The Most Dangerous Woman in Videogames - Anita Sarkeesian

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Jesus Christ this whole article was just too preachy. Too much undeserved praise towards Anita, too much bold text for no real reason.

Anita Sarkeesian - The Most Dangerous Woman to Video Games.
Wow. Someone who actually commented on the article rather than falling into the honeypot of not-discussion that is Anita Sarkeesian! You deserve a cookie, at least.

I found that in spite of its many words, the article doesn't really say anything of interest.
It's rote narration describing the event, intercut with snippets of blind praise. There's no real "authority" from the author, and thus no overt point.

"Anita arrived, said stuff. *insert prose and praise*

Of course, I think most people who click over to the raging flame war in the comments can find the real purpose of the article.
 

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Of course, I think most people who click over to the raging flame war in the comments can find the real purpose of the article.
Yup. I rescind my previous comment (the first on this "article"), and all I can do is shake my head at the 15 pages full of people who generated a few thousand page views for Bob, ensuring more of the same, since page views equal revenue and continued employment.

Controversy = Angry Forumgoers = Large post counts = Lots of page views = Ad Revenue = More Controversial Articles. Congrats for feeding the monster, people.
 

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I like how real life people exhibit a much more nuanced understanding of Feminism than self-absorbed nerds on the internet ever will. Bob basically proves in this article that "The Internet Makes you Stupid"

Even more saddening is that Anita's videos are pretty much Feminism 101 in terms of content which seems quite a large vocal group simply cannot comprehend. Even worse when people disparage the woman on so many levels, whether it be the sheer fact she has an opinion, the sheer fact that she ran a successful kick-starter, the sheer fact she is the a Feminist, and so on.

And come to think of it, most critiques of her are incredibly nonsensical and pretty much amount to "NNOOOOo your subjective opinion and viewpoint is completely wrong because RAISINS!" As if her background and knowledge completely disenfranchises her from speaking about video games. Holy Fuck, even if she didn't play video games at ALL her opinion would have still been valid anyway.

ALL this and all she is saying is that "Video Games have problematic (read: FUCKED UP) content in terms of how they present women, here are some examples:" AND we all acknowledge this is TRUE! Why the heck is it a problem when ANITA talks about it? (this is a rhetorical question) quite frankly people have a hard time accepting she is a woman, talking about video games. (the whole feminism thing being a double whammy)
 

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tangoprime said:
Atmos Duality said:
Of course, I think most people who click over to the raging flame war in the comments can find the real purpose of the article.
Yup. I rescind my previous comment (the first on this "article"), and all I can do is shake my head at the 15 pages full of people who generated a few thousand page views for Bob, ensuring more of the same, since page views equal revenue and continued employment.

Controversy = Angry Forumgoers = Large post counts = Lots of page views = Ad Revenue = More Controversial Articles. Congrats for feeding the monster, people.
This is like guilt free money though. Post a very great informative article and rile up the dummies who hate Anita making them look like awful people. Its a Win Win.
 

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Once again, am I missing something?

Or is the whole case here boiled down to the following:

1. She asked for some money, got a huge amount more that was freely donated, and THAT OFFENDS ME

2. She got a detail wrong on my favorite videogame. This invalidates her whole point.

3. I like how everything is now, which means everything's fine, so she should shut up.

4. She's not a REAL gamer, so she's not entitled to have an opinion and express it.

5. She wants to wipe out any video game that's sexist, which she totally said, outright, in the video that I totally watched, really I did.

6. She has an agenda, which automatically makes everything she said invalid. Here's Thunderfoot to back me up, who totally does not have an axe to grind at all.

7. Why doesn't she just make her own game, because that's so easy to do!

8. This doesn't count BECAUSE REASONS!

9. She'll turn gaming into focus-tested, homogenized crap, instead of the vibrant bastion of unbridled creativity we have now.

10. She's infringing on freedom of expression by exercising her freedom of expression, and she should shut up.

11. She stole the same YouTube footage everyone steals. But it's BAD when she does it, because REASONS.

12. I totally have this clip from years ago where she says she doesn't play video games, because what someone says at this one point of time applies to their ENTIRE LIFE BEFOREHAND AND AFTERWARD.

