So you discover that your girlfriend is transgendered.

[chinangel]

What do you do? This is to help settle an arguement I'm having with one of my brothers. IT doesn't need to be your girlfriend either, it can be a friend from school or work, or maybe just someone you game with you somehow make this discovery.

What's your reaction, and why? For those of you who do not know what 'transgender' means, it means the person was born one sex but now lives as the other. This doesn't mean they are a crossdresser, they are a transsexual. They take hormones and the like.

 

[Leviathan_]

Yell "ITS A TRAP!" and proceed to flee in terror.

 

[El Poncho]

If they were good enough to fool me then I will try ignore it but it will always be in the back of my mind.

I take most news the same way. It's usually oh ok *smiles*

 

[Queen Michael]

I'd try to cope. But I wouldn't feel bad if I were to break up with her/him/whatever; after all, he/she/whatever lied to me.

 

[Zykon TheLich]

Yell, "IT'S A TARP!" and proceed to fleet in error.

Seriously though, discovering your 'girl'friend was a dude is a whole different ballgame to a friend or casual aquaintence.

 

[Sleekgiant]

So....................
Honestly if its a person I know and care about information like this will not affect me, I'm a very open and accepting person.

 

[Pimppeter2]

I would probably kick her him out of my house, beat her his ass, and then be pissed off that I've been dating a guy. Then lay some more woop ass.

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How so? It doesn't need to be a girl friend, the OP states that. Just someone you're very close with. Stop crying sexist at the drop of a hat.

 

[chinangel]

This thread is sexist to any female users. Shame.

I'm female and I created the thread sugar.

 

[cuddly_tomato]

I leave her.

Nothing against transgenders, but I have this feeling that gender is more than what dangles between the legs. Thus I couldn't stay with.... him? Her?

If it was just a friend it wouldn't bother me at all.

 

[DC_Josh]

Yell, "IT'S A TARP!" and proceed to fleet in error.

Seriously though, discovering your 'girl'friend was a dude is a whole different ballgame to a friend or casual aquaintence.

My friend, a sex change operation does not transmogrify a human being into a piece of camping equipment. I am so sorry.

 

[Domou]

SEXIST.

Nah. I honestly wouldn't care. Partially because I'm going to start taking hormones myself next month.

N' they have surgeries to change the nibbly-bits of a man to a woman's, n' vice versa. So, if they got that, I doubl-y don't care.

 

[Legion]

If they were a girlfriend then naturally I'd feel betrayed and angry, and would end the relationship there and then.

If they were a friend/collegue then the former would give the same reaction, although I'd be slightly more understanding and the latter wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

Meh, as long as the sex is good, I could care less.

The phrase is I couldn't care less, If you can care less then it means a lot to you.

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Not if you read the actual OP where it is stated that it doesn't have to be a girlfriend.

 

[PrototypeC]

I wouldn't care if they were a close friend or coworker, I'd support them wholeheartedly. You have to understand though that pulling down the pants and finding a throbbing... you know, is the #1 straight man's fear.

I assume for gay men it's somewhat like winning the lottery, unless it's the other one.

 

[zHellas]

Yell, "IT'S A TARP!" and proceed to fleet in error.

So... You'd have been in a relationship with a tranny-tarp?

Kidding.

OT: Ehh, I'd ask why she/he didn't tell me. If I liked the person enough even after the reveal I'd try to be friends.

 

[SextusMaximus]

This thread is sexist to any female users. Shame.

Not really, it's insulting to crossdressers, yes. Girls? Not so much.

OT: Dump her I guess, not to be harsh, but I wouldn't be "into" that at all. It would creep me out.

 

[Doctor VonSexMachine]

I'd be really shocked. I'm usually really good at telling. I'm sure I'd have a lot of questions.

I can understand the difficulty, but I think you should tell someone you are dating if there is something really ... different about you. I mean, I tell boys about my medical problem before things get too serious, knowing it might scare them off because it's better to know they like you for who you are.

I wouldn't rule out dating someone who was trans gendered for that fact, but maybe because I looking for some one who has less baggage then me. If they were happy with the transform and well adjusted, I don't see why not. I'm not looking for kids anyways.