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garfoldsomeoneelse

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Sounds like her Atheism was laziness, not a conviction. As a logical Atheist, there's really nothing you could say to me to make me believe in a deity; you'd have to show me proof. I'm willing to bet that if that indoctrination camp had proof, they'd damn well be beating everyone over the head with it, so it sounds like she just called herself an Atheist as an "I don't care" until somebody sold her their religion.

Simple as.
 

Quaxar

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I'm sorry to say this, but there is only one logical explanation:

http://suvudu.com/files/suvudumedia/body%20snatchers.jpg

Watch out for other strange behaviour and most importantly don't fall asleep!
 

Yureina

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That seems a little fast for brainwashing, but never underestimate those people. That's what they do for a living after all. I'd talk to your friend and try to get her to tell you as to just why she acquired this "new view" of the world.
 

DocBalance

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RadioactiveTurtle said:
Now, I don't post here often. But this is a serious problem and I need an outside opinion on the matter.

Now, a friend of mine up until about a week or so was an atheist who disliked the idea of an omnipotent being watching over her and hated going to church with her family. She then went on a weeks holiday, to a camp in the north. I later discovered this was a christian camp. When she returned she was acting peculiar, different from usual. To me, she seemed closed off and less loving. At first I brushed it off as nothing.

But now she is heavily religious, she loves going to church, claims to feel the joy that God brings to her and that God guides her path and helps makes her decisions. Also, she now proclaims that God is her one and true love, above all. I was concerned with this drastic change on her views and have gathered up a group of people who feel the same way about her. We have all sworn to do what it takes to find out what has happened. Now, that may seem a tad drastic to all of you. But, she has changed massively; we wouldn't do this if it wasn't as bad as it is.

Now, the escapist. What do you think of this situation? Do you have any suggestions on how we should proceed?

I have some quotes, from Msn and Facebook; which represent how 'devoted' she is to this religion now, and before she left.
Before the camping trip:
"i dont get along with my parents, and i dont believe in "god" :mad: im also being forced to go camping on the 26th!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! - :'("
"thn today forced go church!!!!!!!! omg HATE HATE HATE- but now on computer so im happy"

After:
"************* September 5 at 8:37pm
I'm not scared of death at all, and i won't let you take God away form me cos you can't cos he'll always be there for me! :p And God helps me to make decisions and guides my path, x"
"church is goood, strangly enough."

I'd like to point out, that I'm not against christians or members of any religion. But she was only gone for one week and it is like she has changed completely. So I'm concerned and asking for help.
Sounds like growing a brain to me. Seriously, looking at the difference of the quotes? Hate is a pretty strong word. Do you even understand what that word means? What it implies? Hate, when used properly, means that you absolutely despise something to the point of where the entirety of your existence is wrapped around destroying it. Most people don't seem to get that, and throw it around freely, when all that does is cheapen the word, and cheapen themselves.

Before you dismiss a religion, perhaps you should understand what it's about: "changing completely" is exactly what becoming a Christian is. Her posts sound a lot happier now, from what you've given us to compare with. A lot less bitter, too. I'm going to take from the tone of the second comment that you probably questioned her on her new-found religion and it's merits, correct? Questioning the new basis for someone's life is not the best way to get a positive response, friend.

Also, am I the only one noticing the irony of someone who doesn't believe in God saying "omg"? Swearing by something you don't believe in=Cruise control for cool, children!

Edit: And to all the people calling "brain-washing"...seriously? That's what you are going with? Do you know how hard it is to actually brain-wash someone? I've met "Brain-washed" Christians before, and they are sad, sad people. When it happens, it's an atrocity. But they don't talk like this, not at all. They are much more aggressive in their responses, and they wouldn't say something like "church is strangely good". When you brain-wash somebody, they will proclaim it's greatness to the frigging hilltops, and they are not subtle in the slightest. Even that doesn't necessarily mean brainwashing, but you have to be both incredibly aggressive and incapable of any thought that has not been given to them by another. I mean, good grief people, if this was the other way around of a Christian converting to an Atheist, how many of you would cry brainwashing? Honestly now, let's be rationale and not let our own biases cloud up the situation any more than it needs to be.
 

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Danzaivar said:
What's the point of an eternal punishment though? The point of punishment is to reform and correct. Punishing eternally for something that no-one can change is just petty and sadistic.

Not to mention it totally flies in the face of any concept of forgiveness, lol.
Again, you think that it's petty and sadistic, but that doesn't make it so.

You can avoid Hell. Ask Jesus into your heart and follow Him. If you do that, you will go to Heaven.
Theninja said:
Wait wait wait.. If we're made in his image, That means God is just as flawed as any other human.
Being made in His image doesn't mean that we are identical to Him. It means that we have freewill and that we were created to be perfect.
 

