The end of the road

[endnuen]

I was thinking of that. Do you think it would be a good idea to make a new thread later on (when I'm ready for it) to ask for the community's opinion on where I should go?

How would you suggest I start rebuilding? I know it is what I have to do, but I just feel that there is no ground for me to stand on. It feels like building someone on no foundation. It just isn't possible.
Thank you for your answer man. I know I'm spilling out a thank you everywhere. I really mean them. I really appreciate this. Thank you!

Why ask us where to go? Ask yourself: Where do I want to go?
And when you have an answer, go there.
Stand on your own ground. Build off of your own back.
But start out by getting to feel good about yourself, find a few good friends and lo, already your life is on the path of glorious success.

 

[holy_secret]

I was thinking of that. Do you think it would be a good idea to make a new thread later on (when I'm ready for it) to ask for the community's opinion on where I should go?

How would you suggest I start rebuilding? I know it is what I have to do, but I just feel that there is no ground for me to stand on. It feels like building someone on no foundation. It just isn't possible.
Thank you for your answer man. I know I'm spilling out a thank you everywhere. I really mean them. I really appreciate this. Thank you!

Why ask us where to go? Ask yourself: Where do I want to go?
And when you have an answer, go there.
Stand on your own ground. Build off of your own back.
But start out by getting to feel good about yourself, find a few good friends and lo, already your life is on the path of glorious success.

I want to go somewhere where I can restart my life.

I asked because I feel like I need some guidance with this. It feels like I'm walking in a freezing blizzard with two bodies strapped to me with a long rope. It's heavy.
Hope the analogy made sense.

 

[Nouw]

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The Secret, Tuesday's With Morrie and The Last Lecture.

Three books that have helped me become the person I am today.

 

[endnuen]

I was thinking of that. Do you think it would be a good idea to make a new thread later on (when I'm ready for it) to ask for the community's opinion on where I should go?

How would you suggest I start rebuilding? I know it is what I have to do, but I just feel that there is no ground for me to stand on. It feels like building someone on no foundation. It just isn't possible.
Thank you for your answer man. I know I'm spilling out a thank you everywhere. I really mean them. I really appreciate this. Thank you!

Why ask us where to go? Ask yourself: Where do I want to go?
And when you have an answer, go there.
Stand on your own ground. Build off of your own back.
But start out by getting to feel good about yourself, find a few good friends and lo, already your life is on the path of glorious success.

I want to go somewhere where I can restart my life.

I asked because I feel like I need some guidance with this. It feels like I'm walking in a freezing blizzard with two bodies strapped to me with a long rope. It's heavy.
Hope the analogy made sense.

Most northern European countries speaks English? Same goes for the UK?
Get in touch the the embassies and ask if they can help you.

 

[holy_secret]

I was thinking of that. Do you think it would be a good idea to make a new thread later on (when I'm ready for it) to ask for the community's opinion on where I should go?

How would you suggest I start rebuilding? I know it is what I have to do, but I just feel that there is no ground for me to stand on. It feels like building someone on no foundation. It just isn't possible.
Thank you for your answer man. I know I'm spilling out a thank you everywhere. I really mean them. I really appreciate this. Thank you!

Why ask us where to go? Ask yourself: Where do I want to go?
And when you have an answer, go there.
Stand on your own ground. Build off of your own back.
But start out by getting to feel good about yourself, find a few good friends and lo, already your life is on the path of glorious success.

I want to go somewhere where I can restart my life.

I asked because I feel like I need some guidance with this. It feels like I'm walking in a freezing blizzard with two bodies strapped to me with a long rope. It's heavy.
Hope the analogy made sense.

Most northern European countries speaks English? Same goes for the UK?
Get in touch the the embassies and ask if they can help you.

Yeah, we do (exceptionally well actually). I also speak fluent Spanish and German, so I could pretty much go anywhere I wanted to. Since Swedish is my mother tongue I could go to Norway or Denmark.
Hmm. It's kinda cool how I have so many options. Puts a smile on my face.

I can go wherever I want to.

 

[endnuen]

I was thinking of that. Do you think it would be a good idea to make a new thread later on (when I'm ready for it) to ask for the community's opinion on where I should go?

How would you suggest I start rebuilding? I know it is what I have to do, but I just feel that there is no ground for me to stand on. It feels like building someone on no foundation. It just isn't possible.
Thank you for your answer man. I know I'm spilling out a thank you everywhere. I really mean them. I really appreciate this. Thank you!

Why ask us where to go? Ask yourself: Where do I want to go?
And when you have an answer, go there.
Stand on your own ground. Build off of your own back.
But start out by getting to feel good about yourself, find a few good friends and lo, already your life is on the path of glorious success.

I want to go somewhere where I can restart my life.

I asked because I feel like I need some guidance with this. It feels like I'm walking in a freezing blizzard with two bodies strapped to me with a long rope. It's heavy.
Hope the analogy made sense.

Most northern European countries speaks English? Same goes for the UK?
Get in touch the the embassies and ask if they can help you.

Yeah, we do (exceptionally well actually). I also speak fluent Spanish and German, so I could pretty much go anywhere I wanted to. Since Swedish is my mother tongue I could go to Norway or Denmark.
Hmm. It's kinda cool how I have so many options. Puts a smile on my face.

