That Special Someone...

[LuzGutierrez]

That you talk to. Everybody should have that one person. Who is the person you trust with all your secrets? The person who can always make you smile, that person who just talking too just cheers you up. From a lover to a friend to a parent or a randomer on the internet, and why them? It can be talking to about anything as long as its serious to you.

This Idea comes after a pretty bad stage that I'm in right now (which I wont bore you with) And I just spent a good 5 hours talking to my special someone:

Chloé thanks again, Love you. Why? Because she is the only person who really knows me, and because she is just brilliant in every sence of the word.

Wow. That sort of hurts. It makes me feel so lonely. I don't know why but I sort of disprove this in every logical way. Let's take it in steps:

That you talk to. Everybody should have that one person. Who is the person you trust with all your secrets?

I can't trust anyone with my secrets. Even my own twin-brother I can't trust half the time. He's just a very honest person, and he's nice to me, but he's already got a girlfriend, and that's his version of this. I can't compete with that.

The person who can always make you smile, that person who just talking too just cheers you up.

That would be my brother, although, he only does this when I'm in an unstable state, most of the time he's a pretty hard guy, saying things like "Don't worry, just move on." and he moves on, or stuff like that.

I feel lonely again. I wish there was someone out there who I could relate to. But most of the people I meet on the internet don't seem that interested in talking to me. I tend to say stuff, but then the conversation just...dies, you know?

 

[ddon]

i just think about the bad things that happen and get my anger out by fencing. i dont like talking about things wether good or bad. i dont even trust anyone enough to even be withing two yards of me unless im in a big group for i have no choice.

 

[Duh]

well its not like that, social interactions with people have certain demands that therapy doesn't, and there are many types of therapy, I'm more of a psychoanalysis kind of guy so that's how I roll. It's more of a trust bond, sometimes there are things you just can't talk about with anyone else.

Isn't (pardon my ignorance here) therapy for people who are going a little bit cook-coo? And you seem reasonable sane to me. (this is more of a plea for more information on the matter than it is anything else.)

just because i seem reasonable (on the INTERNET, must i call your atention to that?) doesn't mean i'm not depressed and dying inside (i'm not that depressed)

Therapy is more of dealing with the subcontious and your identity, it deals with anything because it could be something more deep seeded and meaningfull than what you would expect, it's realy a issue of self-awareness.
Explaining it is sort of weird actualy, i would say everyone has sustained a substational amount of emotional damage and developed "defense mechanisms" to deal with certain deficiences or identity problems, therefore anyone can go to therapy.

it probably didn't answer all your questions because i'm not an expert on the subject and a terrible writer. If you want to know more about it you could just read about it or talk to a therapist, my therapist doesn't charge unless you're actualy going to do therapy, but not all of them work like that i guess.

 

[Artemus_Cain]

Her name is Crystal. She was recently promoted at my old job, and she desserves it. She's smart funny, unbelievably nice, and no matter how bad anyone's day has been her smile makes everything better. I love her so much.

Too bad she thinks I'm a worthless fuckface.

 

[Pandalisk]

The internet, other than that noone, im very private with my secrets and problems.

You trust the internet to keep your secrets?

Its the Internet, no one knows who the fuck i am and are willing to help me with problems that i have that should arise, not that i get much anyway, cant even recall one, its easy to talk to someone when you have anonymity, there are no barriers.

 

[Pandalisk]

My big sis... Oh, and:

The internet, other than that noone, im very private with my secrets and problems.

Intended irony?

I saw the irony a mile away, but meh, this is the internet, find the right forum and your golden.

 

[FallenRainbows]

well its not like that, social interactions with people have certain demands that therapy doesn't, and there are many types of therapy, I'm more of a psychoanalysis kind of guy so that's how I roll. It's more of a trust bond, sometimes there are things you just can't talk about with anyone else.

Isn't (pardon my ignorance here) therapy for people who are going a little bit cook-coo? And you seem reasonable sane to me. (this is more of a plea for more information on the matter than it is anything else.)

just because I seem reasonable (on the INTERNET, must I call your attention to that?) doesn't mean I'm not depressed and dying inside (I'm not that depressed)

Therapy is more of dealing with the subconscious and your identity, it deals with anything because it could be something more deep seeded and meaningful than what you would expect, it's really a issue of self-awareness.
Explaining it is sort of weird actually, I would say everyone has sustained a substantial amount of emotional damage and developed "defence mechanisms" to deal with certain deficiencies or identity problems, therefore anyone can go to therapy.

it probably didn't answer all your questions because I'm not an expert on the subject and a terrible writer. If you want to know more about it you could just read about it or talk to a therapist, my therapist doesn't charge unless you're actually going to do therapy, but not all of them work like that I guess.

I have enough problems that therapy has been recommended but I believed it was for total nut-jobs, But I spose I could look into it. Thank you sir.

Her name is Crystal. She was recently promoted at my old job, and she desserves it. She's smart funny, unbelievably nice, and no matter how bad anyone's day has been her smile makes everything better. I love her so much.

Too bad she thinks I'm a worthless fuckface.

Sorry, But I laughed.

 

[AlexTheBucket2112]

I don't feel comfortable talking to anyone. and I hate it. this thread made me realize how...uncomfortable I am.

 

[Irridium]

I don't trust anyone with my secrets, mainly because no one gets me or bothers showing interest, and I don't want to put my problems on other people.
Plus when I do tell someone they usually spread it around, this happened 3 times.

I deal with my problems like a man, push them down and let them fester as a quiet tumor while I ***** about the world.

 

[ZeroMachine]

I have a couple... I've lucked out with my circle of friends. Although I won't talk to them all about all of my issues, I know that if it came down to it I could go to any of them for help.

 

[Duh]

I have enough problems that therapy has been recommended but I believed it was for total nut-jobs, But I spose I could look into it. Thank you sir.

it's important to go because you want to, most people don't know how it works so they get upset after the first session and stop looking into it

actualy if you watch that HBO show In Treatment you get an idea, it aproaches therapy with a certain level of realism, it's only more dramatic that the real deal and deals with a limited amount of issues, mostly with transference and counter-transference because the therapist is an important character to the story.

 

[Daclunator]

gordon freeman is my special someone
take that ya combine!

 

[LaBambaMan]

Mine is a girl named Denise. She's the person I spend every day talking to, and probably the only girl I know who could give less of a shit that i'm a nerd(although she does poke fun at me sometimes, which is fine).

 

[Mad Maniac with axe-firing chainsaw]

Nowadays, no one. I used to trust close friends and family, but I've found out that if you want a secret preserved, you keep it to yourself. Too many bad experiences have told me that even if there are people who you can truly trust (and I haven't found any) they're too few and far between, and its not worth taking the risk with matters close to your heart.

 

[Generator]

My big sis... Oh, and:

The internet, other than that noone, im very private with my secrets and problems.

Intended irony?

I saw the irony a mile away, but meh, this is the internet, find the right forum and your golden.

True, true. So, just to clarify, you did see the irony, but you were being serious, right?

 

[Sigel]

Thanks for reminding me how lonely I am.

Awwh Its okay. I love you *offers hugs*

*hugs*

Now I just need to find a girl who cares as much as you do.

I'm a girl- Don't be lonely little mookie! "hugs"