If you want a game with more interactivity and freedom i would suggest you try out Darkfall, theres a trial you could try out.
Basically the game is an open ended world where you are pretty much the leader of your own destiny, you don't have an classical MMO/RPG class setup where you pick warrior mage or healer here you can decide self what you want to play as.
If you pick up an 2h Axe and start killing mobs with it you will gain skill in 2h axes etc.
You can gather resources and craft almost anything in the game from swords bows to boats and cities. However the city building is not as open as some other games (All cities are pre set and by this day they are all built up and owned, however you can siege a city with your clan and take it over)
Boats are built in various sizes theres small rafts you can make or small ships with 1-5 cannons then theres the big Manowar boat with 25 cannons on each side (these destroy cities very fast, but cost possible more than some fully built cities)
Some people are hardcore pvpers since the game allows you to kill people pretty much anywhere in the game, however newbies got immunity to player damage so they can get settled into the game
The game used to be very hard for newbies but these days they have introduced so much stuff to help out newbies such as meditation (offline skill gain)
My recommendations is that you join up with a clan asap there are some clans that recruit newbies and help them out in the game they would more than gladly help you out.
If you would like to help me by joining through my referral link it would be greatly appreciated!
Definitely though don't miss this game its definitely one of the best i ever played.
http://www.darkfallonline.com/buydarkfall/?cp=EU91A7B6F4B0496B622E1CF412B6B04AC8