Pearwood said:
Batou667 said:
Don't boys and young men have enough pressure put on them to conform to aesthetic ideals?
No
"Younger men who read so-called "lads mags" could be psychologically harmed by the images of perfect male physiques they contain, research suggests." http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/7318411.stm
"One of Britain's leading eating disorder experts says as many as one in five young men are deeply unhappy with their body image." http://news.bbc.co.uk/newsbeat/hi/health/newsid_7611000/7611115.stm
"Anorexic says men need more help" http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/cornwall/8045237.stm
"Are men suffering in silence [about bulimia]?" http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/7358527.stm
"The number of men suffering from eating disorders is rising, says the Royal College of General Practitioners." http://www.bbc.co.uk/newsbeat/14051772
"Male breast op numbers 'growing fastest' - Pressure created by men's magazines was partly to blame, one surgeon said." http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/8487526.stm
LilithSlave said:
Because a topless guy in a fairly bottom covering loincloth, showing off his muscles which honestly only appeals to a few fetishists, and is mostly just to look strong and at the same time mildly savage, is comparable to a woman, up in front, with a slim figure and itty bitty shoulders that could hardly fight a thing, in a g-string, while the men behind are ultra-clothed.
Right... yeah. No, it's not at all the same.
The man is showing off his barbarian muscles. She's showing off her ass.
Well, the woman is still wearing more clothes than his. This guy doesn't even get a chainmail bra to cover his modesty. Where's the equality?
Also, the gluteus maximus is the largest muscle in the human body. She's displaying her musculature too.
You make a lot of assumptions. Assumption 1: When a woman bares flesh, she's being exploited. Do you not see the pictures young women take of themsleves and post on Facebook? Have you never been to a nightclub? A lot of girls LIKE to dress skimpy, and it's as much about empowerment and feeling good about themselves as it is about attracting men.
Assumption 2: Women don't objectify men. Have you HEARD the conversations girls have? Most women I know fairly drool over the barely-legal male actors in Twilight.
Assumption 3: The average woman doesn't like powerfully-built men. What about the men on the covers of Mills and Boon books (that's erotic literature for women, before anybody suggests that women don't enjoy porn), half of them fit the stereotype of the strong, mysterious man, his shoulder-length hair blowing in the wind as his chest heaves in his half-undone shirt.. etc etc.
I put it to you, LilithSlave, that you have a bigotted view towards sexuality, and you think that women are always being objectified and undermined while men are always in control and expoliting the poor vulnerable women. That's not a very progressive thing to believe, is it?