Well, this topic is about exactly what it says on the tin. It's not supposed to be serious but I know the'll be some people who'll say "this thread's been done to death!". fuck 'em.
So what things do you find attractive in a man or woman? Or conversely, what would put you right off?
I'm a straight male so I'll be mostly talking about females, but I can give an opinion on what I think constitutes an attractive guy too.
Women:
- Tall or short is not to bothersome for me, though not too short or I'd have to crouch to kiss them or something like that.
- Weight ain't too much an issue though I'm not keen on either extreme.
- I'm not keen on blondes. I'm just not. Brown, black or ginger/red hair is absolutely fab though, the former is dark and mysterious, the latter fiery and passionate!
- I love accents, not most Scottish or English accents though. Welsh accents are really lovely, as are those from the Islands. Foreign accents are really exotic to me too (most likely the product of having grown up in a small village).
- I love geekiness and most people don't get what I mean by this. They think I mean like "hot librarian" but no (though I do think girls who wear glasses can look very sexy...). What I mean are girls who are just really passionate about something that isn't partying or booze. It could be Sci Fi, astronomy, maths, cartoons, films, books anything like that. To me it makes me very interested and I think it's very cute when someone gets excited about talking about their particular subject. I just love it.
- Sense of humour is a must. You can be as pretty as you want but if you never smile or laugh and take everything oh so seriously, then I can't spend time with you. I've met few women who don't look attractive when they smile.
- Perfume and other smelly things. They can be nice but if I can smell you from 3m away and you leave an odour trail you're wearing too much! I'm not big on smokers either but I don't smoke so I notice the smell more I think.
- I like a person who I could have interesting discussions with. I like people who have opinions on things, even if they differ from mine. How boring would it be to have people never differing from me? I may as well date myself!
- Make-up is unnecessary for the most part. A little bit is fine if you're going somewhere nice and it can enhance ones features but it can sometimes mask their natural beauty if used to excess.
- Most importantly, they've got to have a nice personality by which I mean friendly warm and comfortable to be around.
Men:
- Beards? Seriously? Have people never read The Twits as a child?! The rugged look is okay though so a little bit of stubble is absolutely fine.
- Big muscles look a bit wierd. An athletic body is nice (and what I'd like to have) but too much muscle just looks unnatural.
- Okay, I understand why some girls like the bad boys but why the wasters? At least have the sense to go for ones with some income!
- Why are loads of men so obsessed with the size of their willy? As long as its 4+ inches when up you can pleasure a woman just fine. And actually the thickness is more important to a degee anyway..... not that I'm an expert or anything (but my dad works for the NHS and I read a lot of medical magazines as a kid).
- As with women, men who take themselves too seriously ain't attractive. Have fun, man!
- If a man is overly obsessed with their appearance, I don't think that's attractive either. And as with women, if I can smell your aftershave from 3m away you're wearing too much!
I know I've pretty much written an essay here but I'm interested to know what the lovely forum goers here think. This isn't supposed to be taken too seriously so don't be offended by anything I've posted here (or else).
Have a lovely day everybody!
So what things do you find attractive in a man or woman? Or conversely, what would put you right off?
I'm a straight male so I'll be mostly talking about females, but I can give an opinion on what I think constitutes an attractive guy too.
Women:
- Tall or short is not to bothersome for me, though not too short or I'd have to crouch to kiss them or something like that.
- Weight ain't too much an issue though I'm not keen on either extreme.
- I'm not keen on blondes. I'm just not. Brown, black or ginger/red hair is absolutely fab though, the former is dark and mysterious, the latter fiery and passionate!
- I love accents, not most Scottish or English accents though. Welsh accents are really lovely, as are those from the Islands. Foreign accents are really exotic to me too (most likely the product of having grown up in a small village).
- I love geekiness and most people don't get what I mean by this. They think I mean like "hot librarian" but no (though I do think girls who wear glasses can look very sexy...). What I mean are girls who are just really passionate about something that isn't partying or booze. It could be Sci Fi, astronomy, maths, cartoons, films, books anything like that. To me it makes me very interested and I think it's very cute when someone gets excited about talking about their particular subject. I just love it.
- Sense of humour is a must. You can be as pretty as you want but if you never smile or laugh and take everything oh so seriously, then I can't spend time with you. I've met few women who don't look attractive when they smile.
- Perfume and other smelly things. They can be nice but if I can smell you from 3m away and you leave an odour trail you're wearing too much! I'm not big on smokers either but I don't smoke so I notice the smell more I think.
- I like a person who I could have interesting discussions with. I like people who have opinions on things, even if they differ from mine. How boring would it be to have people never differing from me? I may as well date myself!
- Make-up is unnecessary for the most part. A little bit is fine if you're going somewhere nice and it can enhance ones features but it can sometimes mask their natural beauty if used to excess.
- Most importantly, they've got to have a nice personality by which I mean friendly warm and comfortable to be around.
Men:
- Beards? Seriously? Have people never read The Twits as a child?! The rugged look is okay though so a little bit of stubble is absolutely fine.
- Big muscles look a bit wierd. An athletic body is nice (and what I'd like to have) but too much muscle just looks unnatural.
- Okay, I understand why some girls like the bad boys but why the wasters? At least have the sense to go for ones with some income!
- Why are loads of men so obsessed with the size of their willy? As long as its 4+ inches when up you can pleasure a woman just fine. And actually the thickness is more important to a degee anyway..... not that I'm an expert or anything (but my dad works for the NHS and I read a lot of medical magazines as a kid).
- As with women, men who take themselves too seriously ain't attractive. Have fun, man!
- If a man is overly obsessed with their appearance, I don't think that's attractive either. And as with women, if I can smell your aftershave from 3m away you're wearing too much!
I know I've pretty much written an essay here but I'm interested to know what the lovely forum goers here think. This isn't supposed to be taken too seriously so don't be offended by anything I've posted here (or else).
Have a lovely day everybody!
