So...what do you find attractive in a man/woman?
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I don't mean this all to come off as some kind of "must have" checklist or something. After all, you can think someone attractive without fancying them. After all, I'll comment on the attractiveness of men, having a sister like mine gets you used to that sort of thing.
An attractive person is not necessarily a compatible person, a compatible person is not necessarily an attractive person. We can find beauty in the most unexpected places. And now I sound like a fortune cookie.
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An attractive person is not necessarily a compatible person, a compatible person is not necessarily an attractive person. We can find beauty in the most unexpected places. And now I sound like a fortune cookie.
I've heard "honesty" quite a lot. What exactly does that mean? Does it mean not a liar or not a fake? I'm just curious because it's a term I hear often but feel stupid asking what it means (except on the internet, because you can be as stupid as you like out hereAylaine said:Honesty and confidence. Looks are cool, and to a degree I would like someone who is attractive physically (and it's not hard to do that for me, because I can find beauty in almost anyone) but not necessary. If you act yourself, honestly and with confidence, you are easily ahead of everyone else. This applies to both guys and girls for me.
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my thoughts exactly.Anna Karina said:
OT:
mildly pretty,
kinda cute,
average weight,
I dunno :/
Alison Mosshart. Nuff said? No? Well than...
I don't dig girls who aren't strong in their beliefs. I dated a girl once who was mormon, then christian, and when she dated me, she went athiest. She was just bending her beliefs to fit around whichever guy she was boning at the time, and I effing hated it. I had had enough when she said she knew who Pink Floyd was, and liked System of a Down, which were both lies. -.-
I share Trivun's like of 'perky' goths. Darker chicks with personality, y'know? I'm always advocating that gals get longer hair - that's something I like. Quirky girls are definitely cute, as are girls who can take a bit of adventure. I get lost often while driving, or like to just go exploring, so if they can take that, +1. A love of music and gaming, +100
Edit: Girls who point out my double negatives also don't rank high... *fist shake*
I don't dig girls who aren't strong in their beliefs. I dated a girl once who was mormon, then christian, and when she dated me, she went athiest. She was just bending her beliefs to fit around whichever guy she was boning at the time, and I effing hated it. I had had enough when she said she knew who Pink Floyd was, and liked System of a Down, which were both lies. -.-
I share Trivun's like of 'perky' goths. Darker chicks with personality, y'know? I'm always advocating that gals get longer hair - that's something I like. Quirky girls are definitely cute, as are girls who can take a bit of adventure. I get lost often while driving, or like to just go exploring, so if they can take that, +1. A love of music and gaming, +100
Edit: Girls who point out my double negatives also don't rank high... *fist shake*
Well i'm a MAN! And I like BOOOBS!
I kid I kid...Well no I do like boobs but as long as their not too big, I like girls with brown, black and ginger hair, smart, funny, a gamer, petite (well shorter than me), nice eyes, nice legs, smooth skin (I'm like Lenny from of mice and men when it comes to smooth things...which is not as bad as it sounds) And last but not least a purty face.
I kid I kid...Well no I do like boobs but as long as their not too big, I like girls with brown, black and ginger hair, smart, funny, a gamer, petite (well shorter than me), nice eyes, nice legs, smooth skin (I'm like Lenny from of mice and men when it comes to smooth things...which is not as bad as it sounds) And last but not least a purty face.
Symmetry, intact, relatively clean teeth, and a build anywhere between "a bit light" to "a bit overweight" all contribute to being "attractive" in my eyes. Of course, I've also found that plenty of people who are very attractive are also all but impossible for me to tolerate for any length of time. As such, while it may seem trite to say so, a compatible personality and disposition is generally more important than how "hot" a girl is in my book.
Skinny nerd boys.
Androgynous tough girls.
Confidence. (Actual confidence, not the kind who put on a show but need constant reassurance)
No religion. Been there, done that, had the messy break-up.
Androgynous tough girls.
Confidence. (Actual confidence, not the kind who put on a show but need constant reassurance)
No religion. Been there, done that, had the messy break-up.
I'm 5'3" and one of my special talents is being able to do at least 5 pull ups unassisted. I like long walks on the beach, interspersed by manic running as I chase and am chased back by the waves. I'm studying to become a teacher, and am currently a lifeguard. I like to cosplay at anime conventions.
I find myself attractive.
