So I Find Myself Discussing Virginity Again

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Saul B

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Thinking about it? anything from 11 or 12 I would think. Being mature enough to make the right choices? It depends from person to person but I would say probably 15+
 

e2density

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Mcface said:
e2density said:
Mcface said:
e2density said:
cheesemanxl said:
age 7 no joke
Yeah, there are always the mentally strange people that are just born horny...Quagmire.

But I plan on abstinence. Fifteen minutes of fun is not worth a lifetime of syphilis.
I'm going to laugh when your wife gives you syphilis.
I'm going to laugh when you realize you can't support a baby since your 14 years old.
I'm currently laughing at you for failing. I am 18, and my girlfriend is on birth control.
I'm currently laughing at you because I could give a shit.

And it seems people are throwing around the word "fail"...I guess that guessing someone's current real life status and age has to be dead on correct or else you "fail."
 
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I was 11 or so when I first started thinking about sex, and I know I wasn't the only one. I was 16 when I lost my virginity.

Everyone's differant, but the average age I think people start thinking about it is 12 or 13.
 

WhiteRat07

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You would have to meet her. She once commented that she got off lucky cuz all she had was genital warts to give ya an idea.
 

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MelasZepheos said:
SimuLord said:
I lost mine at 17. To put a girl of 14 in a position where she's seeking her first sexual encounter can have a few different effects on the reader:

1) The girl is of poor moral character;
2) She's a child who desperately wants to be "adult" and sees sex as a means to that end
The first two fit the character exactly, and I deliberately wrote her that way. It is consistent characterisation, I was just wondering whether it was believable.
In this case, you were totally justified. While I personally think sex at that age is just plain dumb (and soooo many people have sex before their emotionally mature enough), for the purpose of the character I think it's totally fine. You're creative writing class needs to learn about suspension of disbelief.

For some reason this conversation makes me think of the film Lila Says.
 

McNinja

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Should start thinking about it about 16 or so, but it usually happens earlier. I started thinking about it when I was about 12.
 

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Wakizashi74 said:
Around 16 I would say they start getting serious thoughts about it. 16-19 I would consider to be the prime age that teens start wanting to have sex, which is completely normal, in my opinion. The thoughts, that is. I think sex itself should wait until your about 18, so your mature and are aware of what your getting in to. But Im starting t osound like a Health teacher in high school, aren't I? Well, theres my opinion, for what it's worth.
I never understood this argument. "Know what they're getting into"? It makes it sound like it's a matter of life and death. One wrong turn in the vagina, and your penis will explode!

Losing your virginity is about as world-altering as eating your first cake. It tastes nice, and you'll probably want to have another one later... But it won't make you go into cardiac arrest. Or, well, the cake-thing might if you eat a lot of it. And I suppose people with weak hearts could potentially be endangered by the physical exercise of the other thing... But then again, the exercise coupled with the nutrition would probably cancel eachother out.

I guess my point is that as long as you eat cake and have sex, you will avoid heart failure.

WhiteRat07 said:
Well my ex- wife is a real ho. She said she was masterbating at 12 so its possible.Shes kinda a special case.
I really see nothing 'special' about that, nor do I see what part of it makes her a 'ho'. I think I understand why she's an "ex", though.
Beautiful. Couldn't have put it better myself. Yes, sex can have unexpected and life-altering consequences. So can driving. Sex is more fun than driving, so go for it. Not at the same time, mind you. Learned that lesson...
 

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Haven't lost mine, but I think the age of consent here in Sweden is reasonable. 15, not too high, but not too low. People won't move to Iceland, but they won't go f*** each other without any real knowledge or maturity about it.

My thoughts about it started at around 13-14, I think. I don't care much for if I lose my virginity any soon, as long as I'm not a virgin by the time I hit 40. But until then, sex doesn't mean much if it just is pointless screwing. Fun, but what's the point?