Tynian said:
I have my priorities right! I sleep 10 hours, work 7 hours cook and eat tea with the gf for an hour which leaves me 6 hours free time each working day... I spend 3 of those on gaming WITH her and the rest gaming for myself while she swtiches on the second tv and puts her games on...
nothing wrong with the priorities... but when she is interrupting MY gaming time to complain that she finds beating Lu Bu on Hard mode 'easy' it...makes My teeth itch...
We have a difference of opinion here. See, games are what I do when I'm LONELY. When I had a girlfriend, I gamed solo for probably only about an hour at a time (and then not nearly every day), and spend the rest of my "gaming" time with her. So I got her into games like Smash Bros, which are fun and we can play TOGETHER. So if gaming is something that both of you do, try to get her interested in the games that you like to play (or maybe get her started on an easier shooter), and maybe join in on the games that SHE likes.
EDIT: But I shouldn't be offering advice like that. It's off-topic. Sorry. Anyway, it doesn't sound like she needs button-mashers - it sounds like she just needs games that are generally easy to win, but still feel epic in scope and rewarding upon completion. Now that DW is easy for her, you might want to recommend that she move up to the red meat of the medium. Zelda for the Wii is generally really easy, VERY long, quite rewarding, and a great gateway game for adventure games and stuff. If she finds she likes the combat, move her up to a combat based game like God of War on the PSII, which gets into the hardcore. If you want to start playing shooters with her, maybe get her started on one of the thousands of shooters for the PSII, and when she's used to it, get her into Gears of War.
It sounds like she's just getting into games, and she is rightly rejecting games that are designed to appeal to girls exclusively. But she still has "new gamer" issues, and I think that supplying her with games similar to ones she already plays may be a dead end for both of you. If you supply her with games that build up toward the serious sorts of games that you like, it'll probably be better for both of you. The Dynasty Warriors line is a dead end, unless you give her God of War, in which you still face hordes of foes with a powerful hero, but the hordes actually put up a fight.