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holy shit OP, i had the EXACT same thing happen to a friend of mine. he was an atheist and loved bashing christians (he spent a number of hours making fun of me because he thought i was a christian). he went to some camp along with another friend of mine, and now he is a young-earth creationist talking about the "lost souls" and literally acting in a holier-than-thou manner. funny thing is, the guy he went with is still perfectly alright.

He switched to a christian high school because he didn't want to be around so many "lost souls", and during a debate we had on facebook he said in response to me saying, "what the fuck happened to you" (we used to cuss like that all the time together), "something that obviously hasn't happened to you!". he also had the nerve to say that christianity has always existed (what about hinduism or judaism?). it was really strange.

good luck OP.
heh. lost souls. that, ironically, is my definition of the common churchgoer.
 

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Mad World said:
Danzaivar said:
What's the point of an eternal punishment though? The point of punishment is to reform and correct. Punishing eternally for something that no-one can change is just petty and sadistic.

Not to mention it totally flies in the face of any concept of forgiveness, lol.
Again, you think that it's petty and sadistic, but that doesn't make it so.

You can avoid Hell. Ask Jesus into your heart and follow Him. If you do that, you will go to Heaven.
Theninja said:
Wait wait wait.. If we're made in his image, That means God is just as flawed as any other human.
Being made in His image doesn't mean that we are identical to Him. It means that we have freewill and that we were created to be perfect.
a person with the name "Mad World" is defending religion.


WHAT MORE PROOF DO YOU NEED, PEOPLE!?

and yes, I payed attention to your defense. your "defense" is HORRIBLY flawed.
 

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Mad World said:
Again, you think that it's petty and sadistic, but that doesn't make it so.
So how is it not petty or sadistic?

I get that the reasoning may be beyond our comprehension or whatever, but in your eyes, does that not seem slightly petty or sadistic to you?

Like say if we take it to the human level: You get a letter in the post saying to paint a yellow smily face on your door in the next 3 days. You don't do it and then are kidnapped, plugged into a machine that ensures you will never die and tortured without reprieve. Billions of years pass, and all you know is that it's but a flicker compared to the amount of time you'll need to endure yet.

You could say that they was clearly warned to paint a face on the door. But that's kinda ignoring the elephant in the room here.
 

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Z(ombie)fan said:
a person with the name "Mad World" is defending religion.


WHAT MORE PROOF DO YOU NEED, PEOPLE!?

and yes, I payed attention to your defense. your "defense" is HORRIBLY flawed.
If you aren't satisfied with Mad World's answers, try me. What's your big deal in this issue again?

Danzaivar said:
So how is it not petty or sadistic?

I get that the reasoning may be beyond our comprehension or whatever, but in your eyes, does that not seem slightly petty or sadistic to you?

Like say if we take it to the human level: You get a letter in the post saying to paint a yellow smily face on your door in the next 3 days. You don't do it and then are kidnapped, plugged into a machine that ensures you will never die and tortured without reprieve. Billions of years pass, and all you know is that it's but a flicker compared to the amount of time you'll need to endure yet.

You could say that they was clearly warned to paint a face on the door. But that's kinda ignoring the elephant in the room here.
That is perhaps the most flawed analogy I've ever read. And I'm in debate, so that's saying something.

A better, but still flawed, analogy would be "Paint a yellow smiley face on your door within three days, or be tortured for the rest of eternity." Oh, and it's from the CIA. Would you take that more seriously?

This is, again, ignoring the bigger issue, and that is the fact the proverbial yellow smiley face(accepting Christ) only comes into the picture to help us. Have you actually read The Bible? Because I get the feeling you either didn't read it, or didn't read it to understand, only to criticize. The entire reason for everything we have to do, can be summed up in "our ancestors were morons." See, God gave out this handy little thing called free will. You know what people do when they have free will? They abuse it for everything it's worth. Let me pose to you a question: Say you have children in a house you built with your own hands, painstakingly over the years. Now, in this house you impose only one rule: Do not jump on the furniture. Next thing you know, you come home from work to find your loving children trampling all over your furniture, despite that one warning. What do you do? Just, let it go? Of course you don't. You punish them, and tell them don't do it again.

Now imagine that instead of jumping on the furniture, your children just doomed themselves and the rest of humanity, most of whom don't even exist yet, to an eternal struggle between right and wrong. They have created every liar, thief, murder, and rapist who will ever walk this Earth. What's worse, you knew, YOU KNEW, that this was going to happen, but you couldn't stop it. Because if you did, they wouldn't be your children anymore. They would just be servants. Nay, not servants, but slaves. In that one act of selfishness, you would become worse than all the evil their actions have created. However, you can warn them. You can tell them to fight against that evil. Against the pervasive force that now constantly tries to destroy them. You can give them a set of instructions, outlining what to avoid: Killing, coveting, stealing, lying, all these things they can know to avoid!

