Soviet Heavy said:
Yeah, because I'm totally mad that nobody is giving me everything I want. That's exactly it. Totally not that I want to go to school, have desires for good employment, or any of that.
Soviet Heavy said:
I don't see how the fuck it's a shortcoming on my part to not be eligible for high paying jobs because I don't have the degree they want, and have no way of getting without going to school. If you want to act high and mighty because you saved some money, go right ahead. There isn't much I can do about it right now except make the best of a bad situation.
You seem to have overlooked my point and got the 'high and mighty bit' backwards. I'm on the low and lowly(?) side. I'm aware of that, I'm aware that everyone wants the things you're talking about. A good education? Check. A good job? Of course. Yet, you seem to be under the impression that it should be easy. Why exactly should you be able to simply skip working shitty jobs, hop right into expensive school and proceed into a good job with no problems? That's not how shit works unless you're coming from a well off family willing to cover you or otherwise got lucky.
You seem to be assuming you can skip the shitty steps and somehow deserve to get a fast-pass to 'the good life'. Suck it up, you've said that you're employed (or have been employed and / or part time during school). If you're not making enough to carry you through school, stop going to school. Cut your expenses, live reasonably and a couple years even on minimum wage will go a long way.
You don't want to work on minimum wage for the first chunk of your life? Guess what? Nobody does. You're the one acting high and mighty by apparently thinking you're better than that, and now you've reached beyond your means and it doesn't seem to be working out for you.
And you said your mom had to bail you out twice? What happened the second time? Did expenses suddenly double? That is not shit that should happen twice. If you couldn't manage it the first time around, it's not going to get easier the next time. That's when you cut your losses. If you did't have some reason to expect much more money the second time, the same problem was bound to happen.
So, while it's a bit late now that you're into your program a ways (working a shit job prior to starting school is much better than getting part way and turning it into a cluster fuck when you can't afford it and having to start over later).
In any case, it hardly matters now. Like you said, it's too late and you're more or less stuck where I'm saying you should have started. Quit trying to rush school, work whatever you can for as long as is needed and save everything you can, and try again later. Nothing wrong with going back to school in a few years. Just try not to start a family in the meantime as the extra expenses could very well bury you there.
Soviet Heavy said:
When you are going to school four hundred kilometers from home, you kind of need to have a car.
Why? Do you have a pressing need to drive back and forth regularly? What for? Doesn't matter, that part is up to you. But for a single man, barring the occasional options where your school and/or work place is not in a region you can live nearby nor be easily accessed by public transit, a car is a luxury. You do not need to go home, but whatever. You're one with financial problems, if you really want to make it work you'll have to really re-evaluate how you live and what you're willing to sacrifice to make it work.
Anyways, do what you like. But being a high school dropout from a below middle-class who lived with nothing while working shit jobs for years to get myself in a position where I could budget in school, I don't really feel you merit much sympathy here. I know what it takes to make it work, and while it may not be particularly fun for a while, you can either do what it takes or good luck with your alternative plans.
And fyi, I wasn't saying that you had anything against college or any such thing, I was merely getting ahead of any potential trollish dismissals of my points on the grounds of "Well College is cheaper so you're wrong I'm going to ignore everything else you said just cuz!", as is typical of people on the internet. Good on you if you wouldn't have gone that route.
Although seriously, if your program is super expensive, it may not be a bad idea to try something cheaper first to get you into at least a slightly better job, and upgrade later. I'm not sure how good of shape my College program will leave me in, but it's already good enough to beat out minimum wage by a decent margin and I'll consider extending my education in the future.