So everybody hates me, it's my fault and I fully admit it.

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Blemontea

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Well...even though your a senior you could try apologizing im not sure how accepting you school is but its worth a shot. Other than that just try to not do obviously dickish things and do more obviously nice things. Also just wear a smile it will change peoples opinions.
 

ilspooner

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At least you have the balls to admit that you have been a dick. It will be hard to get friends before school is out, but just do the best you can to be nice. Good luck!
 

RooftopAssassin

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Just be nice, and try to make a joke every chance you get. I'm a shining example of how you can make a 180 degree turn-around in social life. 7th grade: Loser, 8th grade: The funny guy that everyone can trust (may not sound very humble, but whatever). I too, am in high school. If there's a better place to get friends; it's high school.
 

Tsaba

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The King of Rock and Roll said:
Pretty much half of my school dislikes me, and it is pretty much my fault for being an asshole in general for a while. I feel pretty bad about that upon realizing what a dick I've been, so how would you guys, the members of a forum I rarely visit, go about turning my life around.

I'm a senior in high school so there's pretty much no chance of making people like me by the time school is out, but I really don't want to be a total asshat for the rest of my life.
Dude, I for one am a firm believer in second chances, if you want people to like you just believe in karma and be polite and curtious (*spelling* Kurt-E-us), don't one up people, and just be friendly, be an approachable person, and maybe a year or two down the line you'll be a different person, but, if you wanna go extreme, join the military or go to college, both will change your life [small](one more so than the other)[/small]. But, yea, it all relies on you, you wanna be a different person be a different person.
 

Redworld13

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My advice would be to continue being an asshole, tell your high school to f**k itself and find other like minded assholes in the real world, worked for me :D
 

Hashime

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The King of Rock and Roll said:
Pretty much half of my school dislikes me, and it is pretty much my fault for being an asshole in general for a while. I feel pretty bad about that upon realizing what a dick I've been, so how would you guys, the members of a forum I rarely visit, go about turning my life around.

I'm a senior in high school so there's pretty much no chance of making people like me by the time school is out, but I really don't want to be a total asshat for the rest of my life.
I don't hate you, and highschool pales in comparison to university. Uni is just soooo much better. I can make an xkcd reference and the entire room will get it.
 

The Cookie Cruncher

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Cookies. Lots and lots of cookies should help your case.

My true advice is just to start out small. If you see someone who could use a little help, you be that help. The more people you help, the more people will stop thinking that you're a dick.

And stop being a dick. No one likes dicks. Well not guys with dick personalities anyway.
 

RatRace123

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In general just try not to be an ass , though it is difficult if everyone percieves you as such.
Just try to take to heart that not all people will accept all things said about them.

I kinda know what you're going through I acted like a chode to a few people back in Highschool, but I grew out of my asshole phase and generally became a nicer person.
Maybe you're the same way and you just need to grow out of your douchebagedness.
 

Casimir_Effect

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The King of Rock and Roll said:
Let me clarify one thing, I'm the most polite person around, I'm slightly arrogant and I know that, but I overplay it as satire and make fun of myself more than anybody else. I do make fun of people a lot, but it's not personal. I suppose I'm somewhat of a troll because outwitting people is fun for me, but when I think about it, nobody is really any better than me, I just think everybody is stupid.

I have an inferiority complex(if that is correct)in that I think that I'm the most important person around and tend to judge other people, and I really have trouble over-coming that.
FYI pretty sure you mean superiority complex.

My advice would be to find out from other people at school what you do wrong. This shouldn't be too embarrassing if you're going to be leaving soon anyway. Then, assuming you go to university afterwards, you'll be able to make use of what you learned. If you can't help insulting others (albeit accidently) then at least make sure you can always take a few insults/knocks from them without immediately taking a shot at them after. Let them have a few victories, don't always try to get the last word.

To be honest though, going to uni usually means you'll run into a load of people who are a lot smarter than you. Not necessarily smarter at what you're good at, but uni is about specialising in knowledge. For example, you may be shit-hot at history, but some guy doing chemistry will know far more about his subject than you will by the end of his 1st year. So long as you don't insist you know more than he does about his own subject, you should be fine. Otherwise, might want to start wearing a cup
 

mattttherman3

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The only people I'm an ass hole to are my friends, I'm usually polite to new people. Not real hard to be polite, maybe see a shrink.
 

Lullabye

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The King of Rock and Roll said:
Pretty much half of my school dislikes me, and it is pretty much my fault for being an asshole in general for a while. I feel pretty bad about that upon realizing what a dick I've been, so how would you guys, the members of a forum I rarely visit, go about turning my life around.

I'm a senior in high school so there's pretty much no chance of making people like me by the time school is out, but I really don't want to be a total asshat for the rest of my life.
Dude, it's the internet, but it's a definite start.

Just keep in mind who you are, vs how you want to be. Then just do your best.
 

Aur0ra145

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The King of Rock and Roll said:
Pretty much half of my school dislikes me, and it is pretty much my fault for being an asshole in general for a while. I feel pretty bad about that upon realizing what a dick I've been, so how would you guys, the members of a forum I rarely visit, go about turning my life around.

I'm a senior in high school so there's pretty much no chance of making people like me by the time school is out, but I really don't want to be a total asshat for the rest of my life.
been reading 4chan to much?

Congratulations, you have learned your first life lesson. It's easier to be nice to EVERYONE (regardless of how much you dislike them) than to be a dick. Is it throwing a facade? Yes to some extent, but that's how the business world works.

The next step is taking responsibility for ALL of your actions. If you did it, it's your fault, there isn't any medical condition to excuse you from YOUR actions.

Finally, you have to realize that YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO ANYTHING. You will have to earn everything in life. Once you understand that, everything becomes easier. You'll have pride in the things you have accomplished and will most likely become more humble.

That's my 2 cents anyhow.