This is what this thread is going to turn into, right? Person seeking person with specific characteristics. Must enjoy certain activities and be aesthetically pleasing.
I find myself attractive.
This is what this thread is going to turn into, right? Person seeking person with specific characteristics. Must enjoy certain activities and be aesthetically pleasing.
I like girls with eyes that have colors that stand out a bit, like someone with dark hair that have really really dark blue eyes, or someone that have so bright green eyes that they almost look yellow, So HAWT
I've got a thing for hair(as in on the head), I'll be honest. Its not a fetish or anything but when I see a girl with a nice shiny head of hair, with nice length and colour, I wants to touch it so bad >.>
As for the other stuff, the usual, I don't mind a little extra weight, I like a nice smile and glasses are a bonus. Sense of humour and light-heartedness are very important as well because I tend to be very casual about everything.
At this point however, I will take anything with a pulse >.> I'm desperate.
As for the other stuff, the usual, I don't mind a little extra weight, I like a nice smile and glasses are a bonus. Sense of humour and light-heartedness are very important as well because I tend to be very casual about everything.
At this point however, I will take anything with a pulse >.> I'm desperate.
Confidence, intelligence (which does not mean they have to be nerdy in science, because you can be plenty intelligent in art, english, or literature), a cute face, and a happy state of being.
As for the weight, I'd would say more along the lines of the healthy weight curve ± a few pounds. However I do really like short girls, and glasses are also nice. Those are cool little bonuses. As for what's on her chest, I don't tend to care if she's flat chested at all. I tend to like sizes around B to D. Anything above DD is just seems ridiculous.
As for the weight, I'd would say more along the lines of the healthy weight curve ± a few pounds. However I do really like short girls, and glasses are also nice. Those are cool little bonuses. As for what's on her chest, I don't tend to care if she's flat chested at all. I tend to like sizes around B to D. Anything above DD is just seems ridiculous.
I only ask for some very basic and reasonable things.
1. Mildly athletic. I don't expect you to come to a spin up with me and I would never force you to (If you do come, I'll love you just that much more). However, I'd like someone who is more into fitness than "Oh, I walk a few miles every so often."
2. Stable personality. Sometimes I'm content to just be near you and not have to say anything. If you can not deal with periods of silence or you flip out over small shit, then I'll toss you out the door. I need you to be able to stay calm most of the time.
1. Mildly athletic. I don't expect you to come to a spin up with me and I would never force you to (If you do come, I'll love you just that much more). However, I'd like someone who is more into fitness than "Oh, I walk a few miles every so often."
2. Stable personality. Sometimes I'm content to just be near you and not have to say anything. If you can not deal with periods of silence or you flip out over small shit, then I'll toss you out the door. I need you to be able to stay calm most of the time.
Bi guy here;
Guys: Small, skinny (I'm pretty average size myself), pretty, someone I can get along with and talk to for ages.
Girls: I'm not really sure to be honest, preferably not much bigger than me I guess, nice smile, and again someone I can talk to for as long as we have.
Guys: Small, skinny (I'm pretty average size myself), pretty, someone I can get along with and talk to for ages.
Girls: I'm not really sure to be honest, preferably not much bigger than me I guess, nice smile, and again someone I can talk to for as long as we have.
-Guys with long hair, don't ask me why, I get made fun of for it alot.
-Have to be able to hold a decent conversation, even if I don't agree they have to be interested and passionate about something.
- Taller and generally big guys, it doesn't really matter if it's fat or muscle(just not HUGE).
Other than that a person who catches my attention.
-Have to be able to hold a decent conversation, even if I don't agree they have to be interested and passionate about something.
- Taller and generally big guys, it doesn't really matter if it's fat or muscle(just not HUGE).
Other than that a person who catches my attention.
Why don't people like beards on guys? I want to have a beard because I think it is awesome, but from the sound of it it will make me unattractive.
OT: I don't really have that many preferences. In girls I sort of have a thing for red, semi-short, hair. I also sort of like well framed eyes, as in eyeliner, but I am not too sure about that one. Others tend to think that is excessive makeup, and I might tire of it if I was ever to date someone with that makeup look.
OT: I don't really have that many preferences. In girls I sort of have a thing for red, semi-short, hair. I also sort of like well framed eyes, as in eyeliner, but I am not too sure about that one. Others tend to think that is excessive makeup, and I might tire of it if I was ever to date someone with that makeup look.