The women (or men) you tend to fall for.
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That's funny, I'm usually cripplingly shy etc but I have burts of I don't careism and just do anythingVeleste said:
AAAAAAAAGHHHH, she's infecting other threads, soon the whole escapist will be corrupt by this...thingtghm1801 said:...Boris Goodenough said:If you can get them, they obviously aren't straighttghm1801 said:
But they were at the beginning...
Lol.
For me there is really no set qualities as to the type of girl I like as long as they are sweet I'm not really bothered. Also being available would be helpful. Also if I didn't end up in the friendzone that would be just swell. I mean as of now 80% of my friends(Yes I actually calculated it because I'm sad like that) are female and they're all in relationships.
The annoying thing is that they all sit and say that I'm such a 'nice guy' and such and yet I'm still single even when they are available and it's beginning to colour my impression of the female sex in general. Hopefully I'll find the right girl soon enough.
The annoying thing is that they all sit and say that I'm such a 'nice guy' and such and yet I'm still single even when they are available and it's beginning to colour my impression of the female sex in general. Hopefully I'll find the right girl soon enough.
There are a lot of little things that have to line up before I would want to pursue a relationship. Anything else and I wouldn't move past the point of just finding her attractive.
I like brunettes with round faces, big eyes (green), a straight nose, a few freckles, and curly hair. And I've always preferred girls that aren't very tall; 5'3''-ish. ZOMG... so, so pretty.
As for personality, I like a strong-willed and independent person. I also like quirk... kind of like... hm. I don't know, someone who'd put on a prop mustache and go shopping with a completely straight face. Or walk around in a dress made completely out of tinfoil. Or who is a huge history/ literature/ linguistics nerd.
Quiet is nice too. Not introverted like I am, but just generally reserved and composed.
Ah, man. I miss her. I don't get to visit enough. Woe is me.
I like brunettes with round faces, big eyes (green), a straight nose, a few freckles, and curly hair. And I've always preferred girls that aren't very tall; 5'3''-ish. ZOMG... so, so pretty.
As for personality, I like a strong-willed and independent person. I also like quirk... kind of like... hm. I don't know, someone who'd put on a prop mustache and go shopping with a completely straight face. Or walk around in a dress made completely out of tinfoil. Or who is a huge history/ literature/ linguistics nerd.
Quiet is nice too. Not introverted like I am, but just generally reserved and composed.
Ah, man. I miss her. I don't get to visit enough. Woe is me.
Physically: Wide shoulders. I won't date anyone who weighs less than I do, though I've only ever excluded someone because of that once (there were other reasons, too). Noticeably taller or shorter than me is interesting.
Non physical: I tend to go for older guys, I prefer guys who are somewhat active but don't mind staying home. Smart is a big factor. I'm enough introvert for one relationship. Often fall for straight guys.
Both the guys I've had crushes on in the last two years have been about 5'8"-5'9".
Non physical: I tend to go for older guys, I prefer guys who are somewhat active but don't mind staying home. Smart is a big factor. I'm enough introvert for one relationship. Often fall for straight guys.
Both the guys I've had crushes on in the last two years have been about 5'8"-5'9".
Two of the people I've felt for are like diametric opposites. It is odd, and patterns don't work. And it always feels different. And I am confused and aimless right now. I must now dial ...---... God bless may the force be with you.
Pre-first post edit: After reading that again, I realise I need help.
Pre-first post edit: After reading that again, I realise I need help.
I like those with an open mind and intellegent. Not to be confused with condescending and pretensious. I'm a heart kinda guy, and have a strong moral code of loyalty and truth. If a women doesn't have these same pursuits, than it doesn't work. I'm happily wed however to my lady that follows these same guidelines. Cept she's more on the religious side...leads to some good debates.
Also I hate moles...too many physical moles and I'm turned off. Especailly on the face or neck. Gross.
Also I hate moles...too many physical moles and I'm turned off. Especailly on the face or neck. Gross.
That's funny since I'm the exact opposite. I'm quiet and introverted and I tend to like the perky and overly optimistic girls. Not that I don't like the quiet girls. I do. Very much so.SimuLord said:
It's just that I like the girls who can make up for my social awkwardness.
Though...
I completely agree on that part. Especially the "Cuddle-and-talk-all-night" part.SimuLord said:
And no, I don't know anyone.
With women, I'm getting very picky lately and generally won't give someone a second look unless I find them stunning. I'm drawn to curves, natural blondes and redheads, more for the skin than the hair (love girls with dyed hair). Most goth girls will usually hit a spot somewhere even if it's not quite enough to go on. Girls who physically remind me of children (short and petite) tend to put me off no matter how much I can appreciate that they're beautiful. At the end of the day, if I don't want to see them naked from the word go it's probably not happening. I have no problem with female friends and generally know how to avoid sexual tension, so I don't feel the need to sleep with anyone just so I can talk to them or appreciate their other qualities.
For guys, they have to be genuinely wonderful.. I don't turn often, and I'm never drawn to men in the same way so it either has to be a 'why not' experiment or they have to have reached the stage where I could overlook the fact that their bodies just don't tend to do it for me. It's happened once or twice, but tends to be tragic and short lived and I'm not sure I'd do it again.
In either case, people have to be relaxed and cool about it. I hate forced commitment or overwhelming displays of emotion or affection too early on. I'm usually drawn to people I want to sleep with, and only fall in love with them much later. Not sure why, it's just how I work.
