So Let's Talk About Sex....
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I'm against sleeping around, I only ever sleep with someone I'm in a relationship with.
So I've only had a few partners, my current partner is the most inexperienced I've been with, but in the end sex isn't what defines a relationship to me. So that doesn't matter so much.
So I've only had a few partners, my current partner is the most inexperienced I've been with, but in the end sex isn't what defines a relationship to me. So that doesn't matter so much.
As far as I can tell, I'm asexual.
So, I couldn't care less about it, except when a video game decides to throw a pair of boobs or whatever in my face. Then I just sigh and chalk it up to a lack of originality in design. Is that really the only thing you could come up with to make people wanna play?
So, I couldn't care less about it, except when a video game decides to throw a pair of boobs or whatever in my face. Then I just sigh and chalk it up to a lack of originality in design. Is that really the only thing you could come up with to make people wanna play?
I get the feeling this topic may not be long lived here...
I'll just say I've got a checkered history, not a lot of luck in love, but in lust apparently I'm luckier than I wish I were.
I'll just say I've got a checkered history, not a lot of luck in love, but in lust apparently I'm luckier than I wish I were.
They are deprived of any real emotional connection with their partners.Julianking93 said:
I find that quite sad.
As for me, I'll be honest, I'm a horn dog, but if I could actually score frequently, I would limit myself to maybe 1 or 2 girls a month.
Or maybe I'll mature in the future and just have lots of relationships and have sex in those instead.
My first time was when I was 16, about a year after our relationship started. I think that maybe I could have waited until I was older, I'm still with the same guy 3 years later and we still love each other to bits. Been offered to have a friends-with-benefits relationships but I turned them down.
However, there is one thing I could never leave out of our relationship: Porn. To this day my boyfriend and I are still finding new things to try on each other. I can't stand shows like Dr. Phil that demonize pornography as if it takes away from a relationship.
However, there is one thing I could never leave out of our relationship: Porn. To this day my boyfriend and I are still finding new things to try on each other. I can't stand shows like Dr. Phil that demonize pornography as if it takes away from a relationship.
I completely agree with you Julian, but you already knew that didn't you? 
22 and no relationships for me, nor am I looking for one. In theory I guess I'm a virgin, but in practice that is... debatable. I've never bought into sex in general, much less of the casual variety. There is just something that really disturbs me about that sort of stuff, and like Julian it has absolutely nothing to do with religious upbringing.
22 and no relationships for me, nor am I looking for one. In theory I guess I'm a virgin, but in practice that is... debatable. I've never bought into sex in general, much less of the casual variety. There is just something that really disturbs me about that sort of stuff, and like Julian it has absolutely nothing to do with religious upbringing.
I'm apathetic, my philosophy is:
"If it feels groovy, and doesn't harm anyone, then do it."
So I'll pretty much go along with whatever my partner at the time wants. I do prefer polyamourus relationships, but I'm open-minded enough to do whatever as long as I get some.
Currently, I'm married to porn, and our relationship has lost its spark.
"If it feels groovy, and doesn't harm anyone, then do it."
So I'll pretty much go along with whatever my partner at the time wants. I do prefer polyamourus relationships, but I'm open-minded enough to do whatever as long as I get some.
Currently, I'm married to porn, and our relationship has lost its spark.
I love sexy sex.
I have a dear friend who gets bored very easily in relationships, but is also very afraid to be single. She has a tendency to prefer sex over love. Personally I see nothing wrong with casual sex. If you'd rather fuck than love, then who's to say you're wrong?
For me, personally, I only have sex with someone I'm committed to. It's a very personal thing to me, and I don't like to just give it out for the sake of pleasure. Though the concept of "NO PENIS TIL I GET A RING" is really not suited for me. I take a "try before you buy" stance on that.
I have a dear friend who gets bored very easily in relationships, but is also very afraid to be single. She has a tendency to prefer sex over love. Personally I see nothing wrong with casual sex. If you'd rather fuck than love, then who's to say you're wrong?