13. I don't wanna hear it, so she should shut up.

14. I found a couple of women who agree with me, therefore she's wrong.

Okay, I think I'm convinced now. She's the most horrible person of all time. For I was blind, and now I see!
 

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Blue Hero said:
Jesus Christ this whole article was just too preachy. Too much undeserved praise towards Anita, too much bold text for no real reason.

Anita Sarkeesian - The Most Dangerous Woman to Video Games.
Wow. Someone who actually commented on the article rather than falling into the honeypot of discussion that is Anita Sarkeesian! You deserve a cookie, at least.

I found that in spite of its many words, the article doesn't really say anything of interest.
It's rote narration describing the event, intercut with snippets of blind praise. There's no real "authority" from the author, and thus no overt point.

"Anita arrived, said stuff. *insert prose and praise*

Of course, I think most people who click over to the raging flame war in the comments can find the real purpose of the article.
GUUUUhhh come on, the purpose of the article was to humanize Anita who is quite frequently harangued by soooo many angry nerds to the point of mythologizing her suppose crimes against dumb gamer nerds everywhere.
 

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You're right, my mind is made up, I have yet to see the side against her offer any compelling evidence that shes wrong, pretty much all the angles of attack on her are personal. They all seem to come down to "ohhhhh shes not a real gamer." Video games are not a walled off garden, you don't have to have devoted yourself to them for a life time to understand them or to learn the tropes that are in them. I have spent a life time playing them and that is why I agree with her. The fact that other gamer's on this site agree with what she has to say kinda proves that shes not full of shit, Movie Bob obviously agrees and so does Jim Sterling, if you want some names.
Again, she pretty much said this herself.

Not really sure how anyone agreeing with her proves she's right anymore than someone disagreeing with her is proven right by those that agree with their dissent. Self-aggrandizing web personalities or otherwise.

By that type of reasoning and using your very logic (and wording) I could argue, for example, that the Ku Klux Klan says that Jews are responsible for all the wars in the world and run all the media, the fact that some people agree with what they have to say kinda proves that they're not full of shit, Mahmoud Ahmadinejad obviously agrees and so does Mel Gibson, if you want some names.

See? Logic fallacies really don't hold up either.

Want to stress that I am not in agreement with the KKK, Ahmadinejad, Gibson, or any other racist or racist organization in any way shape or form, I myself the son of a mixed-race couple have experienced a lot of the evil of bigotry first hand. My post was about making a point regarding another user's absurd reasoning and not in support of the views expressed by the persons mentioned about the Jewish community.

Edit: cleaned up the quote box, sorrys.
First of all, what the hell are you talking about? Second of all, it helps her case because even if she isn't a gamer and assuming that videogames are impossible for people to get into unless they have been into them since birth. It means that people who have devoted their lives to games can see the same problems she does.

Your point makes no sense, the only way the whole kkk, ahmadine-jad, gibson thing you brought up would make some sense if they were also all jewish or they got a bunch of jews to agree with them. On its own it doesn't work though.
 

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UberPubert said:
There is a sort of strange silver lining to what is otherwise an entirely banal article written about a very boorish woman's outdated opinions: Seeing her pack a room full of people and everyone there being able to see this kind of internet bile doesn't exist in the real world is enough to deflate the notion of "look, this is proof women are being oppressed!" during a slideshow about comments from internet trolls.

In the first world - the real world, as we westerners know it - oppression doesn't actually exist, and all the preaching about what happens elsewhere doesn't change how in reality most everyone is fairly civil, even when challenged.
As someone who was actually there, I can say that she didn't really focus on that. She only briefly mentioned it before moving on.
 

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Cherry picking isn't an interpretation of a text in context, it is ignoring the majority of a text to prove a specific point that may even be contradictory to the original work. I can't say whether or not she actually does this though, not having ever seen or read any of her work and not intending to.
I will, for the moment, ignore the fact that your first statement to me was to imply I'm a liar and instead focus on this.

Anita Sarkisian is not cherry picking by that definition or any other.

Why?

Because, when she leaves out game sections that aren't harmful to women, she's doing so NOT because they "disprove her point" - because they don't - but because they aren't a problem.

Her series is "Tropes against Women" - she's only going to talk about the bad stuff. If there's a non-sexist section in a game, particularly in gameplay... then that's good. Why would she criticize a section she likes?

