Actually I use the word literally, when I say, "That sure is gay", when something shitty happens, I am actually saying, "That sure is happy" with a sarcastic inflection.
I know an openly gay guy who calls things "gay" or people "faggots", its pretty funny lolNimcha said:English is not my native language so I've never had this problem.On the other hand, since I'm gay myself it would be kinda cool to see people's reactions if I would use it as a curse word...
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I'm not feeling sorry for any whiny smokers tonight. I smoke, but do so at such a spotty rate that I can list myself as a nonsmoker on any medical records, same for drinking. Willpower is what it takes to not get addicted to smoking. You're not guaranteed to become addicted to it, and I definitely wouldn't believe all the self help hokum about how hard stopping smoking is. They'd tell you whatever you want to hear to make ya feel good about buying their patches and such so you can ease off your 'addiction'.thylasos said:Yes. But nicotine has an addictivity level similar to heroin.derelict said:As for changing it, just have to sort of pound it into your head. Stopping a habit takes a lot of mental work, just ask a smoker![]()
Using a certain word hasn't.
You just need to think before you speak.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Semantic_changeSaelune said:Stupid, dumb, annoying, irritating, bothersome, trite, weird, wrong, bad, gross, disturbing, awful, terrible, corny, lame, odd......
No excuses.
If people said thats gay talking about a gay person, I wouldnt have an issue with it. How about if something is dumb, you just say its dumb? Not only does it make what you are saying clear, it doesnt make bad associations. If X = Y and Y = Z, then Z = X. If Homosexual = Gay, and Gay = Dumb (according to "thats gay") then that would make Dumb = Homosexuals. Thats the issue. Its offensive according to math.Samurai Goomba said:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Semantic_changeSaelune said:Stupid, dumb, annoying, irritating, bothersome, trite, weird, wrong, bad, gross, disturbing, awful, terrible, corny, lame, odd......
No excuses.
http://library.thinkquest.org/C0117962/howwordschangemeanings.htm
No excuses.
I'd like to see a poll using percentages of everyone who uses "gay" as a pejorative who actually MEANS "oh homosexual individual!" Anyway, if you have a problem, talk to Matt Parker, Trey Stone and the constantly-changing English language.
You know, if The Escapist wants to say stuff like, "house rules: don't use those as pejoratives on this site" that's cool. But when people start, like, pushing their agendas and trying to socially engineer little pod people to say what they want to hear how they want to hear it, I'm not down with that. Not saying you are one of those individuals, however.
So I won't say it here if I'm told not to, whatever. But if I feel like saying "that's gay" as a way of talking about some dumb thing that happens, I will. And if somebody wants to say, "that's so lower-middle-class-white-college-boy," that's cool too.
I remember one of my gay friends reactions to the new DmC trailer. "Who the hell is THIS ******!?"Ixnay1111 said:I know an openly gay guy who calls things "gay" or people "faggots", its pretty funny lolNimcha said:English is not my native language so I've never had this problem.On the other hand, since I'm gay myself it would be kinda cool to see people's reactions if I would use it as a curse word...
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