For me, personally, I only have sex with someone I'm committed to. It's a very personal thing to me, and I don't like to just give it out for the sake of pleasure. Though the concept of "NO PENIS TIL I GET A RING" is really not suited for me. I take a "try before you buy" stance on that.
I spent the bulk of my early twenties trying to fuck as many willing, attractive women as possible. I lived by a creed of "do whatever sounds the most awesome in the retelling so I won't have to bullshit when I tell stories." I got it out of my system, all the tests came back negative, and due to a long story I won't go into detail with here (except to say "when she says she's on birth control, you'd better damn well see her pop the pill with your own eyes"---note that I don't have kids. Let your imagination fill in the blanks) my current rule of thumb is "never have sex with any girl unless I'm sure in my mind I could live with her being the mother of my children."
Right now I'm single by choice---really hoping the next girl will be "the one" and not jumping into anything in the meantime. Applications and "ship-the-Escapists" can be submitted to the HR office
Edit: And for those wondering about the "body count", I've been with 16 women in 16 years since I lost my virginity the day after I turned 17 in 1994.
Right now I'm single by choice---really hoping the next girl will be "the one" and not jumping into anything in the meantime. Applications and "ship-the-Escapists" can be submitted to the HR office
Edit: And for those wondering about the "body count", I've been with 16 women in 16 years since I lost my virginity the day after I turned 17 in 1994.
Ironic given your avatar.Underground Man said:
Anyways personally, I don't make a big deal about sex, and I'm not found of casual sex. In fact I'm a virgin right now but I had an opportunity for casual sex and I turned it down, just not something I'd do.
Honestly, I think that people should just do whatever the hell they want. If someone wants to wait for the right person, fine. More power to them. If someone wants to sleep around, I'm not gonna stop them. Unless they catch a disease. Then I'd tell them they have to stop.
Sex for me is very intimate. It is a way for me to connect with the her. It strengthens the bond with her. But if I can't Satisfy her, I encourage her to find someone who can.
Zelos is the greatest character in that game -- you can really tell the devs put a lot of love into designing him. But mostly he's my favorite because the ladiez give me free stuff. =3drisky said:
As for his other accomplishments, I try not to think about the "technical" details.
As far as those things go, people should be able to do (or not do) whatever/whomever they like as long as involved parties agree. Why make things more complicated than that?
Well sex is fun its really fun!
I mean its awesome! its just that sleeping around like that just seems wrong to me.
There is a line (at least I think so) and doing thirty guys within two years.. that pretty slutty to me.
Guys I view as the same way. If he has no respect for women then why the hell should I have any respect for him it pisses me off when guys say they have fucked all these girls, makes them seem like objects.
I mean I am having sex with this girl and shes awesome im not in love with her but i do love her. if she were to sleep with so many guys i would stop hanging around with her.
I really dont know why its coming into another age of free sex but I sure as hell think its disgraceful.
I mean its awesome! its just that sleeping around like that just seems wrong to me.
There is a line (at least I think so) and doing thirty guys within two years.. that pretty slutty to me.
Guys I view as the same way. If he has no respect for women then why the hell should I have any respect for him it pisses me off when guys say they have fucked all these girls, makes them seem like objects.
I mean I am having sex with this girl and shes awesome im not in love with her but i do love her. if she were to sleep with so many guys i would stop hanging around with her.
I really dont know why its coming into another age of free sex but I sure as hell think its disgraceful.
I don't really like the idea of sleeping around either, I just don't think my mind works that way. I would much rather sleep with someone I care about, since in my mind sex is an emotional experience more so than just physical. It can be just physical, but I wouldn't enjoy it as much.
And, for demographic reasons, I'm 21, non-religious and non-virgin.
And, for demographic reasons, I'm 21, non-religious and non-virgin.
I'm not gonna go into detail but I actually got a certain kind of job a little after I graduated highschool. IMO the life gets old fast and it kinda ruined a few things emotionally. Oh well, past is past.
While it would sit well with me, I have nothing against it as long as they don't go around spreading STD's or unwanted pregnancies.