As far as I can tell, people are accusing her of "leaving out the parts that are good" ... but why would she bring up stuff she likes in a critique series? That isn't cherry picking - that's being on topic.

Anyone saying that she is cherry picking is making the assumption that Anita is attacking games. That she is trying to prove that games are sexist and bad. That is the only logical reason that her leaving out "good" things could be cherry picking.

But that's not her goal. She's pointing out the bad stuff because she likes the rest. She's pointing out the bad parts so that Devs can FIX those parts and leave the rest alone! IF she has no problem with it, of course she's not going to mention it.

When people ***** about, say, Mass Effect, they often don't list the parts they liked - they specifically list the parts that pissed them off. That's a critique - it is a list of things you'd like to see changed in a game. However, the only reason you make that list is if you generally liked the game in the first place.

The problem is, a lot of gamers want to believe that Anita is some sort of game hater. That she is attacking games the way that those idiots on Fox News do. But she isn't. If Anita hated games, then she wouldn't have played enough games to notice these trends or to care about them. She's be making videos about TV shows or movies or something instead of games.

Cherry picking only applies if she's claiming that the whole game is inherently sexist, but that is never a claim she's made. She has always said that these "parts" or "scenes" are sexist. She's talking bits and pieces - small sections - not the whole game.

tl;dr: Anita is not cherry picking. She's nit-picking - attacking only the parts she dislikes and leaving the rest alone. That isn't dishonest - that's just specific.

Edit: And before you say "that isn't what you said before" - read my most recent previous post in this thread. I didn't consider what you meant by cherry picking before because it seemed so totally absurd to me that anyone would think her thesis is "all games are sexist and bad" that I didn't even consider the possibility that this is what you all meant. When a previous poster explained this to me, I was shocked - and immediately pointed out that that isn't her thesis and that cherry picking only applies if she's speaking in a systemic fashion and not specifically pointing out the small flaws and few instances of sexism in otherwise good games.
 

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McMarbles said:
9. She'll turn gaming into focus-tested, homogenized crap, instead of the vibrant bastion of unbridled creativity we have now.
This made me laugh on the inside.

Its always creepy to me though to see that people think making games more inclusive will somehow make them worse. Or that very very creepy idea that video games are somehow the "Noble, proud, last bastion of politically conservative entertainment (thus manly by proxy)" Or that video games are SUPPOSE to be misogynistic, or something along those lines.
 

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DragonStorm247 said:
As someone who was actually there, I can say that she didn't really focus on that. She only briefly mentioned it before moving on.
That is also kind of encouraging in it's own way. If there is an argument to be made I'd rather see it stand on it's own merits than be supported by sympathy just because it was opposed.
 

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Even more saddening is that Anita's videos are pretty much Feminism 101 in terms of content which seems quite a large vocal group simply cannot comprehend. Even worse when people disparage the woman on so many levels, whether it be the sheer fact she has an opinion, the sheer fact that she ran a successful kick-starter, the sheer fact she is the a Feminist, and so on.
This. So much this.

I feel like I'm shouting into the wind. "This is just Women's Studies 101! People have been saying EXACTLY the same thing about books, TV shows, movies - and even games - for decades! Why are you pissed at her for echoing her professors and saying nothing new?"

And everyone keeps screaming "bias, cherry-picking (even though that doesn't apply to a critique), etc."

I've never said anyone had to agree with her. I've spent pages and pages just trying to explain her school of thought - that she didn't come up with all of this in her head, like everyone seems to assume. And I get people screaming at me. It's just sad.
 
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I was going to complain about people still caring about her, but then I realized I was commenting on an article about her and that would make me a hypocrite.

Although I'm not strictly speaking caring about her, but about the people that care about her, because they shouldn't.

She's some random youtube person who makes decent videos. That is it.

She argues poorly, and boringly, and she's needlessly antagonizing, but so freaking what?

Women are misrepresented in all of media, and if you don't believe me try the Jimquisition challenge of finding an unattractive female main protagonist with questionable morality in a video game.

She goes about it badly but she's still right, so fucking whatever.
 

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She might very well be the most dangerous woman in video games but her videos are like the punch of a midcard against the mighty bosom of the Heavyweight Champion of quote-unquote "Patriarchy" and certainly don't show a budget worthy of $6k, nevermind however she didn't bank of $13k.

