Stupid Breakup reasons

[Samurai Goomba]

I can understand why some people might choose to end a long term relationship after one of the partners slips up and has an affair... and as much as that would hurt me if that was case if my partner was truly sorry for it I think I have the capacity to forgive.
My heart isn't completely made of stone, just mostly.


Actually a better one, a girlfriend of a friend of mine dumped him... why? Because she was worried about 'losing him'. She BROKE UP with him, because she didn't want to LOSE HIM.
Weird.

Wait, I've heard about this... It's called "lying."

I've never had a serious relationship, but I've been "let down easy." I wish they'd stop that.

... I had some other stuff to say about women not respecting men enough to be honest with them, but decided it made me sound too much like a loser who can't get a date.

But yeah, it's best to assume when a girl breaks up with you, it's for a selfish reason. Still, the least they could do is say something like, "I'm breaking up with you to sleep with other guys."

 

[Lopunny]

I have a wierder one ever been dumped without knowing you were going out? lol

I once had this really confused gay friend, he'd just come out, and I said i'd give him all the support he needed etc etc, and he must of mistaken sympathy for actual affection...cos he txted me a week later to say it wasn't going anywhere and he'd like to break up but try to remain friends

 

[Samurai Goomba]

She felt awkward. What kind of a reason is that?????? No real explanation, just a text saying she felt awkward. She was my bf for nearly a year, then we went out for like three weeks, now she completly ignores me. She wont even look at me

Hmm... This might actually be genuine. Maybe she thinks of you as a brother, and now can't see you the same way anymore after dating. Maybe she's confused about where you two stand, and how to handle your changing relationship.

Maybe. Odds are pretty good she just wants to date somebody else. Best to just man up and ask.

 

[BeyondTheFail]

I think the worst reason for someone to break up with me was the fact that his parents didn't want him getting back together with someone he broke up with. Something along the lines of "She's no good for you, why are you back with her?" logic.

 

[Hoxton]

What is the most idiotic/strange reason someone has broken up with you?

Mine is her friend stopped paying her.

Man, you have great taste in ladies.

that's lame. period.

 

[Samurai Goomba]

I am probably going to break up with my current girlfriend as soon as winter is over. We do not really talk much any more and only see each other at nights so the only reason I even keep her is it is too fucking cold to go without.

Wait, what? Seriously? That is a moronic reason not to break up with somebody you have no intention of staying with. Buy an extra blanket, put on a sweater and tell the truth to this poor girl so she can stop wasting time with you.

You keep her because it's too cold to go without? Excuse me, sir, but... I can't have any respect for that kind of reasoning.

 

[BeyondTheFail]

What is the most idiotic/strange reason someone has broken up with you?

Mine is her friend stopped paying her.

Man, you have great taste in ladies.

that's lame. period.

Seconded.

 

[chaser[phoenix]]

My girlfriend broke up with me specifically because we were having sex too frequently which in retrospect doesn't say much about my skill in bed, even though she said I was quite good.

 

[Zykon TheLich]

I can't say I ever had a stupid reason, but there was something that was similar.

There was one girl I really liked but was in a relationship with a guy already. I figured eh why not. I'll stand by and maybe if I am lucky they might break up.

They did and I thought I had a chance.....instead she went into a depression and instead started dating girls instead of me.

You have no idea how much it hurts when someone would rather date the same sex than you.

Look at it like this:

She might have just finally figured out that she isn't into guys. Not much you can do about that, it's hardly a reflection on you as a person. If she likes girls, she likes girls. IMO that's probably one of the least depressing ways someone who you still like could break up with you (not that it's happened to me, I'm just guessing).

 

[BeyondTheFail]

She felt awkward. What kind of a reason is that?????? No real explanation, just a text saying she felt awkward. She was my bf for nearly a year, then we went out for like three weeks, now she completly ignores me. She wont even look at me

I agree with the person who said that she probably felt more like you two should have a more platonic relationship. And, as for why she completely ignores you, she probably needs some time to heal. I mean, she was probably feeling like she was kissing her brother. I've been in that kind of situation. It sucks.

]My girlfriend broke up with me specifically because we were having sex too frequently which in retrospect doesn't say much about my skill in bed, even though she said I was quite good.

Did she have a basis of comparison? Perhaps the fact that you were having sex so much with her made it so she couldn't tell whether you were good or not, and she wanted the chance to get a basis of comparison.

 

[Roamin11]

So I use to sneak out to my girlfriends house to do... Welp ya know
And I noticed that my mark in my major was dropping like a a-bomb to its intending target, and I knew that if I kept sneaking out I would fail cuz hell I guy needs to sleep and class isn't the place for it. So I ended it because she was too good, literally she was an awesome girlfriend, and Im glad we are still "friends"

 

[Helmet]

One of my ex's parents broke up with me.

