Think about him/her

[Tonimata]

Until lately, I've been in a crippling, depressive state of post enamoratum (wooo fake knowledge of latin), and after getting out of that pithole, I'd like to take some time to reflect back to the woman I've loved beyond any measure, and so I've started this thread so that anyone can share the same thoughts, partly because I like to see other people talk about their feelings, but mostly as a social sharing.

NOTE: Used the search bar, but then again, I suck at using google, so this has most probably been done before. If so, my bad and hit report really fast.

My go

This girl, I've always been deeply infatuated with her. She had always been my friend, confident and moral aid in the hardest moments. Comprehensive, caring, and overall, very smart, there has been nothing that her help has not made me overcome. And mind, she is also extremely beautiful.She has been more than a friend, almost like a sister to me. But I guess I never saw it coming that I would be infatuated with her to the point that I actually wanted her to be my soul mate. But, sadly, it failed. We've been torn apart from each other a long long time, and every day, I've mourned not the fact that she rejected me, which of course she was in the right to do, but the fact that I so gleefully forsaked our beautiful friendship for something more. Avarice breaks the bag. Thankfully enough though, now she has thrown the bridge back at me, we're on talking terms, and all is good.

Your go

EDIT: I'd like everyone to share their stories, not only to criticise mine. I mean, you can, but I'd also like to hear from you people.

 

[Legion]

I've mourned not the fact that she rejected me, which of course she was in the right to do.

I don't get this bit.

Obviously she has the/b] right to, but your saying she should have.
Why?

 

[Obsessive_Monkey]

I started seeing this girl, she wasn't very attractive, but her personality was like nothing i've ever encountered.. we got on like fire and bats (get it.. firebats from starcraft.. lol!) I liked her, and made the mistake of telling her i liked her.. from then on she went weird, and even moved to another state.. a month later she told me that she was sorry for acting weird, and that she liked me back, but was afraid of getting hurt. Funny thing, she moved back home around the time i moved state.. It's hard not to still think about her, seeing as i havn't met a girl that can compete with the amount of fun i had when i was with her.

 

[Ironic]

This happened to me, but without the moving away bit. She rejected me, and we're still friends, but at the back of my mind, I still want her immensely. I thought I was over her, but I recently heard about her getting a boyfriend, and I nearly punched through my wall. She's the only person iv ever loved like that, and it hurts so much more not having a clean break. To be honest man, I don't think it was the "right thing" to turn you down, but it IS fortunate to have the relationship that you once had go after that, it hurts so much more seeing them nearly every day, knowing they don't feel the same.

Try not to get TOO close to her, the same thing will probably happen again, and as much as it hurts, and as hypocritical as I'm being saying this, you need to move on, you really do, because if you fall into the same emotional state again, it won't just be her saying no, it'll be YOU, trying to stop it from happening again.

 

[Cpt_Oblivious]

You use a lot of big words. Simplify.

Ok, I found a dictionary.

New Response: Life's a *****. Deal with it.

 

[APPCRASH]

You'll find out how easy it is to forget people when you get older.

 

[Ernstige Jan]

Until lately, I've been in a crippling, depressive state of post enamoratum (wooo fake knowledge of latin), and after getting out of that pithole, I'd like to take some time to reflect back to the woman I've loved beyond any measure, and so I've started this thread so that anyone can share the same thoughts, partly because I like to see other people talk about their feelings, but mostly as a social sharing.

NOTE: Used the search bar, but then again, I suck at using google, so this has most probably been done before. If so, my bad and hit report really fast.

My go

This girl, I've always been deeply infatuated with her. She had always been my friend, confident and moral aid in the hardest moments. Comprehensive, caring, and overall, very smart, there has been nothing that her help has not made me overcome. And mind, she is also extremely beautiful.She has been more than a friend, almost like a sister to me. But I guess I never saw it coming that I would be infatuated with her to the point that I actually wanted her to be my soul mate. But, sadly, it failed. We've been torn apart from each other a long long time, and every day, I've mourned not the fact that she rejected me, which of course she was in the right to do, but the fact that I so gleefully forsaked our beautiful friendship for something more. Avarice breaks the bag. Thankfully enough though, now she has thrown the bridge back at me, we're on talking terms, and all is good.

Your go

That's one sad story. I feel for you man.

 

[Pimppeter2]

I met this girl... we didn't have sex....I'm a sad panda

 

[AboveUp]

I met this girl... we didn't have sex....I'm a sad panda

Story of my life.... and about 4 threads I've seen in the past week.

