"The Talk"
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I never got the talk. My mother knew by listening into my conversations with my friends that I understood all the physical details.
She did, however, try to explain the emotional stuff. Which I believe is the only part that really needs to be explained.
See, kids will know vaguely how it works. By the time a child is ten, he will most likely know that if you put your lad into someones ladyparts it will feel good, and if you don't put on a condom it will result in a baby.
What they don't understand is that you shouldn't really do it until you're emotionally mature enough to handle it.
She did, however, try to explain the emotional stuff. Which I believe is the only part that really needs to be explained.
See, kids will know vaguely how it works. By the time a child is ten, he will most likely know that if you put your lad into someones ladyparts it will feel good, and if you don't put on a condom it will result in a baby.
What they don't understand is that you shouldn't really do it until you're emotionally mature enough to handle it.
We dont get it till 8th grade over in Holland, ofcourse it taught nothing but 'The condom goes AROUND the penis' but still, it was thereRex Dark said:
ive had 'mini-talks' but never sat down and had 'The Big Talk' XD
my mum is actually pretty cool, if i ask her something she actually answers, in fact some times its too much info... D=
my mum is actually pretty cool, if i ask her something she actually answers, in fact some times its too much info... D=
I figured it out myself for the most, then I knew it fully after sex education at school...[small] And possibly some porn...[/small]
[small]possibly a lot of porn[/small] *faint grin*crazyhaircut94 said:
Hehe how awkward was it?Blackadder51 said:
Same here when it comes to the education over here in Sweden. So without any realtips and advice, you (not you in particular) may mess up a bit. But as everybody I know have said, the first time is not what you expect.headshotcatcher said:
No, one of the older scouts from Boy Scouts just told me what girls had, what boys had, and what they do with them. He tolm me on my first trip to Kia Kima (Week Long to 2 week long Summer camp for scouts.) Then the internet SHOWED me it. Ahhh the wonders of free porn.
lol Very awkward dads never a serious person and i could tell he didn't want to do itheadshotcatcher said:
According to my parents I asked a lot of questions when I was very young. Rather than answering every one as it came along they gave me a book called It's Perfectly Normal which discussed puberty, sex and pregnancy in a great deal of detail with the help of a cartoon bird and bee. I don't remember ever being sat down and told about it but I do remember my mother telling me if I ever needed birth control she would help me get it.
