Stupid Breakup reasons
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One of my ex-girlfriends lived in a town that was a fair distance from me but not too far, maybe an hour on the train. Anyway we weren't going out for long, few days I'd say, and then she suggested that we broke it up because 'she didn't like not seeing me, and it hurt'. It wouldn't have been an issue if you weren't constantly making stupid plans so much that you said it'd be 4 weeks before I'd be able to fucking visit you.
My ex said she "couldn't see herself loving me". This is after 3, almost 4 months of dating, then she basically cut me off from her life, cuz she's a *****.
That really doesn't help my situation nor does it help my pride.scumofsociety said:
Doesn't help either when I asked her out on a date and she refused only to go with another girl. I don't even think she is a lesbian. I think she was just beaten up by guys so much that she got tired of it.
I am sorry, but you cannot turn gay. You cannot turn into a Homosexual just because of a bad break up. You might think you do, but those who usually they can turn always turn back thinking that they really don't like the same sex. You have to be born gay.
This is why I hate Lesbians....not because I hate homosexuals, but because of bad memories.
Why do girls always go for that bad boy shit? You know, the guys that treat them like crap? It is only AFTER they get beat up do they realize they need to find a guy that loves them for who they are.
Tired of always being the nice one and always coming out last. I can't say anything either or I become the villain.
Perhaps she didn't really have a friendship with you and was so focused on the relationship, and she didn't really think she had a reason to talk to you anymore after it fell apart. I don't know.Acid Armageddon said:
Sorry, just playing Devil's Advocate here.
I poured my soul into those months with her. I gave it everything I had, and now she just basically cuts me off? Freakin' LAME!BeyondTheFail said:
Get this. I was with my girl for heading up a year so i decided to go out and get something nice for her. I saw her nearly drooling at the sight of this necklace in the mall so i went out and got it. She caght sight of the receipt in my room (yea stupid me) and freaked out because she thought i had bought jewelry for someone else. I went ahead and gave her the necklace and explained how i saw her eyeballing it and got it for her for our anniversary. She then completely changed tangeants, still pissed, broke up with me 2 days before our anniversary and I was left a $300 necklace in my hands. Still makes no sense to me.
WTF am I going to do with that necklace wear it?
WTF am I going to do with that necklace wear it?
dude don't joke about dead relatives i think that may have been a bit of a dick move personally.Zukonub said:
I didn't say she'd turned gay, I said finally realised (or possibly accepted)she was (possibly, I don't know her). Anyway, I'm not going to get into an argument about the nature of homosexuality.James Cassidy said:
Clearly there is a little more to this now that you are going on about guys that beat her up etc. I was just trying to give you an alternative and slightly more positive viewpoint based on the information I had at the time.
Actually, I am pretty sure the true translation was that she was banging American guys while we were dating and that was an easier way to say it. Oh yeah, and she was planning on banging some European dudes too.Grampy_bone said:
I really did not want to go backpacking through Europe, I like more planned trips, plus I have seen one too many horror movies to fall for that one. Plus, she did not want me to go, kind of weird I know. The thing that made it so weird was the fact that it was so far into the future of our relationship, which lead me to my comment above, which was later verified by friends of mine.crudus said: