The United States has never been about democracy. In fact, democracy is something that would destroy America. Though the last eight years of facist rule (facism: when government is run by corporate interests) have put the US where it is today, that has been but one step on a long road. The problem is one of control.
The US government is not in control of the means to govern. It is not in control of its money supply (private banks have that). It is not in control of its armed forces, that control has slipped from the national assembly to the presidential office, where it is being used for the interests of large corporations rather than for any purpose that serves the nation. It cannot provide services to its people that justify its existence. All it has left is fear.
And that's the substance the US is abusing now. A little fear every now and then never hurt anyone, but the citizens of the United States live in fear of foreigners, neighbours, the government, pretty much everything. It's completely backwards. A government should be afraid of its people, it should tremble that it may anger the population. The US government is every day validated in that if they are feared, it matters not what they do to the country.
Basically, the outcomes can be many and varied. You can climb the hill on the backs of the poor, as you have done before. You can find another country to assert control over and economically destroy to feed your capitalism, much like Chile, Venezuela (shame you lost that one), Bolivia... or you could do what you dismiss offhand because of years of rhetoric and socialize. Make the government put people to work, give people incentives to do the work, tax the upper few percent properly and divide the burden more equitably, and make an economy that is not based on the stock market, but on the production of goods and services. There are a few areas that have no business outside of government control, namely health insurance and minting. Then re-educate roughly 80% of your lawyers into something useful, and give the courts the authority to hold people in contempt of court for junk lawsuits and fine them the opposition's legal expenses.
Many, many small changes are needed, but the overarching problem is and will continue to be that you need to make the government answer to you. It'd help if you realized that good politicians can be very boring, uninspiring people, and that receiving some oral stimulation from someone who is not your wife does not in fact make you less competent or able to lead. If you were able to open your eyes and realize that the world itself does not hold you in contempt for your wealth, but for the irresponsible, malicious and disproportionately harsh treatment of anything you cannot exert direct control over, I would start feeling a spark of hope for all of you.