Mother Yeti said:
Starbucks disclosed in court papers that the woman has had sexual encounters with 12 men other than Horton, seven of them before she met Horton.
It seems relevant in showing that she is not a sweet, innocent flower in need of overprotecting. To be clear, I am in no way saying this makes her a flaming slut who deserves to be mistreated because she's just so darned sinful, and so on, but she apparently knows what sex is about. A judge granted the motion, obviously believing that it is admissible as evidence, and therefore relevant.
I apologise if my wording makes this seem as if I am condemning her for it.
The case does not hinge on her being a sweet, innocent flower. It hinges on her being a minor who was sexually coerced by her adult manager while on the job. That Starbucks is attempting to win a case by essentially pointing at this woman and yelling HARLOT, is absolutely disgraceful.
im not entirely sure on this..trying to find a place which specifies but cant seem to..but anyway under the possibly false assumption that starbucks seem to know about these other men because maybe they were like other employees/people in positions of power/semi power..
..damn i really wish i could clarify this before going any further, but my point is in the scenario where the other guys are in positions of power..well it kind of puts a whole new spin on things. Its not like namecalling, like just saying "whore" for the sake of slapping on that label and all of the prejudice and stigma attached to it, but pointing out that she really isnt innocent, she has an agenda and sees her sexuality as a way to forward this.
Sex itself isnt something i ever think is condemnable, not the act itself, i mean at the risk of receiving flak if a girl and her boss wanted to bang that should just be it, though it can never be as simple because of the extreme volatility of the situation. But back to my point when there is some kind of clear sense of purpose in ones sexual partners how could that not be indicative? like in a scenario where someone sexes their previous boss, makes a small scandal about it then uproots and moves somewhere completely different..and ends up in some kind of similar mess but on a larger scale is it slandering for the sake of discrediting if that previous little doosy is mentioned? or is it giving evidence of a clear intent to forward ones agenda through the method which seems the most effective?
There is so much power and leverage granted to young girls when they realise they have what so many men of any age want, especially the earlier and more pre-legal they are when realising this. All it takes is once, being able to seduce an older man whether its through the guise of innocence or or just pushing yourself on him, people are only human. Once that happens he is pretty much toasted if you decide it. If you decide you arent being paid enough, or even getting careless and find out youre pregnant, it is a near immediate absolvement of all responsibilities, whether its the wrath of your parents or judgment from friends its an infinitely easier escape from repercussions to cry sexual harassment or rape