So...what do you find attractive in a man/woman?

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Blair Bennett

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Doctor VonSexMachine said:
Androgynous tough girls.
So...umm...are you, like...doing anything?...Ever?..On Tuesday?

OT: I guess something that I find attractive in males would have to be a tolerance of everything that makes me unfit to exist in normal society. These things include my appearance, my mannerisms, an undying love of rotary-style telephones, etc. Physically, I'd have to say darker hair, and slightly taller than myself, which isn't hard for the average male. However, the physical attributes are...well, being honest, they're a bonus, if not an impossibility. To say things another way, I find the same things attractive as Furburt...and find myself deathly afraid of meaningful relationships for some reason...Yep, I'm a catch all right.

EDIT: A conversationalist would not be out of the question. Nor would someone who would not belittle me for the purpose of humor because of A) my ideals or B) my curious fascination with becoming a vigilante crime fighter that lasted well into adolescence.
 

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I find women who have short hair to be really attractive. Great personality, an interest in video games and... other stuff I can't think of right now.
 

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Aylaine said:
Honesty and confidence. Looks are cool, and to a degree I would like someone who is attractive physically (and it's not hard to do that for me, because I can find beauty in almost anyone) but not necessary. If you act yourself, honestly and with confidence, you are easily ahead of everyone else. This applies to both guys and girls for me. :)
Stop reading my mind!!! And why are you in 50% of all threads I check??? <.<

OT: Pretty much the same, can't think of a better way to say it. (I also find beauty in everything/everyone, and all that) OR I'll just say "that person" (not to be confused with that person I just quoted, "that person" is someone else. Feel free to guess what person it is :D)
 

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Jonluw said:
Why don't people like beards on guys? I want to have a beard because I think it is awesome, but from the sound of it it will make me unattractive.
They're just gross. I mean they're rugged and manly, but they're not something you want to rub against or touch. Good way to hide a weak jaw line though.
 

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Applied to females
I can't spell it out any better (No. I really can't. It's complicated):

Neglectful, coolheaded, maybe even half-arrogant. Oh! And she has to be shallow.
 

joshthor

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im a straight man.
anywho:
i like short/average hieght chicks. no taller than... 5' 10"? and if they are taller than me i am afraid of them (i am 6' 2")
i like thin chicks mainly, but i wouldnt have a problem dating a average/ slightly above average weight girl (no fatties though)

mostly in a chick though i look for a few things:
good personality, beautiful eyes, nice hair, and a great ass. if you have those 4 things i dont care about the rest.
 

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Blair Bennett said:
Doctor VonSexMachine said:
Androgynous tough girls.
So...umm...are you, like...doing anything?...Ever?..On Tuesday?

OT: I guess something that I find attractive in males would have to be a tolerance of everything that makes me unfit to exist in normal society. These things include my appearance, my mannerisms, an undying love of rotary-style telephones, etc. Physically, I'd have to say darker hair, and slightly taller than myself, which isn't hard for the average male. However, the physical attributes are...well, being honest, they're a bonus, if not an impossibility. To say things another way, I find the same things attractive as Furburt...and find myself deathly afraid of meaningful relationships for some reason...Yep, I'm a catch all right.

EDIT: A conversationalist would not be out of the question. Nor would someone who would not belittle me for the purpose of humor because of A) my ideals or B) my curious fascination with becoming a vigilante crime fighter that lasted well into adolescence.
you got that one too? awesome. high five! except i still do. i should grow out of that.
 

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shophius said:
Hairy legs are a must.
Wait, what?
You know, I've never heard a woman say hairy legs are important before, so you should be congratulated for being original at least!

Ot: I don't have an "Ideal woman" in terms of appearance, I like lots of different types. Some sort of mixed ethnicity is usually pretty damn hot though.
More important is the personality. I like a girl who is nice first and foremost. Someone who likes long conversations about anything, from important personal stuff to the most inane things, a love of conversation is a must. Some sort of geeky hobby, not even computer games, but a passion entirely for their own sake, that they like to look into more deeply than your average person. (to me it's music, and games to a lesser extent.) Someone I feel totally at ease with, like a best friend I so happen to have sexy times with.

Yes, I know this pretty unreasonable expectation, but I'm actually in a relationship with such a girl.

[small]Ha! Fooled you all into reading about me gloat! :p[/small]

What I find attractive in a man:
Will smith. Seriously, there's a few guys I'd jokingly say I'd go gay for, but with Will smith I'd seriously consider it.
You're lying to yourself if you say you wouldn't.
 

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Straight female here
In a guy, I like someone who:
plays older video games
is into music (I'm a musician myself)
I'm a little chubby, and I tend to like guys that are a little bigger.
Is really goofy
Laughs and smiles a lot
Is shy and maybe a little awkward
 

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Easy to talk to about pretty much anything, honest about themselves, kind but not a doormat, not incredibly depressed(I don't mind a little bit of sadness or a lot of sadness in the short term but I'm pretty sure if I was with someone super depressed all the time I would end up being super depressed too) and no bigotry/racism or things of that nature.
 

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Outright Villainy said:
shophius said:
Hairy legs are a must.
Wait, what?
You know, I've never heard a woman say hairy legs are important before, so you should be congratulated for being original at least!

Ot: I don't have an "Ideal woman" in terms of appearance, I like lots of different types. Some sort of mixed ethnicity is usually pretty damn hot though.
More important is the personality. I like a girl who is nice first and foremost. Someone who likes long conversations about anything, from important personal stuff to the most inane things, a love of conversation is a must. Some sort of geeky hobby, not even computer games, but a passion entirely for their own sake, that they like to look into more deeply than your average person. (to me it's music, and games to a lesser extent.) Someone I feel totally at ease with, like a best friend I so happen to have sexy times with.

Yes, I know this pretty unreasonable expectation, but I'm actually in a relationship with such a girl.

[small]Ha! Fooled you all into reading about me gloat! :p[/small]

What I find attractive in a man:
Will smith. Seriously, there's a few guys I'd jokingly say I'd go gay for, but with Will smith I'd seriously consider it.
You're lying to yourself if you say you wouldn't.
Yeah hairy legs are good. Lady legs on men are nicht so gut. There needs to be a good covering of hair. Your girl friend sounds pretty epic tbh. You must be a lucky guy.

And oooft Will Smith xD
 

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Im a Strait guy...

For personality- nice, honest, intelligent, great sense of humor, geeky, gets all Dere Dere with me, likes to converse about anything and everything, very affectionate

Physically - Shes got to be shorter than me, slender or healthy, small breasts if slender, short/medium hair length (long hair is okay too), brunette, eye color can be whatever
 

Marik2

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Well as a lot of people have said they have to have a good personality and be fun to hang out with.

Not too picky on looks.
 

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I actually make a point of not thinking about this in rational/descriptive terms. I think emotion and instinct should be the guide in these kinds of matters, without any undue limitations (at least in terms of characteristics) based in rationality. What I'd want probably wouldn't be what I actually need anyway.