I've found it easier to take smug satisfaction in the idea that I am somehow more of an adult for having a higher degree of empathy and understanding of feminism as a school of thought.Bara_no_Hime said:This. So much this.Quadocky said:Even more saddening is that Anita's videos are pretty much Feminism 101 in terms of content which seems quite a large vocal group simply cannot comprehend. Even worse when people disparage the woman on so many levels, whether it be the sheer fact she has an opinion, the sheer fact that she ran a successful kick-starter, the sheer fact she is the a Feminist, and so on.
I feel like I'm shouting into the wind. "This is just Women's Studies 101! People have been saying EXACTLY the same thing about books, TV shows, movies - and even games - for decades! Why are you pissed at her for echoing her professors and saying nothing new?"
And everyone keeps screaming "bias, cherry-picking (even though that doesn't apply to a critique), etc."
I've never said anyone had to agree with her. I've spent pages and pages just trying to explain her school of thought - that she didn't come up with all of this in her head, like everyone seems to assume. And I get people screaming at me. It's just sad.
I think the reason why its SUCH a big deal is because Anita is hitting at a crossection of gender privilege and attracting all sorts of awful people to hate on her. Basically since all the MRAs, angry nerds, pseudo-intellectual youtubers, Atheists, and spiteful dorks like to play video games ANY commentary by her essentially invokes their many layers of self-imposed scorn for women and feminism (because its not "REAL" science).
In totality amounting to "[Smugwhine] Women can't be oppressed in our superior bountiful western society! Anita is just a trouble maker! AND women have all the advantages in society because they are the gatekeepers of sex! WHAT ABOUT THE MEN! Don't you know I am oppressed daily by the fact I cannot have sex whenever I want and that wanking off to simulated women is the last bastion of male entertainment because DAMN women are ugly and all the pretty ones don't want to date me ;_; ALL WOMEN ARE TERRIBLE AND EVIL Unless they are submissive asian chicks, NOW THOSE are real women (no fatties though that is teh icky).[/Smugwhine]"
Or something like that :v
Its pretty much one of those situations where you pretty much either can't change their mind or they are dead set in making themselves out to be big jerks. So I think its for the best to just laugh at em behind their backs.