 

[Pimppeter2]

I just looked at your profile

You are 16 motherfucken years old

That is WAAAAYYYY to early to be thinking about "soul mates". Go live a fucken little

 

[Danzaivar]

It's all worth it for when you do get the girl.

[edit: And yeah, at 16, a mild attraction is true love. You'll feel silly about it all in a few years, don't worry about it. ]

 

[APPCRASH]

I just looked at your profile

You are 16 motherfucken years old

That is WAAAAYYYY to early to be thinking about "soul mates". Go live a fucken little

Hey! You can't make fun of his age unless you are older than him. Don't you know the internet laws!?

 

[Pimppeter2]

I just looked at your profile

You are 16 motherfucken years old

That is WAAAAYYYY to early to be thinking about "soul mates". Go live a fucken little

Hey! You can't make fun of his age unless you are older than him. Don't you know the internet laws!?

Does it count if I have more common sense than him?

Seriously kids, don't get married at 18, this isn't a fuckin movie!

 

[APPCRASH]

I just looked at your profile

You are 16 motherfucken years old

That is WAAAAYYYY to early to be thinking about "soul mates". Go live a fucken little

Hey! You can't make fun of his age unless you are older than him. Don't you know the internet laws!?

Does it count if I have more common sense than him?

Seriously kids, don't get married at 18, this isn't a fuckin movie!

For all you know people find their soul mates at 17 and those statistics about young marriages ending badly could be media propaganda.

 

[Turing]

Sounds to me like someone is alive and interacting with other human beings. You know, seeing as situations such as these are inevitable unless you're a fucking hermit on a desert island and even then, the human psyche would probably construct some sort of infatuation with your basketball-buddy Wilson or somesuch

Anyways take it from one whose been there, thats how things go, try to make the best of it, don't slit your wrists, don't get hung up on one specific girl/boy if it already failed once or it's totally unrealistic (but by all means fight the odds), get back on the horse and move on. A little emotional scarring is good for the soul, it'll numb and prepare you for adult life.

 

[BlazeTheVampire]

Oh no, not again.

What was said could have been said in a better way.

For example:

My little brother is 16, so I get the joy of watching the age group from a more experienced perspective. And I'll tell you as I told him: "lost love" at 16 isn't the end of the world, this I promise. You will find someone who will spark your interest more. Who you get along with even more beautifully. Who completes you. And she will probably break your heart. This is a part of life and growing up. You'll pull the pieces together, learn, and come back to things with a new perspective. At 16, you're not looking for marriage, you're looking for a learning experience and fulfilling that new need to be in a relationship. This isn't the age for soul mates, it's the age for discovering who YOU are through making mistakes and learning from them.

Even at, I nearly 21, am skeptical of myself and my position in a serious relationship. You have plenty of time ahead of you for love and broken hearts. High school isn't the time or place for serious relationships.

PM me if you need to talk without being flamed.

 

[Zac_Dai]

I just looked at your profile

You are 16 motherfucken years old

That is WAAAAYYYY to early to be thinking about "soul mates". Go live a fucken little

Hey! You can't make fun of his age unless you are older than him. Don't you know the internet laws!?

Does it count if I have more common sense than him?

Seriously kids, don't get married at 18, this isn't a fuckin movie!

I completely agree with you. Also they can't be your soul mate if they don't even love you back.

But saying that I met my soul mate at 16 and I'm living with her now at 23. So it does happen but its fucking rare.

 

[dmase]

When a girl you like says your like the brother i never had its a kick in the balls. Its kinda of like you exceeded the friend zone and have been thrown into a wormhole that you can't ever get out of. This is from spending a lot of time with the person and not asking them out or showing physical interest and then when you do because you were trying to make sure she is the one you end in that situation, but if you know a girl for less then a week and ask her out you may get her but you won't know if you have any real interests with her.

I have little expierence dating but that has been my expierence with it so far.

 

[Rolling Thunder]

I just looked at your profile

You are 16 motherfucken years old

That is WAAAAYYYY to early to be thinking about "soul mates". Go live a fucken little

Is anyone else beginnign to find this clown less than funny?

As for the rest, well, my only advice is to live through it. Life can be extremely intense, so enjoy it - even the pain. Myself, I have little experience in matters of the heart (or elsewhere...hur hur hur) so that is all I can offer.

"These smiling eyes are just a mirror for the sun...."

 

[Pimppeter2]

I just looked at your profile

You are 16 motherfucken years old

That is WAAAAYYYY to early to be thinking about "soul mates". Go live a fucken little

Is anyone else beginnign to find this clown less than funny?

Did you just call me a... clown?