So I asked out the girl I have a crush on...

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Svenparty

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iRevanchist said:
Svenparty said:
Sounds like you are going to ruin it by being too excited already. I think the opposite y
to this is you could be rejected and loose a friend.
could somebody please shut this guy up?
OT: i couldn't agree more with OP. as a girl who has had several (reciprocal) crushes, i know how frustrating it is when the guy won't grow a pair and ask.
Thing is your giving out advice that goes both ways. This is like something out of a stereotypical american advertisement where the power of faith helps you achieve your goal. From reading this thread (see post above) this advice could clearly lead to friendships being destroyed.
 

iLazy

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To all the negative people;

It is better to have loved and lost, then to never have loved.

Sorry, just got done watching That 70's Show episode where Eric wishes he never kissed Donna, and it has opened my eyes.

Congrats my friend :D You have earned the badge of courage!
 

3aqua

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After reading this post I went to my facebook, opened the chat function, saw that the girl I fancied was online. Typed up a short message, detailing how I felt about her. Before running out of self confidence and deleting the entire thing...
So close and yet so far.

Oh well, best wishes regarding your new relationship!
 

Sehnsucht Engel

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MajorTomServo said:
There's this lovely, charming, and beautiful young lady who I've had a crush on since middle school. We casually talked throughout high school, and now were in the same college. I'd flirt a little bit here and there, but nothing major. Made sure not to get stuck in the friend zone. Earlier today, I had read a bunch of courage wolfs and was feeling pretty confident. So, I asked her to go get coffee. And we did. I told her that I liked her; how she was always fun to be with, had beautiful eyes (wasn't trying to be chiche, but I mean, one's brown and one's blue. Its awesome.) and that my favorite times from the last semester were in the hour or so we'd occasionally hang out in between class on Thursdays. And she said she liked me back. And we held hands. And it was perhaps the greatest feeling I've ever experienced. Im proud to say that I'm her boyfriend.

But I didn't just come here to flaunt my good fortune. I came here to tell you that if there's someone you fancy, go for it. If I hadn't grown a pair and taken the leap, we may have never gotten together.

My advice?


Go do it. I believe in you.
That's great and all. Can I ask you a question though?

What if the girl you're interested in, is already involved with someone else in some way? It happens to me a lot. She either already has a boyfriend or she's flirting with two.

What would you have done if that girl already seemed to be involved with someone else?