The Internet and Sexual Predators

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strum4h

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More abuse happens in the home than it does over or through the internet. It is sad to see that parents are so jaded in this day and age. They should teach their children the common sense to be able to protect themselves.
 

PrinceoN

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Mcupobob said:
I get what you're saying but you may want to clear it up a little and get rid of the "dudes" and "likes".

Ot: People are just very untrusting. Especially to people they haven't meet face to face.
so the thought pattern is "I don't trust you unless we've met face to face, but we can't meet face to face until I trust you"?
 

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PrinceoN said:
DOH! root of the problem right there. im only 20, and most of the time ive spent on internet forums/games/such has been through my teenage years, possibly/probably surrounded by other teenagers.

but the people ive seen that buy into the "omg he's a sexual predator?" gossip from just one comment are usually the same people that are just as...internetophobic?...as the person who originally says it, so i guess its just the common ground shared between the poster and the believer.
Yeah, remember high school drama between friends? (you will enjoy lots of that in college too) People like getting worked up.
 

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Intuition tells me if the person I'm talking to is a creep, so I just stop talking to them. If they actually want to befriend me, I'll tell them a little bit about myself over time.
 

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strum4h said:
More abuse happens in the home than it does over or through the internet. It is sad to see that parents are so jaded in this day and age. They should teach their children the common sense to be able to protect themselves.
I live in America, and I'm probably talking to other Americans the majority of the time (I don't post on here as much, so don't start saying "IM CANADIAN!" or something people), so with that said..common sense?
 

strum4h

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PrinceoN said:
strum4h said:
More abuse happens in the home than it does over or through the internet. It is sad to see that parents are so jaded in this day and age. They should teach their children the common sense to be able to protect themselves.
I live in America, and I'm probably talking to other Americans the majority of the time (I don't post on here as much, so don't start saying "IM CANADIAN!" or something people), so with that said..common sense?
I am having a hard time understanding what you just said.
 

PrinceoN

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strum4h said:
PrinceoN said:
strum4h said:
More abuse happens in the home than it does over or through the internet. It is sad to see that parents are so jaded in this day and age. They should teach their children the common sense to be able to protect themselves.
I live in America, and I'm probably talking to other Americans the majority of the time (I don't post on here as much, so don't start saying "IM CANADIAN!" or something people), so with that said..common sense?
I am having a hard time understanding what you just said.
to sum it up, i was basically saying that America =/= common sense. especially with parents and their children
 

strum4h

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PrinceoN said:
strum4h said:
PrinceoN said:
strum4h said:
More abuse happens in the home than it does over or through the internet. It is sad to see that parents are so jaded in this day and age. They should teach their children the common sense to be able to protect themselves.
I live in America, and I'm probably talking to other Americans the majority of the time (I don't post on here as much, so don't start saying "IM CANADIAN!" or something people), so with that said..common sense?
I am having a hard time understanding what you just said.
to sum it up, i was basically saying that America =/= common sense. especially with parents and their children
Ah. That is a pretty terrible stereotype however. I know plenty of fantastic parents. It is just the ignorant parents that do not want to get informed and are 100% sure they are right about everything.
 

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Celtic_Kerr said:
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Done what to people?
Sorry, called them a sexual predator or pedobear if they ask for your irl info and/or ask to meet irl. ill edit that
There are a ton of predators out there, and some of them spend months and months talking to people to gain their trust. It's sketchy, and the internet makes it worse. my friend's webcam was hacked once be a man aged 45 talking to a 16 year old. the girl thought she was talking to my friend, and all because he happened to have his cam on at the time processing across the internet with someone.

Sure, people are paranoid, but if nothing else say "Look, I swear I'm not a predator. We'll meet in a very public place, we won't go anywhere sketchy" and hope they believe you
I met someone from online once. We were smart and did meet in a very public place (where I knew there would be officers if need be). She turned out to be a pretty kewl person overall.
 

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NiceGurl_14 said:
Celtic_Kerr said:
PrinceoN said:
Jedamethis said:
Done what to people?
Sorry, called them a sexual predator or pedobear if they ask for your irl info and/or ask to meet irl. ill edit that
There are a ton of predators out there, and some of them spend months and months talking to people to gain their trust. It's sketchy, and the internet makes it worse. my friend's webcam was hacked once be a man aged 45 talking to a 16 year old. the girl thought she was talking to my friend, and all because he happened to have his cam on at the time processing across the internet with someone.

Sure, people are paranoid, but if nothing else say "Look, I swear I'm not a predator. We'll meet in a very public place, we won't go anywhere sketchy" and hope they believe you
I met someone from online once. We were smart and did meet in a very public place (where I knew there would be officers if need be). She turned out to be a pretty kewl person overall.
I've got many online friends, many in other countries. I've cammed with them often enough that I'm sure I have the right person. Plus I've spoken on the phone with them. Considering the voice matches on their video call and the phone, so it works. I'm secure enoug htnat I'd meet them. I might be suspicious the first time or two, but I'd meet them
 

Bobzer77

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Am I the only one that thinks calling them predators is a name infinitely more badass than they deserve?

We should think up a new name for them.... twinklewankers?
 

Claptrap

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I've never met up with anyone from the internet and i doubt i will, I donno, I have no reason to meet them and they don't have a reason to meet me.
 

Ekonk

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You know what's weird? Sexual predators are a lot let sexy than the name would suggest. It's rather dissapointing, really.
 

Krafty_Krocodile

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Internet sex predators do exist on the internet but its such a small minority of people are which it seems the media has overblown the situation.
 

rockyoumonkeys

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I totally missed out on internet predators when I was a kid. Sigh. Stupid internet, waiting until I was starting college before taking off....
 

Julianking93

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Due to constant paranoia stemming from the media regarding sexual predators people meet online seemingly being mentioned at least once a day, people are far less trustworthy of people on the internet.

Now, it's good to be cautious, but don't go being an idiot out of fear. This kinda goes back to my thread about if parents are overprotective of children.

It's similar to that, but somewhat understandable.

Take my parents for instance. I have no real life friends and I always converse with people online. Some people I've even given my phone number to. However, due to paranoia, my parents don't like me talking to them and make a point to express their distaste of it.

Though, yes I make jokes from time to time if people ask me where I live about them stalking me but I know these are good people. It's just like if you were to tell someone in real life where you lived. Does it make me uncomfortable? No, because I see many people here as my actual friends not as sexual predators or murderers.

Considering most of my friends live in Europe, I don't think they'll go that far out of their way to kill me.
 

Johanthemonster666

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Blown out of proportion?
Dude, almost every police organization has a department dedicated to cyber security for minors and search for "pedobears" because they're a huge problem and have been since the Internet became a public network.

You really wanna know it's a big deal?

Because every 10 minutes a child goes missing in the US and the Internet has given new abilities to everyone from pedophiles (the ones who act of their impulses) to people looking to con/exploit someone they see as vulnerable on-line.

Feeling like not meeting a stranger in a shady place is just common sense -_-
I'm starting to think people my age are more concerned about being "judgmental" than using their sense of "judgment" to keep themselves and others safe.

Jeez, you guys might as well start saying "I think it's rude not to jump into a van if a man if offering you candy and toys... he seems like a nice person and its not my place to judge or let the hype about "abductors" bother me".
 

Terminate421

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Its the news, they make everything seem like its 9/11 2.0

next thing you know, I may make a weird ironic/sarcastic statement, and Im used as an example for "Sex Predator" Im 16.