I can go wherever I want to.

As a Dane I can only recommend Denmark. A place where it is incredibly easy to meet new and exciting people.
But try asking the embassies what you can do. I'm sure there is someone there who wants to help.

 

[holy_secret]

I was thinking of that. Do you think it would be a good idea to make a new thread later on (when I'm ready for it) to ask for the community's opinion on where I should go?

How would you suggest I start rebuilding? I know it is what I have to do, but I just feel that there is no ground for me to stand on. It feels like building someone on no foundation. It just isn't possible.
Thank you for your answer man. I know I'm spilling out a thank you everywhere. I really mean them. I really appreciate this. Thank you!

Why ask us where to go? Ask yourself: Where do I want to go?
And when you have an answer, go there.
Stand on your own ground. Build off of your own back.
But start out by getting to feel good about yourself, find a few good friends and lo, already your life is on the path of glorious success.

I want to go somewhere where I can restart my life.

I asked because I feel like I need some guidance with this. It feels like I'm walking in a freezing blizzard with two bodies strapped to me with a long rope. It's heavy.
Hope the analogy made sense.

Most northern European countries speaks English? Same goes for the UK?
Get in touch the the embassies and ask if they can help you.

Yeah, we do (exceptionally well actually). I also speak fluent Spanish and German, so I could pretty much go anywhere I wanted to. Since Swedish is my mother tongue I could go to Norway or Denmark.
Hmm. It's kinda cool how I have so many options. Puts a smile on my face.

I can go wherever I want to.

As a Dane I can only recommend Denmark. A place where it is incredibly easy to meet new and exciting people.
But try asking the embassies what you can do. I'm sure there is someone there who wants to help.

Skulle ni förstå mig om jag pratade svenska med er eller är jag tvungen att lära mig danska? Du vet...utifall att jag skulle flytta dit.

 

[endnuen]

I was thinking of that. Do you think it would be a good idea to make a new thread later on (when I'm ready for it) to ask for the community's opinion on where I should go?

How would you suggest I start rebuilding? I know it is what I have to do, but I just feel that there is no ground for me to stand on. It feels like building someone on no foundation. It just isn't possible.
Thank you for your answer man. I know I'm spilling out a thank you everywhere. I really mean them. I really appreciate this. Thank you!

Why ask us where to go? Ask yourself: Where do I want to go?
And when you have an answer, go there.
Stand on your own ground. Build off of your own back.
But start out by getting to feel good about yourself, find a few good friends and lo, already your life is on the path of glorious success.

I want to go somewhere where I can restart my life.

I asked because I feel like I need some guidance with this. It feels like I'm walking in a freezing blizzard with two bodies strapped to me with a long rope. It's heavy.
Hope the analogy made sense.

Most northern European countries speaks English? Same goes for the UK?
Get in touch the the embassies and ask if they can help you.

Yeah, we do (exceptionally well actually). I also speak fluent Spanish and German, so I could pretty much go anywhere I wanted to. Since Swedish is my mother tongue I could go to Norway or Denmark.
Hmm. It's kinda cool how I have so many options. Puts a smile on my face.

I can go wherever I want to.

As a Dane I can only recommend Denmark. A place where it is incredibly easy to meet new and exciting people.
But try asking the embassies what you can do. I'm sure there is someone there who wants to help.

Skulle ni förstå mig om jag pratade svenska med er eller är jag tvungen att lära mig danska? Du vet...utifall att jag skulle flytta dit.

Det er ikke så uforståeligt som det kunne være, men ellers taler alle her jo fornuftigt engelsk.

 

[holy_secret]

I don't normally reply to threads, but reading your post really made me pause and think,
If I were you, I would just go away, pack up, sell anything you don't need and start a new life away from a family that clearly doesn't appreciate you,
you mentioned that you knew a few languages, so Europe would be an interesting choice, however the man who teaches myself and my class Japanese left went to Japan to start a new life, the language isn't difficult, merely different, and the change of culture and mindset could be just what you need

Hey man. Thank you so much for responding to this. It's cool that I could make you write something on this forum.
Do you know if your teacher made any preparations before leaving, or did he just pack his bags and left?
I agree with what you said. I should do that, and I want to do that. I'm currently selling all of my video games and consoles to be able to pay off all my debts.

Once again, thank you for the post.

 

[Aprilgold]

jeez, I'm sorry for all your loss but you've made it to here, you'll definetly make it through, meet people at your job, you get the idea, just go out to places you always wanted to go
here, sorry to use this poster but I thought it would fit
http://images.marketworks.com/hi/50/49711/AHFramedTI2768.jpg

 

[holy_secret]

jeez, I'm sorry for all your loss but you've made it to here, you'll definetly make it through, meet people at your job, you get the idea, just go out to places you always wanted to go
here, sorry to use this poster but I thought it would fit
http://images.marketworks.com/hi/50/49711/AHFramedTI2768.jpg

I've given up on ever believing it'll get better. But I'll live through anything. Moving forward will happen whether I'm accepting it or not, so I might as well go with it.

That's kinda how I look at it.
Thank you for the poster. It made me smile.