Let me say that again.

Her PARENTS broke up with me.

It wasn't an "us or him" choice, they outright told her that she was breaking up with me and she couldn't ever see me again. Never did find out what I had done to them...

 

[crazy-j]

I can understand why some people might choose to end a long term relationship after one of the partners slips up and has an affair... and as much as that would hurt me if that was case if my partner was truly sorry for it I think I have the capacity to forgive.
My heart isn't completely made of stone, just mostly.


Actually a better one, a girlfriend of a friend of mine dumped him... why? Because she was worried about 'losing him'. She BROKE UP with him, because she didn't want to LOSE HIM.

Wierd.

lol man thats what girls do. mt girlfriend just dumped me because she said her feelings faded. then a week later she email me syaing i was the best boyfriend ever and that she loved spending time with me. then why did you dump me!!!!!?

 

[BeyondTheFail]

I can understand why some people might choose to end a long term relationship after one of the partners slips up and has an affair... and as much as that would hurt me if that was case if my partner was truly sorry for it I think I have the capacity to forgive.
My heart isn't completely made of stone, just mostly.


Actually a better one, a girlfriend of a friend of mine dumped him... why? Because she was worried about 'losing him'. She BROKE UP with him, because she didn't want to LOSE HIM.

Wierd.

lol man thats what girls do. mt girlfriend just dumped me because she said her feelings faded. then a week later she email me syaing i was the best boyfriend ever and that she loved spending time with me. then why did you dump me!!!!!?

Yeah, that's weird. Although I've heard similar things happen to one of my best friends.

One of my ex's parents broke up with me.

Let me say that again.

Her PARENTS broke up with me.

It wasn't an "us or him" choice, they outright told her that she was breaking up with me and she couldn't ever see me again. Never did find out what I had done to them...

Wow, and the fact that my first boyfriend's parents told him to break up with me feels a little bit better now. At least I'm still friends with him.

 

[Guitar Gamer]

well there was this one time.................................................................................wait I've never had a relationship but from what I get from this is that their not worth it alot of the time

 

[Smokeydubbs]

I can understand why some people might choose to end a long term relationship after one of the partners slips up and has an affair... and as much as that would hurt me if that was case if my partner was truly sorry for it I think I have the capacity to forgive.
My heart isn't completely made of stone, just mostly.


Actually a better one, a girlfriend of a friend of mine dumped him... why? Because she was worried about 'losing him'. She BROKE UP with him, because she didn't want to LOSE HIM.
Wierd.

I had that pulled on me. She played it off saying that is why she broke up with her ex before me. Reasoning being that everyone she gets close to dies because her uncle killed himself and her cousin died in an accident. Funny, she went back to that guy after breaking up with me.

Well that was one of her reasons for breaking up with me. That girl alone had like 10 different reasons, every new one brought up more questions. One of the reasons was because the relationship was just based on sex(it might of been, she didn't have to always go along with me when I got frisky). But there was a few times when she told me she didn't want it to be about sex, so we stopped doing it so many times. Then break up time comes around, "You know what it was about!" Actually no I didn't know.

I've used some pretty BS excuses and taken them. The old stand by: "It's not you, its me" always makes me giggle. Or any excuse that talks about seeing other people is pretty bad.

 

[BeyondTheFail]

I can understand why some people might choose to end a long term relationship after one of the partners slips up and has an affair... and as much as that would hurt me if that was case if my partner was truly sorry for it I think I have the capacity to forgive.
My heart isn't completely made of stone, just mostly.


Actually a better one, a girlfriend of a friend of mine dumped him... why? Because she was worried about 'losing him'. She BROKE UP with him, because she didn't want to LOSE HIM.
Wierd.

I had that pulled on me. She played it off saying that is why she broke up with her ex before me. Reasoning being that everyone she gets close to dies because her uncle killed himself and her cousin died in an accident. Funny, she went back to that guy after breaking up with me.

Well that was one of her reasons for breaking up with me. That girl alone had like 10 different reasons, every new one brought up more questions. One of the reasons was because the relationship was just based on sex(it might of been, she didn't have to always go along with me when I got frisky). But there was a few times when she told me she didn't want it to be about sex, so we stopped doing it so many times. Then break up time comes around, "You know what it was about!" Actually no I didn't know.

I've used some pretty BS excuses and taken them. The old stand by: "It's not you, its me" always makes me giggle. Or any excuse that talks about seeing other people is pretty bad.

If a woman says "We should start seeing other people", chances are she's already got someone in mind, or is already seeing someone else.