential difficulties of parenthood to women? There is nothing wrong with enjoying yourself, and to say that a person who partakes in casual sex is insecure/unable to commit to relationships is bullshit. Commitment is a matter of choice, and some people just don't want to make it. We shouldn't look down on them just because of that choice.

Also, do you really think there aren't many Iranian sluts/studs?
 

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TB_Infidel said:
maninahat said:
Perhaps they are making an issue of gender double standards: a promiscuous man is a "stud", and is often treated by his peers as cool for it. A promiscuous women on the other hand is a "slut" and is considered the worst thing possible. In otherwords, a woman can't enjoy herself like a man without being seen in a negative light.
Well firstly a 'stud' is a bit of an urban myth as many studs are looked down upon by everyone - look at Jersey Shore. Would you call them studs or douches?
Secondly, nature is involved in this decision. Men can go around nailing anyone with little consequences, and of course women can not as they get pregnant. Therefore men have evolved to be more open about sex were as women have not and become more attached to a partner. Check google scholar if you want some proof.

Either way, a stud or a slut is a bad thing as it shows that the person can not have a relationship and is either very insecure and/or hedonistic. To try to justify it is ludicrous and proves places like Iran to be right when it comes to Western standards.
From a linguistic anthropological standpoint, this bothers me as it suggests that "sluts" and or "studs" are categories of people to which one either does or does not belong. This reflects a very Western linguistic ideology, and I would like to point out that long before I had ever had any sexual interaction with anyone (indeed before I had even ventured to touch my own genitals *gasp*) I had been called a slut. This is not because "slut" is a lable which was appropriate to me, but because it had the potential to be an emotional weapon.

People can also be called "slut" under varying criteria, so an upstanding citizen to one person may be a slut to another. Therefore, speaking about sluts as a category of people separate from the rest of humanity is inherently inaccurate.