Tralling though what we already know, dismissing any attempt at meeting half way with violent scorn ("The Fighting Fuck-Toy"? Joanah Dark? Seriously...) does not make for an individual I want anything to do with if I had any say in the matter.

There's good videos to be had about the matter but they are not Sarkeesian's.
 

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GUUUUhhh come on, the purpose of the article was to humanize Anita who is quite frequently harangued by soooo many angry nerds to the point of mythologizing her suppose crimes against dumb gamer nerds everywhere.
If that was the true intention of the article, then I say it was a wasted gesture.
To be blunt, I question the sanity of anyone who legitimately thinks that they can reason with the Internet Hate Machine.

Furthermore, anyone, and I do mean bloody ANYONE who has even skimmed a Sarkeesian topic on The Escapist forums; nay, where Sarkeesian is even brought up on a tangent, knows just the sort of reaction to expect.

And while I do not presume to know what MovieBob was actually thinking, I can make a pretty solid guess that this was posted just to capitalize on Sarkeesian's notoriety for ad-hits. Lo and behold, that's is EXACTLY what has happened here. 15 pages of back and forth nothing almost entirely about Sarkeesian, but not the article. What a shock.

At best, all this article has shown is that The Greater Internet Fuckwad Theory is absolutely correct.

Quadocky said:
I like how real life people exhibit a much more nuanced understanding of Feminism than self-absorbed nerds on the internet ever will. Bob basically proves in this article that "The Internet Makes you Stupid"

Even more saddening is that Anita's videos are pretty much Feminism 101 in terms of content which seems quite a large vocal group simply cannot comprehend. Even worse when people disparage the woman on so many levels, whether it be the sheer fact she has an opinion, the sheer fact that she ran a successful kick-starter, the sheer fact she is the a Feminist, and so on.

And come to think of it, most critiques of her are incredibly nonsensical and pretty much amount to "NNOOOOo your subjective opinion and viewpoint is completely wrong because RAISINS!" As if her background and knowledge completely disenfranchises her from speaking about video games. Holy Fuck, even if she didn't play video games at ALL her opinion would have still been valid anyway.
Even eliminating the opponents who offer mindless hate, trolling, and knee-jerk defenses for backwards ideologies (machismo, "rape culture" etc), Anita's arguments are riddled with flaws. She could wave those away and hide behind "just my opinion" had she not been pitching these in an academic fashion to an academic crowd. (yes, that's what she's doing. The entire article we're supposedly commenting on proves such)

I don't hate Anita Sarkeesian the person; I even agree with her general position that gaming could use more HUMANIZED female characters and less token objectification. But I do not rate her "opinion" very highly at all because of the logical flaws in her arguments, nor do I believe that she is necessarily doing as much good as her supports believe because of her flawed arguments.

For most random internet sods, I agree. They hate just because they want something to hate.
The internet gang mentality: bereft of reason but full of purpose.

But just because she has proven the vile nature of her most vocal opposition does not automatically mean her cause has merit either, or that her arguments are any stronger as a result. Or that she even deserves the praise she's receiving.
 

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Quadocky said:
McMarbles said:
9. She'll turn gaming into focus-tested, homogenized crap, instead of the vibrant bastion of unbridled creativity we have now.
This made me laugh on the inside.

Its always creepy to me though to see that people think making games more inclusive will somehow make them worse. Or that very very creepy idea that video games are somehow the "Noble, proud, last bastion of politically conservative entertainment (thus manly by proxy)" Or that video games are SUPPOSE to be misogynistic, or something along those lines.
I'm just surprised someone thinks video games are made with unbridled creativity right now. How many game covers look identical? What Call of Duty are we on now? How many reviews did I see saying the latest Assassins Creed 4 is really just 3.5? Also, AS3's ending was suspiciously like Mass Effect 3's ending, and Deus Ex's ending, and the Matrix ending and ultimately, they were all the same old, over used, Jesus Christ symbolism we've been seeing in everything for decades in pretty much all forms of entertainment.

Oh yeah, the Video Game industry is just bursting with new, original things all the time.
 

