You would have a point if the discussion was only rape, but I am talking about equal rights and the way women are treated. I think perhaps that the way society depicts women might lead some men to feel it is fine to rape a women. I think that would be date rape in most cases (no means yes), but I am not a psycologist, so I can't say for certain.medv4380 said:Blade_125 said:I meant to let this thread go, but I couldn't let this one go without commenting, since you have completely missed my point.
First off, comparing humans and primates is not valid. Even though we share a common ancestor, that doesn't make us all that similar now. A species that can produce cognitive thought can make ethical decisions. When a society says it is the womans fault that she was raped what mesage does that send to the men? It isn't about finding someone attractive. I am married and will still pause for a glance at a woman I find attractive. I also control myself. I love my wife and don't want anyone else.
Talking about the issue is how we fix it. The whole issue is the view society has. If women are looked at as second class citizens then they will be treated as such. If society looks at them as equals then they will be treate as such. The key is to change societies views. That is what you don't seem to understand. It is also why Bob's video, the feminist frequency video's and others are good things. They make people like you and I question how we treat women.
If you have a better idea on how things change please share it with the rest of us. If it is a mind blowing idea then I will fight with you to implement it.
No it's not, because you're not talking about the right subject. Talking about how someone shouldn't be seen as sexual doesn't address Rape at all. Their have been rapist who claimed that the elderly grandma in an ultra conservative night gown was "too attractive". It is a bogus argument that Rapist and Feminist alike use, and is irrelevant.
I'm not sure how this conversation turned to discussing rape. Probably my fault in how the conversation went. My real point is that if women are sexualized so that it is all they are considered as to have value then that is a problem, and I doubt you would really deny that. That is where I mean education and enlightment will help change societies view. Someone else commented that this can be subjective, and while that is true to a degree I don't think you will find many courts in a democratic (or even a lot of non-democratic) countries that will say any human being should be treated as less than a human being. So while there are places in the world where women are second class citizen, gays are killed, foreigners have no rights, it has been human evolution to get past those issues. Even in the western world we have a hard time getting past those prejudices. I can only hope that having these discussions more on all sorts of topics can help make people realize that we are all human and deserve to be treated as such.
All this thinking is exhausting. I think I'm going to go home and have a nap. Thanks for the dialogue Medv.