Speaking as someone who was born at the tail end of "duck under your desk" films, my perspective on the various points brought up is:
1) One of the reasons that a lot of my generation is cynical over the measures that have to be taken to protect us from terrorism is that we lived through an age where the prevailing wisdom was that the U.S.S.R. and the U.S.A. would inevitably come to blows. Even as children, we had this hanging over our heads for years. We learned to deal with it and, frankly, did it better than Americans do today.
I say this to illustrate what is a probable reason why the depictions don't bug me. Unlike people who were born in 1994, we've been there and done that. To me, it's no more effective than walking through a Russian airport and mowing down all the people there. Nukes are only going to be used in two circumstances and only one is viable anymore.
2) The two circumstances that nukes will be used against us is either
a) an isolated incident where someone, somehow, manages to get the technical knowhow, the bomb, and the ability to get it into a major city.
b) A full exchange.
B) is so remote a probability that it approaches zero. If it does happen, humanity dies. People like to say "you'll kill the odd billion" and leave it at that. That idea only lasts until you consider the aftereffects. One of the images that sticks out in my head from the Japanese bombings is watching a woman bathe her child. The child was supposedly a teenage girl but you wouldn't know it from how badly the child's body was twisted from the effects of the radiation.
So, even if you're one of the lucky few who survives starvation, nuclear winter, the collapse of all civilization as we know it, and all the other fun effects that a full exchange would bring about (Seriously, how many of you have any skills that would sustain your life in a pre-industrial society much less one dealing with the effects of a full nuclear exchange? I'd say damn few of you could feed, clothe, and build shelter for yourselves without modern society.), you're still effectively sterile. Any children you do manage to bring into the world will almost certainly need the type of modern medical care that you won't have access to anymore.
As the amount of viable breeding stock among humanity dies out, numbers will start to work against humanity. If two isolated tribes 50 miles away from each other has one male in one camp that can breed and three females that can breed in the other camp, they might as well have no breeders.
I suspect that this is why the zombie apocalypse took over from the nuclear apocalypse. One is survivable. One is not.
So we come to a) and that's impossible to predict because there are so many variables. Not to offend the residents of Hawaii but, if a bomb went off there, it would be a tragedy but we wouldn't miss too much of a beat. However, if it went off in our midwest and knocked out sufficient farmlands, America might truly know widespread hunger and that would probably break our society.
3) The notion that non-military targets would not be struck directly is laughable. Washington D.C. is a high priority target due to it's civilian/military leadership. New York City is a high priority target due to it's importance to our economic infrastructure. San Francisco is considered a high priority target due to it's technological importance. I'm sure somebody with more knowledge on the subject than I have can rattle off more targets that would be considered civilian. A nuclear war is not going to be limited by rules of engagement, the Geneva Convention, or any of the other artificial boundaries that we put up to make war more palatable. People just convince themselves that civilian targets wouldn't be hit as a means of reassuring themselves.
1) One of the reasons that a lot of my generation is cynical over the measures that have to be taken to protect us from terrorism is that we lived through an age where the prevailing wisdom was that the U.S.S.R. and the U.S.A. would inevitably come to blows. Even as children, we had this hanging over our heads for years. We learned to deal with it and, frankly, did it better than Americans do today.
I say this to illustrate what is a probable reason why the depictions don't bug me. Unlike people who were born in 1994, we've been there and done that. To me, it's no more effective than walking through a Russian airport and mowing down all the people there. Nukes are only going to be used in two circumstances and only one is viable anymore.
2) The two circumstances that nukes will be used against us is either
a) an isolated incident where someone, somehow, manages to get the technical knowhow, the bomb, and the ability to get it into a major city.
b) A full exchange.
B) is so remote a probability that it approaches zero. If it does happen, humanity dies. People like to say "you'll kill the odd billion" and leave it at that. That idea only lasts until you consider the aftereffects. One of the images that sticks out in my head from the Japanese bombings is watching a woman bathe her child. The child was supposedly a teenage girl but you wouldn't know it from how badly the child's body was twisted from the effects of the radiation.
So, even if you're one of the lucky few who survives starvation, nuclear winter, the collapse of all civilization as we know it, and all the other fun effects that a full exchange would bring about (Seriously, how many of you have any skills that would sustain your life in a pre-industrial society much less one dealing with the effects of a full nuclear exchange? I'd say damn few of you could feed, clothe, and build shelter for yourselves without modern society.), you're still effectively sterile. Any children you do manage to bring into the world will almost certainly need the type of modern medical care that you won't have access to anymore.
As the amount of viable breeding stock among humanity dies out, numbers will start to work against humanity. If two isolated tribes 50 miles away from each other has one male in one camp that can breed and three females that can breed in the other camp, they might as well have no breeders.
I suspect that this is why the zombie apocalypse took over from the nuclear apocalypse. One is survivable. One is not.
So we come to a) and that's impossible to predict because there are so many variables. Not to offend the residents of Hawaii but, if a bomb went off there, it would be a tragedy but we wouldn't miss too much of a beat. However, if it went off in our midwest and knocked out sufficient farmlands, America might truly know widespread hunger and that would probably break our society.
3) The notion that non-military targets would not be struck directly is laughable. Washington D.C. is a high priority target due to it's civilian/military leadership. New York City is a high priority target due to it's importance to our economic infrastructure. San Francisco is considered a high priority target due to it's technological importance. I'm sure somebody with more knowledge on the subject than I have can rattle off more targets that would be considered civilian. A nuclear war is not going to be limited by rules of engagement, the Geneva Convention, or any of the other artificial boundaries that we put up to make war more palatable. People just convince themselves that civilian targets wouldn't be hit as a means of reassuring themselves.