But they don't. They can't. The damage is too great, and too tempting. So you make the ultimate sacrifice, and give your own son, who is in essence a part of yourself, over to death. And as he lives life, he does no wrong. When he dies, as a blameless victim, he takes the place for all the rest of your children. For the injustice wrought against your son by death and Hell, you get to demand payment in the form of a pardon for all your other children. All they have to do, is accept.

That's how and why the Christian salvation system works. Now, let's take a deeper look at Hell:

Everyone assumes that's Hell's torments will be just like our torments on Earth, only worse. However, I would contest this. I prefer the theory put forth by, of all people, Neil Gaiman. The greatest torments of Hell are wrought by our own hands, upon the realization of everything we've done, and the fact that we have separated ourselves, for eternity, from God. That is the true terror of Hell, and nothing on Earth can never begin to compare to it.

Hope that clears things up.
 

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Coming from a Christian believer:

Sometimes a while after you're happy, but not as happy as before because you see the changes that need to be made to live your life with these new beliefs. Plus, the sobered attitude is pretty common a short time after most people have their conversion moment. Super happy with the feeling they've found, sad when it starts to fade. Hard to describe, call me crazy with your friend. Hopefully ya'll will stay close and that the intervention doesn't cause any undue tension.
 

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TheMaddestHatter said:
Z(ombie)fan said:
a person with the name "Mad World" is defending religion.


WHAT MORE PROOF DO YOU NEED, PEOPLE!?

and yes, I payed attention to your defense. your "defense" is HORRIBLY flawed.
If you aren't satisfied with Mad World's answers, try me. What's your big deal in this issue again?
the GROUP part of it, it feels so... Cultish. not to mention how the people feel soulless and unhappy.No one who has ever defended it ever given a proper argument for it. It feels empty, and support of it gives an impression of utter insanity.
 

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Z(ombie)fan said:
the GROUP part of it, it feels so... Cultish. not to mention how the people feel soulless and unhappy.No one who has ever defended it ever given a proper argument for it. It feels empty, and support of it gives an impression of utter insanity.
Wow, really? There must be some pathetic Christians in your area, mate. I don't know a single Christian who feels "soul-less and unhappy" because of their faith, in fact quite the opposite. Now, that being said, there are bad Christians, just like there are bad everything else. But we aren't all just some cult. For instance, I don't even go to my church's youth group, not because it's a cult, but because I find my faith to be a personal issue that I like to handle outside of groups. There are some people who treat it like a cult, but the same can be said about, well, anything. Take main-stream science, for instance: How often do you see dissenting opinions accepted there? Someone even whispers "young earth creationist" and everyone flies off the handle. Why is that? There is too much hate for it just to be "I don't agree with the idea". Just something to think about.

I think you've spent too much time around the so-called "super-Christians", people who take everything to an incredible extreme and freak out at the slightest supposed offense. Those people? They aren't Christians. They are just douche-bags masquerading under a religion, and they exist everywhere.
 

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Eh, just ride it out. They eventually come to terms with Christianity after a few months, and then they get their heads back on straight. Trust me, I have firsthand experience here.
 

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tell her that if she has enough faith she can jump off a tall building and god will catch her and set her on the ground unharmed

if she believes you and jumps, problem solved

if she says you're crazy move on to this
Christianity says incest is bad, but god made Adam and Eve, and they had kids but then what?
then after Noah and his family?
while she's stumbling around "god moves in mysterious ways" say
"why do bad things happen to good Christians?"
keep presenting her with inconsistencies with the Christian religion
like dinosaurs, or human sex drives vs marriage,
until she snaps out of it

but there's a human debug code that should work, if the logic doesn't
the button combination is left nostril, right temple, click both their nipples at once, clap your hands 3 times and yell "Ostrich"

that one's worked on people. I've used it
 

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Mad World said:
Danzaivar said:
What's the point of an eternal punishment though? The point of punishment is to reform and correct. Punishing eternally for something that no-one can change is just petty and sadistic.

Not to mention it totally flies in the face of any concept of forgiveness, lol.
Before being forgiven, a person needs to actually be willing to be forgiven. Those who do not accept Jesus Christ choose not to be forgiven.
kikon9 said:
Yes, but god made us in his image. Therefore he must have given us a mind similar to his.
We also sin, but that doesn't mean that God does.

We are made in His image, but that does not mean that we are the same as Him in every way.
I didn't say in every way, but if god gives us our morality code then it must be based on his own sense of morality.
 

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Mad World said:
lacktheknack said:
Reread my post.
I have read it. Still, I wanted your answer.

"Exceptions for exceptional people." Does that refer to people who literally never have heard of Jesus? Or does that simply refer to people who have heard of Him, yet choose not to follow Him (but practice kindness and bring about peace)?
I don't particularly want to put words in God's mouth. I personally would have had mercy on the theoretical Buddhist if I were God, so long as he hadn't publicly rejected and attacked Christianity, but who knows what God truly thinks?
 

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Brainwashing. Definitely. Or she just went through a serious revolution with herself.