So everybody hates me, it's my fault and I fully admit it.

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Let me clarify one thing, I'm the most polite person around, I'm slightly arrogant and I know that, but I overplay it as satire and make fun of myself more than anybody else. I do make fun of people a lot, but it's not personal. I suppose I'm somewhat of a troll because outwitting people is fun for me, but when I think about it, nobody is really any better than me, I just think everybody is stupid.

I have an inferiority complex(if that is correct)in that I think that I'm the most important person around and tend to judge other people, and I really have trouble over-coming that.
 

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I really don't know how to help you. Everyone loves me and that's weird because I don't give a shit about people. I'm not an asshole, but I'm also not some kind of cupcake nice kind of guy. I guess people like me because they think that I'm mysterious. I'm not, I just don't care about your problems. Leave me alone!
 

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Don't act condescending, nothing makes people dislike someone more than if they're being pretentious.

Also, I'm fairly certain that there would still be social groups left in your school that still don't hate you and if not, don't try to fan the flames of hatred.
 
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rabidmidget said:
Don't act condescending, nothing makes people dislike someone more than if they're being pretentious.

Also, I'm fairly certain that there would still be social groups left in your school that still don't hate you and if not, don't try to fan the flames of hatred.
Most people don't actively hate me I'm guessing, they just think I'm a total dick and don't actually like me. I'm social, I've matured a lot, I suppose I am arrogant in that I try to get things done and don't fully consider other people's feelings, but I've been trying to be nicer and more polite, but it's just not working.
 

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The King of Rock and Roll said:
Pretty much half of my school dislikes me, and it is pretty much my fault for being an asshole in general for a while. I feel pretty bad about that upon realizing what a dick I've been, so how would you guys, the members of a forum I rarely visit, go about turning my life around.

I'm a senior in high school so there's pretty much no chance of making people like me by the time school is out, but I really don't want to be a total asshat for the rest of my life.
It's quite simple: before responding to ANYTHING, quickly evaluate how you would respond to your response.

It makes you look slow at first, but eventually you can quickly do it on the fly.
 

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The King of Rock and Roll said:
FallenJellyDoughnut said:
How are you an asshole though? Do you just put your foot in your mouth or randomly speak your mind without considering peoples feelings?
This, as well as doing it on purpose occasionally.
To be honest I can't really help but this guy:

lacktheknack said:
The King of Rock and Roll said:
Pretty much half of my school dislikes me, and it is pretty much my fault for being an asshole in general for a while. I feel pretty bad about that upon realizing what a dick I've been, so how would you guys, the members of a forum I rarely visit, go about turning my life around.

I'm a senior in high school so there's pretty much no chance of making people like me by the time school is out, but I really don't want to be a total asshat for the rest of my life.
It's quite simple: before responding to ANYTHING, quickly evaluate how you would respond to your response.

It makes you look slow at first, but eventually you can quickly do it on the fly.
Has the right idea. Try this.
 

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The King of Rock and Roll said:
Pretty much half of my school dislikes me, and it is pretty much my fault for being an asshole in general for a while. I feel pretty bad about that upon realizing what a dick I've been, so how would you guys, the members of a forum I rarely visit, go about turning my life around.

I'm a senior in high school so there's pretty much no chance of making people like me by the time school is out, but I really don't want to be a total asshat for the rest of my life.


I don't hate you
 

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The King of Rock and Roll said:
Pretty much half of my school dislikes me, and it is pretty much my fault for being an asshole in general for a while. I feel pretty bad about that upon realizing what a dick I've been, so how would you guys, the members of a forum I rarely visit, go about turning my life around.

I'm a senior in high school so there's pretty much no chance of making people like me by the time school is out, but I really don't want to be a total asshat for the rest of my life.
Be cheerful and friendly to a proportion that is ever so slightly above average. Trust me, it really works.
 

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The King of Rock and Roll said:
Pretty much half of my school dislikes me, and it is pretty much my fault for being an asshole in general for a while. I feel pretty bad about that upon realizing what a dick I've been, so how would you guys, the members of a forum I rarely visit, go about turning my life around.

I'm a senior in high school so there's pretty much no chance of making people like me by the time school is out, but I really don't want to be a total asshat for the rest of my life.
I would not change. The world needs more asshole's like you!

But really, just go around doing nice things for people. Thats really all you can do now.
 

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Enough of this pansy stuff. You need to go out in a blaze of glory Elvis, just like the real one did. Or...hold on. Fat bloated dead on a toilet seat...hold on.
You don't want to go out like Elvis. Or Chuck Barry, whoever you consider to be the King of Rock, unless it's you, which you are not. Liar.
You want to go out in such a style that when you leave, teachers years from now will point back to you as an example and say to other kids 'Don't be like that asshole.'
I say you try to seduce your math teach in the middle of class. Don't let gender or age stop you, the older the wine, the sweeter the taste, they say. And if it's a dude, hell bonus points for bravery. (It's not gay if he sucks *your* dick...)
If you can't seduce your math teacher, try picking on one of the retarded kids. Push the boy with downs syndrome *down* the stairs. Hey, get it, down-down..that's funny man.
Beating on retards not up to your taste, just take a shot at the janitor. Punch that ************ in the goddamned throat, because let's face it, he proabably deserves it. Even if he is a hardworking man, fuck that. He's got to go down.
A turd on the desk is worth a dozen roses, and smells near as fine..
Date the cute chubby girl and videotape yourself having nasty anal sex with her. Then keep the porn for yourself and keep dating her, just to piss off the skinny bitches.
The world is full of opportunities my friend. What you choose to do with them is your choice.
 

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The King of Rock and Roll said:
Omikron009 said:
If you're about to graduate, and probably never see any of the people who know you to be an asshole ever again, my advice regarding everyone you meet afterwards is....don't be an asshole. If you can acknowledge that you've been one, you presumably know how not to be one.
I'd like to think so, but I honestly have this great ability to say something completely innocent that sounds like a really terrible insult, and not realize it until later.
That might be an actual psychological problem. If it makes you feel better, or if this sounds like a good idea, try and apologize to the people you think you've insulted. Mention that you might have Tourette Syndrome.
 

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I feel your pain, i've suffered greatly due to this as well, i try to compliment people but i'm socially retarded so when i do i throw an insult at them, an example of this is "I used to think your fat...but now i can look at you properly i see your not..." needless to say that didn't go down well, luckily i had 2 really good friends for the last few years of high school and found a bunch of new friends in college.
 

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You are whom you are. Do not let the opinions of others change that. Each person is UNIQUE.
 

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The King of Rock and Roll said:
Omikron009 said:
If you're about to graduate, and probably never see any of the people who know you to be an asshole ever again, my advice regarding everyone you meet afterwards is....don't be an asshole. If you can acknowledge that you've been one, you presumably know how not to be one.
I'd like to think so, but I honestly have this great ability to say something completely innocent that sounds like a really terrible insult, and not realize it until later.
Sounds like your impulse control is shot.
 

gibboss28

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Accept the shit you've done and apologise for it.

If you don't want to apologise to those guys, then fine just remember that acting like an asshole is pointless. simple as.
 

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The King of Rock and Roll said:
Omikron009 said:
If you're about to graduate, and probably never see any of the people who know you to be an asshole ever again, my advice regarding everyone you meet afterwards is....don't be an asshole. If you can acknowledge that you've been one, you presumably know how not to be one.
I'd like to think so, but I honestly have this great ability to say something completely innocent that sounds like a really terrible insult, and not realize it until later.
I also have a tendency to do that... the best thing to do is just go and apologise and explain what you actually meant when you do realise.