The most Crushing things people have said to you.

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to explain this one i will give you the whole conversation.

her: are you going to try to rape me?
me: wh-what?
her: I have mace so don't try anything.
me: no no no no, I wouldn't, why would you even ask that?
her: you just look like a rapist, that's all.

I had to walk away, that is not something you ever want to hear.
 

Nightmare-Child

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"The only thing I can think of to help you, is to stay away from you for a while. Doing anything else would feel false to me." Truth be told, I had this one coming. But, it absolutely destroyed me at the time. I haven't been right since.
 

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Honestly?

Well this is going to seem silly compared to some of the examples given but well here we go.

"Famed Astronaut Neil Armstrong died earlier today."

I overheard that from Sky News while I was at a Con. I don't think I've ever been so affected by words as i just became a blubbering mess. I couldn't control why I was so sad but even now just thinking of it hurts me a lot.

A runner up prize is having a girl I fell head over heels for inform me casually that she was a lesbian. I was said that day but hell she is now a good friend and I have no worries about any sort of relationship to think about (Probably not the best way I could put that.)
 

SpectacularWebHead

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"I wish more guys were like you, you're so great."
The subtext of which was: "I wish SOME guys were like you, We'll never have sex."

That line basically applies to every girl ever. And at least two guys.
 

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Radelaide said:
I got a text message from my then boyfriend, "Adelaide, I'm breaking up with you. I haven't loved you for weeks. I know it'll be hard but don't contact me again."

It felt like a house had fallen on me.
I'm not sure if it's the worst thing ever, I honestly don't remember, but I'm gonna join you on the "being dumped via text message" wagon. Scoot over.
 

MrMixelPixel

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I've never really been crushed. I've only ever been asked out, and I've never really liked anyone who has asked me out. So when we did finally break up, I didn't care much.

My mum has said some pretty scathing things to me like "You don't care about anyone but yourself. When are you gonna realize other people have feelings too?" That kind of hurts, because I don't think I'm that bad of a person... but she usually apologizes, she was just stressed.

No one important to me has died, become incredibly sick, or something similar.

The worst thing I've ever heard was that my friend who loves musicals... she didn't love Dr. Horrible and his sing along blog... T_T

What the fuck...
 

Wadders

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This thread is like crack to me.

I'd add something of my own, but it would only continue on the general vein of being shot down etc.
 

DeadpoolPwnz

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List Form!

10 years old - Your father has terminal cancer (adrenal if anyone is wondering)
12 years old - Your grandmother has lung cancer (deceased)
19 years old - Your grandfather had a stroke (deceased)
20 years old - Hands behind your back, you have the right to remain silent etc.. (mom just watched and cried)
21 years old - Adrian Peterson tore his ACL and is out for the season.
22 years old - While you've been perfect in following probation my boss doesn't believe in letting anyone off early so you've got 4 more years to go.
22 years old - Your aunt and uncle are getting a divorce because your uncle was caught cheating and is drinking again (if he drinks again he WILL die from liver failure)
 

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Said to me : " i'd sleep with you , but i don't wanna ruin are friendship" funny thing is , i don't consider us friends .

I said to a girl : " i'd sleep with you , but i wouldn't date you"
 

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Never been crushed by words, I work in a male dominated job where I think I'm the biggest arsehole there but only with the guys who can handle it.
 

Henkie36

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Girl I had a crush on during a school trip, when she was asked by someone else what was going on between us, but well within my hearing range, she replied ''There is nothing going on, there never was and there never will be.'' Damn near reduced me to tears.
 

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Well, apart from the usual deaths in the family, fathers leaving and girlfriends breaking up, I do have one unusal one for you:

After about 4 years in an acting and art course in my school (it even counts as a "main subject", meaning lots of lessons per week), I was still not very much liked. I was normally the only boy, the only exceptions always left the school as fast as they had joined it. So, after 4 years barely concealed disdain, we were coming to an end, and what an end it was! Our first actual play, written by us, was to be shown and I had written quite a lot of it and had a main part. One of my classmates was very nervous. So I cracked a joke. She was the only one who heard it, and it cheered her up. So she looked at me, smiled, and said: "Hey, you're actually really funny!"

Now, you might ask why that was so crushing. It was because in that moment, I saw in her face that for the very first time, one of the girls in that class actually looked at me like a human being. I was never one to get weighed down by the scorn of others, but in that moment, I felt 4 years of ignorance and scorn crushing down on my shoulders, and only now had at least one of them noticed me for something other than being a weirdo.

On the other hand, the play as a blast. It was pure comedy, and everyone laughed and loved it. One of the rare opportunities to actually perform a bit of physical comedy in a subtle way. It was fun to play, and fun to see everyone laughing and smiling.
 

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SEXTON HALE said:
Is it bad that every time I try to think of the most crushing thing said to me in my life it seems to be... blocked? Not there? Missing?
Im usually shrug most of the real nasty ones off so I cant really recall them word for word.
Same. I'll remember it, or them at night when I try to go to sleep, but never when I try to...some might say I spend all of the time crushing myself, though.
 

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Sunrider84 said:
Radelaide said:
I got a text message from my then boyfriend, "Adelaide, I'm breaking up with you. I haven't loved you for weeks. I know it'll be hard but don't contact me again."

It felt like a house had fallen on me.
I'm not sure if it's the worst thing ever, I honestly don't remember, but I'm gonna join you on the "being dumped via text message" wagon. Scoot over.
*passes the booze*
 

Sunrider

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Radelaide said:
Sunrider84 said:
Radelaide said:
I got a text message from my then boyfriend, "Adelaide, I'm breaking up with you. I haven't loved you for weeks. I know it'll be hard but don't contact me again."

It felt like a house had fallen on me.
I'm not sure if it's the worst thing ever, I honestly don't remember, but I'm gonna join you on the "being dumped via text message" wagon. Scoot over.
*passes the booze*
Drink deep, friend! Tonight we cruise the town looking for wenches (male or female, whichever you prefer)!
 

Sajuuk_Khar

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For me, it would be what they didn't say, I had to find out about my Grandfathers death via my cousin posting on Facebook. She couldn't even bloody wait till someone had let me know (I was the only one in his family who was away at the time.)

And the close second:

Sunrider84 said:
Radelaide said:
Sunrider84 said:
Radelaide said:
I got a text message from my then boyfriend, "Adelaide, I'm breaking up with you. I haven't loved you for weeks. I know it'll be hard but don't contact me again."

It felt like a house had fallen on me.
I'm not sure if it's the worst thing ever, I honestly don't remember, but I'm gonna join you on the "being dumped via text message" wagon. Scoot over.
*passes the booze*
Drink deep, friend! Tonight we cruise the town looking for wenches (male or female, whichever you prefer)!
One more for the wagon!