For guys, they have to be genuinely wonderful.. I don't turn often, and I'm never drawn to men in the same way so it either has to be a 'why not' experiment or they have to have reached the stage where I could overlook the fact that their bodies just don't tend to do it for me. It's happened once or twice, but tends to be tragic and short lived and I'm not sure I'd do it again.
In either case, people have to be relaxed and cool about it. I hate forced commitment or overwhelming displays of emotion or affection too early on. I'm usually drawn to people I want to sleep with, and only fall in love with them much later. Not sure why, it's just how I work.
I prefer strong women; but since I'm not good at spotting the difference between moral fibre and insanity, I tend to end up dating abusive psychotics. These relationships inevitability explode because I also have an assertive, domineering personality.
I've had a fair share of relationships however i have traits that many lads do not like but that at this moment i have no control over, such as paranoia or dominance. This means i look for lads, not who will do everything i tell them, but someone who can understand and be patient with me until i feel secure enough to trust them and rely on them occasionally. My last boyfriend (an old member of this site) didnt understand my traits, kept constantly having a go at me for it, even though he actually gave me a reason to feel the way i did and has proven i was right.
My new boyfriend is everything i need. He understands me, and can relate to almost every problem i have or have had. He is patient, gentle and caring and is always there for me no matter what i do. He's scared of hurting me, and is always quick to say sorry if he thinks he's aggravated me in some way. After play fighting he left me with a black eye, he almost ended up trying to hit himself for it, and was upset for a while until i got annoyed with him blaming himself and told him to pack it in.
Yes i can be dominant to him, but its making him gain more confidence and also for him to stand on his own two feet also so it works both ways.
My new boyfriend is everything i need. He understands me, and can relate to almost every problem i have or have had. He is patient, gentle and caring and is always there for me no matter what i do. He's scared of hurting me, and is always quick to say sorry if he thinks he's aggravated me in some way. After play fighting he left me with a black eye, he almost ended up trying to hit himself for it, and was upset for a while until i got annoyed with him blaming himself and told him to pack it in.
Yes i can be dominant to him, but its making him gain more confidence and also for him to stand on his own two feet also so it works both ways.
The girls i fall for is rather the "cute" kind over the "sexy" kind.
I find girls that seem very cute and inicent very atractive. Besides you always learn something new from them, they never exploit themselves fully. Therefore I think that kind of girls are more exiting than your average "Im-hot-and-I-know-it-girl" Those just make me annoyed. Besides, girls that seem very inicent at the first eyecast, is very rarely so. Of course personallity alters from person to person, but I have found this to be the system that works best for me. The relationships last longer and are better, I am more happy with myself and thus I can do more to make her happy as well, wich is to me a crucial part of my close relations with a person. of course I need someone of a certein level of intelligence as well, tried one relationship with a girl far under my league, that didn't work very well...
My last girlfriend was seemingly my type, but she became to dominating, killed most of my social life during our 1.6 year relationship. But in the end, last month, she was the one who ended up dumping me. I was hearthbroken of course, but now? I think things are for the better, besides, I have allready met a girl whom I think will be a much better match for me. Smart, creative, open minded, pretty, funny, shy and though. I just got dumped so I feel a little easy, but hey, maybe I am just a lucky son of a **** to have met such a wonderful girl two weeks after getting out of a relationship that, as allready stated, required a lot of sacrifice from my part to go on. anyway I have been speaking to this girl all night and it's still just as exiting. Guess the game of love is on again. oh the joy ^^,
I find girls that seem very cute and inicent very atractive. Besides you always learn something new from them, they never exploit themselves fully. Therefore I think that kind of girls are more exiting than your average "Im-hot-and-I-know-it-girl" Those just make me annoyed. Besides, girls that seem very inicent at the first eyecast, is very rarely so. Of course personallity alters from person to person, but I have found this to be the system that works best for me. The relationships last longer and are better, I am more happy with myself and thus I can do more to make her happy as well, wich is to me a crucial part of my close relations with a person. of course I need someone of a certein level of intelligence as well, tried one relationship with a girl far under my league, that didn't work very well...
My last girlfriend was seemingly my type, but she became to dominating, killed most of my social life during our 1.6 year relationship. But in the end, last month, she was the one who ended up dumping me. I was hearthbroken of course, but now? I think things are for the better, besides, I have allready met a girl whom I think will be a much better match for me. Smart, creative, open minded, pretty, funny, shy and though. I just got dumped so I feel a little easy, but hey, maybe I am just a lucky son of a **** to have met such a wonderful girl two weeks after getting out of a relationship that, as allready stated, required a lot of sacrifice from my part to go on. anyway I have been speaking to this girl all night and it's still just as exiting. Guess the game of love is on again. oh the joy ^^,
I once sat and thought about all the women I've dated. I went thru a lot of realtionships back in the day, race, religion, height, hair color, interests, social standing, sanity levels, cute to sexy ratios. All that I've been all over the board. Personality-wise i've been with shrinking violets, loud assertive types, crazy bitches, confident business woman, careing nurtures. All of it. The one thing, the one and only consistant thing with the women I date (and ultimatly married) is very simple:BlindMessiah94 said:
They've all been stacked.
That is the ONLY consistant thing. Nothing to do with personality
That is the ONLY consistant thing. Nothing to do with personality
I like the alternative (dark clothes, dyed hair, etc.), cute girls. Someone who likes to be silly and funny.