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Bara_no_Hime said:
When people ***** about, say, Mass Effect, they often don't list the parts they liked - they specifically list the parts that pissed them off. That's a critique - it is a list of things you'd like to see changed in a game. However, the only reason you make that list is if you generally liked the game in the first place.
This is really just untrue. Of course I can criticize something even if I don't like it, I'll probably criticize something especially harshly if I don't like it and whether Anita likes these games or not overall is irrelevant to the point.

When I think of Anita as cherrypicking examples from games I look at it as her ignoring the greater context of the fictional setting itself. Her favorite phrase to use is that "these games do not exist in a vacuum", and what she perceives as the greater cultural context of how she sees the world is somehow far more relevant than what the game designer intended or how the topic is being presented. She is guilty of doing this in her Damsels in Distress video by cutting the length of game play clips and robbing them of prior dialogue, without showing what the greater story is or how the characters being described have arrived at they point they have.

The context of the fictional universe, the genre, and the character traits of the actors all have to be analyzed in order for her blanket claims of misogyny to become at all credible. But she consistently ignores all of these factors in order to present her case as black and white, because the tropes she describes are almost never that simple. This is cherrypicking, and it's what happens when she begins doing "research" when it's about an already forgone conclusion on her part.
 

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Looks like David Hannum was right on the money. There really is a sucker born every minute.
 

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tangoprime said:
Wow, 17 minutes and no comments yet? I wholly believed this place would be World War 5 by now, congratulations. As much as I believe her kickstarter was an unnecessary and dishonest cash grab, the notoriety it earned her is now letting her reach people academically, so that's a good thing.
The phrase "Maybe I spoke too soon" doesn't quite cover it does it?

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Once again, am I missing something?

Or is the whole case here boiled down to the following:

1. She asked for some money, got a huge amount more that was freely donated, and THAT OFFENDS ME

2. She got a detail wrong on my favorite videogame. This invalidates her whole point.

3. I like how everything is now, which means everything's fine, so she should shut up.

4. She's not a REAL gamer, so she's not entitled to have an opinion and express it.

5. She wants to wipe out any video game that's sexist, which she totally said, outright, in the video that I totally watched, really I did.

6. She has an agenda, which automatically makes everything she said invalid. Here's Thunderfoot to back me up, who totally does not have an axe to grind at all.

7. Why doesn't she just make her own game, because that's so easy to do!

8. This doesn't count BECAUSE REASONS!

9. She'll turn gaming into focus-tested, homogenized crap, instead of the vibrant bastion of unbridled creativity we have now.

10. She's infringing on freedom of expression by exercising her freedom of expression, and she should shut up.

11. She stole the same YouTube footage everyone steals. But it's BAD when she does it, because REASONS.

12. I totally have this clip from years ago where she says she doesn't play video games, because what someone says at this one point of time applies to their ENTIRE LIFE BEFOREHAND AND AFTERWARD.

13. I don't wanna hear it, so she should shut up.

14. I found a couple of women who agree with me, therefore she's wrong.

Okay, I think I'm convinced now. She's the most horrible person of all time. For I was blind, and now I see!
This pretty much sums it up as far as I'm concerned. So many people who want to cast aside everything she says because of spurious (and often childish) reasons. And then it always dissolves into some pseudo-philisophical debate that no one actually learns anything from because they're too busy trying to hit each other over the head with spiky internet clubs. So it is - so hopefully it will not always be.
 

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Pat Hulse said:
You want a thesis? "Video games frequently use sexist tropes of women and that's a bad thing."
What does "bad" mean in this context then?

captcha: well done.

Thank you captcha :)
I guess that's the reason Anita felt the reason to make a whole webseries exploring that exact question. "Feminist Frequency" as a show is pretty much entirely centered around two things: 1) Showing through examples and data that various forms of media have high-profile examples of sexism that generally go unchallenged. 2) Theorizing on how this has a negative impact on society.

I would say that the first thing is pretty much beyond debate. I think that there's far too much evidence to show that there are a great deal of sexist attitudes and tropes very much prevalent in various forms of popular culture for that to be denied.

I would, however, say that the second point is definitely worth debating. I personally very much believe that it does have a negative impact on society, but I think that such an argument has yet to be substantially proven, mostly because it's difficult to prove something like that. So it's a subject worth debating.

