It's because men generally accept their objectification. Don't really know why, though.Xanthious said:I noticed Bob conveniently ignored that men are indeed objectified in much the same way as women in things like trashy romance novels, daytime soap operas, TV shows like Desperate Housewives and Gray's Anatomy, or even movies like Twilight and I could go on. Last I checked there aren't hordes of men getting in line to buy soap boxes to stand on while they get all indignant on the internet about that though.
OT: The problem doesn't lie in how women are portrayed, but about how women WANT to be portrayed. I find it silly to be honest.
Bob's argument builds upon men idealizing muscles and brawn, which isn't really the case looking at the kind of hate games like Gears of War gets. It specifically show that men (at least the gamer part) aren't able to look past the aesthetics. I don't really get that either, that people somehow can't accept that it's a fantasy they are looking at. It doesn't really matter who's fantasy, just that it IS a fantasy.
Why would I escape from a world where women/men are not fantasized? I wouldn't. I get enough of my realistic interaction with both genders in my daily routine.
Wouldn't it be logical to escape into a world (game in this case), and away from that reality. Isn't this one of the complaints, when people complain about realistic games? This realism encompasses anything in life, including realism.
People already get their daily dose of realism from, well...life. Fantasy builds upon escapism, so I really don't understand why someone would find it a problem that there are fantasies in media. I mean, men don't hate Twilight, because of how it establishes female fantasies, but rather that it is a shitty book series.
The ONLY real problem would be, if you expect your reality to live up to your fantasy. Though, that is a problem not to blame on the game, but on the society and individual.
Edit: Apparently, I'm not gamer or a geek, since I'm not misogynistic or sexist.