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Shapsters

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goatzilla8463 said:
Never been rejected before.

Work out why.
You are honestly the most arrogant little jerk I have ever seen!

'Hey guys, check it out, I have a girlfriend, she is hot'

We know Goat, we have heard it from you a million times.

I am only 16, hopefully in the near future I will find a girlfriend. Perhaps I will charm her enough for a little bow-chick-a-wow-wow.
 

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curlycrouton said:
Cpt_Oblivious said:
You use a lot of big words. Simplify.

Ok, I found a dictionary.

New Response: Life's a *****. Deal with it.
APPCRASH said:
You'll find out how easy it is to forget people when you get older.
These two get a big thumbs up from yours truly.

Oh fine, you can have some advice.

Listen to "Creep" by Radiohead, "Glosoli" by Sigur Ros, or "Yesterday" by The Beatles.
I am going to hit you.Sigur rós.Seriously?
 

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RAND00M said:
curlycrouton said:
Cpt_Oblivious said:
You use a lot of big words. Simplify.

Ok, I found a dictionary.

New Response: Life's a *****. Deal with it.
APPCRASH said:
You'll find out how easy it is to forget people when you get older.
These two get a big thumbs up from yours truly.

Oh fine, you can have some advice.

Listen to "Creep" by Radiohead, "Glosoli" by Sigur Ros, or "Yesterday" by The Beatles.
I am going to hit you.Sigur rós.Seriously?
Erm...yes. Not to your tastes?
 

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Lrbearclaw said:
Well, I am 25, been withmy girlfriend a year now (got together shortly after her 17th birthday). We have plans on it being permanent as we KNOW weare meant to be. Why? Simply because there is no doubts, no worries. We have faced many problems both small and big and depend on each other. To say that you can not find yoursoulmate at 14-18 is assnine. You CAN if you are mature enough to know how/where to look and do not look in the wrong places. In the end you do not actually look but you find it.

The 'trick" is to not worry about it, sometimes you will fall in love with your best friend and it be "destined", but sometimes you will fall in love with your best friend and it not be.
So....you're 25, and she's 17, and no bitching from the parents? Damn, now the idea of having a relationship with a girl I know doesn't seem so far fetched anymore. She's 15, I'm 18, but she looks and acts a lot older than she actually is, she's also a lot more experienced, heck more so than me. It's a difficult situation with her, but maybe it's not so impossible afterall... O well, we'll see.

Anyway, I've only been 'kinda' rejected once. She said she didn't actually reject me, but she rejected love, I doubt that since she started to act all bitchy and awfull and I haven't spoken to her since (2 weeks now). I don't care though, I realised that I was looking at the whole situation through pink glasses, I really thought she was the one, never met anyone like that. A girl who was interested in gaming, shared some of my awfull worldviews and even understood my problems, sweet heavens I was on cloud nine. But it all spiraled out of controll and ended in shambles, I'm suprised how quickly I got over it and I'm even more wary than I was before and hell I was wary.
The only word of advice I can give is: just keep on living, just keep on doing the things you did before and bite through the feelings. Keep your mind occupied, and the pain will subside, and you'll be one life lesson richer.
 

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I just looked at YOUR profile.
You are younger than me, hence less experienced, and since you don't know anything about me have absolutely no right to judge my actions. On the other hand, I've had many, MANY short relationships, in lack of better defining term, that lasted 2 days at the most, and let me tell you, they've all been a *****, so rather than having to deal with ridiculously immature women that don't understand when it's no time and continue to whine and make your life impossible. So instead, I'd rather look, in fact, what am I saying, I found what I thought was my soul mate. Sadly not, and I am going to continue searching, not because I'm saying that they will be better than 2 day relationship people, but honestly, it's the only other way, so I'm gonna try it.

Besides.

It's you that's got over 2000 posts on this forum alone, and you're telling me to get a life?
I CHALLENGE YOU TO A DANCING COMPETITION FROM 7 TO 7!
 

Tonimata

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Turing said:
Sounds to me like someone is alive and interacting with other human beings. You know, seeing as situations such as these are inevitable unless you're a fucking hermit on a desert island and even then, the human psyche would probably construct some sort of infatuation with your basketball-buddy Wilson or somesuch :)

Anyways take it from one whose been there, thats how things go, try to make the best of it, don't slit your wrists, don't get hung up on one specific girl/boy if it already failed once or it's totally unrealistic (but by all means fight the odds), get back on the horse and move on. A little emotional scarring is good for the soul, it'll numb and prepare you for adult life.
Agreed on everything, specially your last point. In fact, I said something similar to a friend recently (although he didn't take it as well, the pain was still recent, y'know?)
 

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goatzilla8463 said:
Never been rejected before.

