So, my girlfriend is in porn and I don't know what to do.

[Evil Smurf]

It's going to eat at you until you talk to her about it. Get it over with, you have a right to know. Don't threat about how it may "damage the relationship".

Man, this. If you are wrong you can both look at it and laugh. If you are right support her in her choices. She loves you that is why you two are going out.

 

[blazearmoru]

Panzer_God, if you really love your girlfriend you'd share in her interests. Have her help you join her and her friends. Jealousy and selfishness is bad, instead share and partake in the activities that she enjoys. You may turn out to enjoy it too.

 

[Panzer_God]

I found the link!
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...Thats an old Link, I found a more recent one
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I found a really sexy link. OP should be worried!
http://globalgeeknews.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Sexy-Link-Cosplay-by-Abigail.jpg

HOW DO YOU KEEP FINDING THESE!

 

[Evil Smurf]

I found the link!
-snip-

...Thats an old Link, I found a more recent one
-snip-

I found a really sexy link. OP should be worried!
-snip-

HOW DO YOU KEEP FINDING THESE!

I am HAXXOR I have connections....

 

[Ledan]

Talk to her! Then get back to us so we can enjoy the drama of your life!
.....
Plus, we need to know what crashes and fails and what works.

 

[the_dude_abides]

Personally I wouldn't ask. Might not be her. Then you'd be in deep doodoo.

There should be a few clues. Like does she start waddling when she gets home from work?

Little things like that.

 

[Panzer_God]

So.... I decided that not asking would be the smart, safe and generally best decision. For those of you who know me, this will come as little surprise. What will come as even less of a surprise is that I asked her anyway.

It's her. She started crying once I made it clear that I didn't mind, she got a bit better. She's still kinda bummed that I found out, but she thought it was adorable that I was so worried about bringing it up.

 

[Galen Marek]

Just remember, Google and Facebook reserve the right to use any photo you upload in any way they desire. This includes putting them in banner ads and selling them to other sites to be used for what ever purpose the site desires (even as the still image for a vide clip even if said clip isn't real which is often the case).

She might not actually do porn, but someone just noticed her images were good and did a little "shopping" with them to help them sell something.

I have had a few banner ads up of people my girlfriend knows, she's noticed them and then stated "they are not apart of that", their image, however, was.

Ask her about it. If someone is using her photo incorrectly she can request for removal.
Possibly ask her using my posts perspective. Covers you if its not and you can be supportive. If she is. You still asking assuming she was innocent.

edit: Bit late but he still asked -_-

 

[Kinguendo]

You know a lot of those banner ads are just pictures stolen from peoples facebook accounts and maybe even editted... or so I hear. >.>

<..>

 

[Kyr Knightbane]

So.... I decided that not asking would be the smart, safe and generally best decision. For those of you who know me, this will come as little surprise. What will come as even less of a surprise is that I asked her anyway.

It's her. She started crying once I made it clear that I didn't mind, she got a bit better. She's still kinda bummed that I found out, but she thought it was adorable that I was so worried about bringing it up.

So that old song is true...

My blood runs cold
My memory has just been sold
My angel is the centerfold
Angel is the centerfold

Granted, not the exact same circumstances, but you get the point

 

[Evil Smurf]

So.... I decided that not asking would be the smart, safe and generally best decision. For those of you who know me, this will come as little surprise. What will come as even less of a surprise is that I asked her anyway.

It's her. She started crying once I made it clear that I didn't mind, she got a bit better. She's still kinda bummed that I found out, but she thought it was adorable that I was so worried about bringing it up.

wow man! Has she got a job as a porn star or was it sominthing she did because she needed the money? My advice is buy her chocolate. She needs to relax and feel happy.

 

[bullet_sandw1ch]

Best thread title ever. Just wanted to throw that in.

Agreed. Even better since it's on a videogame forum.

OT: If it was my girlfriend, I couldn't hack it. Yes, I'd talk to her first but I couldn't keep going out with her, with the knowledge that she has sex for a living. Does that make me possessive? If it does, so be it, I'm possessive.

no, that makes you reasonable. shes a concealing *****, id be mad too. "oh hey, i was in pronography, being fucked by some random guy, but i forgot to tell you." she obviously dosent love you that much if she cant tell you that she was in some unsavory stuff.

 

[roostuf]

you know what you should do? GO-AND-TALK-TO-YOUR-GIRLFRIEND-ABOUT-IT! a good relationship is based on honest conversation with each other.

 

[Mariakko]

I would just leave it. Some people look like each other, it just happens. Everyone has their secrets, and if she was in porn wait until she is comfortable enough to tell you.

 

[Evil Smurf]

Best thread title ever. Just wanted to throw that in.

Agreed. Even better since it's on a videogame forum.

OT: If it was my girlfriend, I couldn't hack it. Yes, I'd talk to her first but I couldn't keep going out with her, with the knowledge that she has sex for a living. Does that make me possessive? If it does, so be it, I'm possessive.

no, that makes you reasonable. shes a concealing *****, id be mad too. "oh hey, i was in pronography, being fucked by some random guy, but i forgot to tell you." she obviously dosent love you that much if she cant tell you that she was in some unsavory stuff.

Unless she was afraid of the consequence. Have you ever lied to get out of trouble?

 

[Aur0ra145]

Wait, you're in college?

Easy, get a loud mouth friend to come around ya'll and have the loud mouth friend say, "I think I saw you in a porn video last night, do you do porn?"

Judge reaction.

Win.

 

[bullet_sandw1ch]

Best thread title ever. Just wanted to throw that in.

Agreed. Even better since it's on a videogame forum.

OT: If it was my girlfriend, I couldn't hack it. Yes, I'd talk to her first but I couldn't keep going out with her, with the knowledge that she has sex for a living. Does that make me possessive? If it does, so be it, I'm possessive.

no, that makes you reasonable. shes a concealing *****, id be mad too. "oh hey, i was in pronography, being fucked by some random guy, but i forgot to tell you." she obviously dosent love you that much if she cant tell you that she was in some unsavory stuff.

Unless she was afraid of the consequence. Have you ever lied to get out of trouble?

nope. not once[okay, maybe as a kid]. lieing only makes it worse.

 

[artanis_neravar]

My first question to you is: Why are you looking at porn if you are in a serious relationship? I can understand if it was casual at first or if you two weren't exclusive, but if you are still looking at porn after you confirmed that you're serious for one another, then it might not be as serious as you claim it to be. Just sayin'.

My ex watched porn with me

Make lemonade, ask her about it. If it was her say it got you real hot, point at some particularly attractive bit and get a little.

The point of the lemonade is?

Making the best of a bad situation, i.e. "god gives you lemons so you make lemonade", you've really never heard that expression? Not saying that to be a dick but out of genuine surprise.

To be fair, when I read it I thought making lemonade was the first step of your plan which, I assumed, would be shortly followed by "drink lemonade" or "throw lemonade in her face"

 

[artanis_neravar]

Wait, you're in college?

Easy, get a loud mouth friend to come around ya'll and have the loud mouth friend say, "I think I saw you in a porn video last night, do you do porn?"

Judge reaction.

Win.

Until said loud mouth friend decides he wants the porn star as his girl friend and rats you out.