Strange Defensiveness Over Consoles

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leviathanmisha

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So, it's been noted several times by everyone from my girlfriend to my coworkers to my roommate's friends, that I am incredibly possessive/defensive of my PS3. This only come back into the light lately because I have to move in a week and a few friends offered to help me pack and they just so happened to be the same friends who helped me move a few months ago and didn't listen to me in the slightest when I told them to not touch my PS3.

I told them I was glad for the offer, but also warned them that if they touched my PS3 again, I was going to hack off their hands.

They revoked their offer after that, which doesn't really matter cause someone else already told me that they would help me move. But when revoking their offer, they told me that I needed to get over myself, because someone else touching my console won't be the end of the world.

Which has me wondering: Am I the only one like this with their console(s) or no?

EDIT: Because I feel like there needs to be more background behind my comment to them. There's a lot of lingering resentment on my part from the last time they helped me move, because I was jerked around by our school's housing department and thus, wasn't completely packed and ready when I was finally cleared to move. So instead of just letting me pack like the initial plan had been, they speed packed all of my crap and several months later, I'm still missing very vital things, like my nine foot charger cable for my PS3 controller, my 4th gen iPod cable, one of my two ethernet cables and for a week, my HDMI cable that goes from my TV to my PS3, but that was brought to my by them with very obvious chew marks in it, like they had been using it and their cat got to it.

So I honestly don't trust them, but since they're also my co-workers, I went for the asshole comment that will get forgotten in a week, instead of the outright truth that will linger and could eventually get me fired since they have seniority at our workplace. I need my job more than I need them aware that I don't 100% trust them.

Yes, it was dickish, I am aware.
 

Colour Scientist

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That's kind of severe.
They were trying to help you out and you were really rude to them about it.

They probably just forgot you asked them not to touch it, I doubt they were actively ignoring you.
I would have been pretty pissed off about it.

I packed away my own console last time I moved, I would probably want to pack it myself but I wouldn't act like that if friends were trying to help out.
 

PrimitiveJudge

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Yeah, do not say that to people. You love the PS3 and people get it. BTW since when does console preference determine how much help you receive when it comes to hauling?

Dude straight up, you are treating your console like Meth. That shit you pulled on your girl/friends would make me paint the walls of your hauling vehicle with your PS3 after it went through a woodchipper. I hope you didn't come to these forums for support.

OT: Seek HELP!

EDIT: minutes after yours: How the fuck do you have a girlfriend. My original post stands.
 

TehCookie

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I wouldn't let my friends pack it to move, but I'm fine with them touching it. I don't trust anyone packing away my fragile things, from my PS3 to stuff like my ceramics, and that way if it does break I can only blame myself.
 

Soopy

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Yeah, might want to brush up on the ol' social skills there buddy. Under no circumstances are the attitudes you're displaying rational or acceptable.

Things get lost when you move house, its just how it goes. It's nobody's fault. You asked for help, and got it. Yeah of course they didn't take the same care packing as you would have, but that's normal too - It's not their shit, they don't really care.

Asshole comment won't get forgotten in a week, trust me. I'd be surprised if they're going to continue having much to do with you at all to be honest.
 

Strazdas

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i would also hack somones hand off if they touched my PC.
well ok surely this is jokingly severe, but i do hate when people toch my machines. and NOONE and i mean NOONE better dare to touch my external HDD that i use as important document storage.

Being a greedy evil bastard that i am, i get very defencive about my items. when i moved (last year) i spent 3 weeks but i packed everything myself. its my stuff and im the one packing it (and i also took a month to fully unpack).
 

PH3NOmenon

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leviathanmisha said:
Which has me wondering: Am I the only one like this with their console(s) or no?
Your reaction may have been a bit extreme, but kind of understandable. That is, as long as you're not completely freaking out when someone looks at the thing. A PS3 isn't cheap, if it would get damaged or lost, you wouldn't be able to replace it at will. You might need to save up a bit for it to replace it and even then it's a non-trivial expense. Even when someone handling it has the best intentions, things can go wrong. And what happens when your friends drop it? They didn't mean to and they were helping, so it leads to the awkwardness of who foots the bill.

I behave similarly with my car. Nobody ever gets in that driver seat but me. Nobody gets to borrow it for any reason whatsoever.


Still, maybe you could have handled it a bit better. You could've just made sure you packed it away yourself this time and avoided the whole telling them off business.
 

AidoZonkey

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Consoles like the PS2, N64, SNES ect, im not. This generation consoles and handhelds, I am but just because my 360 sounds like its about to explode, both my PSP and my old DS are broken beyond repair and don't me started about my Wii (its pretty much on life support). I just feel as though the quality of my consoles has suffered and that they should be protected.
 

Anthony Corrigan

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Wow maybe it's. cultural thing but that doesn't sound in the least dickish, as for the premis no your not. Drives me nuts when my other half "puts away" bits of my consoles because she just shoves them wherever without any conderation, disks end up in different cases or just a stack and it drives me nuts, so I sympathise
 

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Well, I wouldn't have been nearly as pissed as they seem to have gotten, but I can see why they may have been a bit offended about it, but then again, you did ask them not to touch your PS3 the first time. They could have listened a little better.
And I can sympathise seeing as I hate other people touching my stuff a well. I've moved house many times over the course of my life and basically every time something's been lost or damaged. One of which was my brother's computer, which was making significantly more noise when it got back to him.
Maybe "I will hack your hands off" is the issue, because I would have found the comment hilarious and responded with something like "Yeah, I promise it won't happen again..." while these people obviously didn't. You might have wanted to go for something a little less...graphic.

Only thing I can say for sure is I certainly wouldn't hate you for it. I'm not the kind of person who'll make an offer to help and insist I be revered as a "good samaritan" for doing so. I'd take it as pretty obvious that you were joking and I'd acknowledge I had made a mistake before.

The only judgement I'd make about the people helping you move is that they're good people for offering to help, but they should try a bit more humility alongside.
 

GundamSentinel

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I don't have this with my consoles (I once stuffed my PS3 in a backpack to lend it to someone), but I do have that with some other things.

For example: don't touch my books unless you're prepared to face the consequences! That might stem from a couple of time where my lending out books to people ended in disaster (for my books, that is).

I usually don't mind people touching any of my stuff, but I'd like them to do that with a bit of care and consideration.
 

Foolery

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I can somewhat understand and relate. I'm not fond of other people handling my electronics either. A few past incidents have made me slightly paranoid. Such as my friend dropping my PC. I'd never threaten to hack off hands though. Might want to tone that down a bit.
 

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Always pack your most delicate or precious things yourself, before the help arrives. Avoid the situation entirely and that's for the decent help.

Since atleast on of them actually took some of your belongings home, maybe not having the same crew on board at all is for best.
 

KOMega

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Well the PS3 probably cost you a noticeable bit of money, you use it often enough to be quite relevant to your life I assume, and you have a few issues on trust regarding those who offered to help.

I can understand wanting to have assurance that one of your precious items is kept safe with little risk, and the easiest way to do that is to move it yourself.

I also understand the "hack off hands" thing was in hyperbole (at least I hope so) but it seems these days people are quite jumpy at things like these for some reason, even among friends (or if they are not your friends, maybe a more tactful answer.)
 

barbzilla

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I really don't understand why you would ask people you do not trust (or seem to like for that matter) to help you move. I'd rather do it myself than deal with people who may potentially steal my stuff. Even as a worst case scenario, you can move all the boxes and small stuff yourself, and then have them come over to help move furniture.
 

Dr.Awkward

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My question is, if you were that concerned about your PS3, why didn't you just pack it up before they even got there?