Work out why.
Because you're so modest

I usually don't get attached with people emotionally i have had a couple of girlfriends but nothing really serious except for this one girl i invested alot of my feelings into her and well the relationship ended I was really depressed for a long time just goes to show you life disappoints
 
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pimppeter2 said:
I just looked at your profile

You are 16 motherfucken years old

That is WAAAAYYYY to early to be thinking about "soul mates". Go live a fucken little
What the hell does that have to do with anything?
 

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All the advice I can give is summed up in just: don't date your friends. You're just lucky that after you tried to take it further you two are still friends and still talk to each other. I tried starting some romance with one of my friends and now she doesn't even say hi to me.

Sex is what prostitutes are for.
 

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APPCRASH said:
pimppeter2 said:
APPCRASH said:
pimppeter2 said:
I just looked at your profile

You are 16 motherfucken years old

That is WAAAAYYYY to early to be thinking about "soul mates". Go live a fucken little
Hey! You can't make fun of his age unless you are older than him. Don't you know the internet laws!?
Does it count if I have more common sense than him?

Seriously kids, don't get married at 18, this isn't a fuckin movie!
For all you know people find their soul mates at 17 and those statistics about young marriages ending badly could be media propaganda.
I don't know why, but because you're in the army, I'm going to listen to everything you have to say about propaganda.

Anyways my turn:
I don't really have a sad story. Currently chasing a girl (not in a creepy way despite how it sounds) and hoping it turns out well.
Current prediction: Eh, who knows?
 

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BlazeTheVampire said:
Oh no, not again.

What was said could have been said in a better way.

For example:

My little brother is 16, so I get the joy of watching the age group from a more experienced perspective. And I'll tell you as I told him: "lost love" at 16 isn't the end of the world, this I promise. You will find someone who will spark your interest more. Who you get along with even more beautifully. Who completes you. And she will probably break your heart. This is a part of life and growing up. You'll pull the pieces together, learn, and come back to things with a new perspective. At 16, you're not looking for marriage, you're looking for a learning experience and fulfilling that new need to be in a relationship. This isn't the age for soul mates, it's the age for discovering who YOU are through making mistakes and learning from them.

Even at, I nearly 21, am skeptical of myself and my position in a serious relationship. You have plenty of time ahead of you for love and broken hearts. High school isn't the time or place for serious relationships.

PM me if you need to talk without being flamed.
I'm sure watching us behave like this is more than interesting, but to be fully honest, (and maybe I did say it, maybe I didn't, if not, forgive the issue) I have already passed page, and am now actively looking for a new mate. On the whole, this is not my first and foremost falling in love, and like I said, it was more an infatuation than anything. I did like the idea of getting to know who I am through getting my heart broken, it's like saying that going through traumatic experiences makes you more mature (hence why there's so many immature people out there). Although I doubt ever talking about marrying her, a common idea that seems to have arosen from many others replying to the thread. At any rate, I agree on most of your points, and it's interesting to see other points of view.
 

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space_oddity said:
OP, you dont know heartbreak till Billy Joel [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kM9-ijq3TI4] songs start applying to your life.
If you ever make it to Jeff Buckley [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=noQH6lyu0sA], its time to call your mom, before you do something rash.
Uh-oh
I'm in a hell of a lot of trouble.
Oh well.
Aur0ra145 said:
Turing said:
Just remember, you don't need love to have fun with members of the opposite sex (or whatever you fancy), you just need protection and consent :)
We should end the thread on that note.
Your avatar is amazing.
 

Tonimata

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You know what's my favourite law of the universe?
All laws have exceptions. All loops have loopholes. Every single donut can have a chunk bitten off
And that's what I live for :D
 

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mrpenguinismyhomeboy said:
pimppeter2 said:
I just looked at your profile

You are 16 motherfucken years old

That is WAAAAYYYY to early to be thinking about "soul mates". Go live a fucken little
What the hell does that have to do with anything?
The FACT that you should not be in love at 16, especially after haveing like 4 girlfriends in your life. Spending 70 assuming years with soemone is torture. You can't support a family/wife at 16. You don;t have a job. And you don't have the life experience to be in love. im only 15 and I feel like punching my friends when they tell me they love someone. lets be honest. Do you think today people that are 16 can last in a relationship. Maybe it worked for our parents but not for us.
 

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I don't know if this is what I'm supposed to tell about, but I've never had any realtionship deeper than this, so here goes.

I was sitting on the bus today, and a girl who looked about my age got on and sat down next to me, and she was the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. Short hair, rectangular glasses, nice shirt and trousers. I fell in love with her, and then I went off when we reached my stop, and even if I was only with her for a few minutes and will never see her again I feel luckier for meeting her.
 

Tonimata

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That...
is crushing under the hammer of humiliation without any hints of humblety
ALLITERATION FTW!