However, I find that most people who are critical of Anita Sarkeesian are far more fixated on the first point than the second one. When somebody says that video games are sexist and that it's a bad thing, the first instinct of someone who disagrees is to insist that they aren't sexist. They might argue that example A or B of a strong female character is a counter-example, disproving the assertion. And those examples are great, but it can't be argued that they aren't a significant minority in the industry.

When people don't argue that video games aren't sexist, they might instead choose to deflect the argument in another direction, often by questioning the character or reliability of the person making the argument.

What I want people to do is argue whether or not the prevalent sexism in games is a bad thing, because while a lot of the people who disagree probably think that it isn't a bad thing, they'd much rather argue something else, probably because arguing that rampant sexism in their favored hobby isn't a bad thing kind of makes them feel somewhat uncomfortable. And that's fine, it's an uncomfortable subject. But it has to be discussed or else every argument is going to just devolve into the same usual pointless cul-de-sacs that don't actually address anything of value.

I will say that a fair number of feminists will sometimes simply take the second point for granted. That establishing that something is sexist is enough and that the sexism is inherently assumed as bad. This is just as incomplete an argument and should also be avoided, mostly because all it does is invite the pointless arguments I just described.

But back to your initial question, because as I said, it is a good question worth debating.

I would say the sexism present in video games is a bad thing partially because it reinforces negative stereotypes and gender roles that are already present in society. I'm not saying that a sexist video game will make someone sexist, just that if a person already has underlying sexist beliefs or perspectives, seeing those beliefs or perspectives mirrored by an external force is generally very reassuring. We are pack animals, and thus we respond very positively when others agree with us, often to the point of delusion. This is why Fox News is intensely popular. The people who watch it don't care that it lacks integrity or journalistic merit, they just like that it agrees with them and feel like it validates their own beliefs knowing that someone else independently drew the same conclusions.

Similarly, if a person tends to think of women generally as a sex object first, typically evaluating them based on whether or not they would want to have sex with them before evaluating them in other ways, and they see characters that are built almost exclusively to register on that scale alone and respond positively to that objectification, it can normalize that behavior and cause a person to feel entitled to their instinctive sexual evaluation. Even in cases of strong or multi-dimensional female characters, a lot of the time you'll see straight male fans often talk about how they think they're sexy. Not that there's anything wrong with thinking a character is sexy, but the fact that it's often the first and sometimes only appraisal of a female character is rather demeaning and suggests that it's the only aspect that matters.

Which brings us to the other major problem that makes this a bad thing, which is the way it affects women. I'm going to take a shot in the dark and assume that you may be a nerd. As a nerd, you no doubt have seen a great deal of nerd stereotypes and tropes in the media. Pocket protectors, asthma, inability to talk to people, particularly women... you know the drill. And I'm sure whenever you see those stereotypes or tropes, it bothers you, at least to some degree. You may think "Real nerds don't act like that" or "Not all nerds are socially awkward or weak". And if you've felt that way, oftentimes you might feel very much pleased to see nerdy characters that subvert or ignore those tropes or stereotypes. So why is that? It's partially just because you'll probably have an easier time relating to that character, but it's more than that. You feel like that character can act as a sort of fictional ambassador. Someone to show those who don't actually know any nerds what nerds can actually be like. Someone to show other nerds that you don't have to be a certain way or that being a nerd isn't always a negative thing. It feels like it sends a better message out to the rest of the world.

Now, imagine instead of being a nerd, you were a woman or black or Asian or gay. Being a nerd isn't quite on the same level because many nerds are not often negatively affected by inherent prejudice in society, but I draw the comparison to help put you in the mindset of someone who experiences that kind of alienation on a regular basis in ways that directly impact your life, usually negatively. Imagine feeling like an entire culture is being exposed to versions of your identity that are severely limiting and negative. Worse, imagine that a great deal of people will argue that those stereotypes or tropes don't exist, don't harm anything, or even sometimes that they are actually accurate. It can be very disparaging, particularly when there are also still systems within a society that negatively impact members of certain groups or cultures.

So sexism in video games is bad because it suggests that sexist behavior is normal and OK, it alienates feminists and women in general, sexism is still institutionally reinforced in many ways that negatively impact the well-being of women in our society, and there's really no good reason not to change it.