This one girl

[SnucklesMan]

There is this one girl at my school and she is super nice and the girl of my dreams. She flirts with me a lot but the time i asked her out, she said no. She still flirts with me and acts like she wants to go out with me. I'm not sure what to do. I really want to go out with her. She is everything I want but she's sending me mixed signals. I wish i could just move on and forget about her but that's harder than it sounds. What should I do?

 

[DuplicateValue]

I hate to say it, but she could just be trying to make someone else jealous by flirting with you...

 

[lasherman]

Maybe she isn't trying to flirt with you, and it just seems like she is. Also, it might be because of your Pedobear avatar, you never know. (Sarcasm, by the way)

 

[TheNumber1Zero]

I suggest physical violence against her, then again my desired end result is different from yours

Confront her, and if she replies rudely, see above.

 

[delet]

So she flirts with you and you already asked her out but she said no... I say ask her again and if she says no again, ask why and bring up her flirting. Sure you could lose a friend but it sounds like it's killing you to have her as 'just a friend' as is.

 

[Apathetic_cynicism]

The game of love is a mind game.
You can drive yourself crazy, drive her crazy, or she'll drive you crazy.

Its MENTAL CHESS!
Best of luck.

 

[TriggerUnhappy]

Sounds like a cocktease. Just ignore her, if she keeps pursuing you, ask her out, if not then move on and find someone else.

 

[Thaius]

Honestly, if she's playing you like this, you deserve better. I know it's hard to move on, but while many people would consider eventually dating her as a victory, in the end it's not. This is a negative character trait that you don't want in someone if you're looking for a real relationship: definitely something you don't want in marriage, which should be the desired end result or any serious relationship. Hate to say it, 'cause I know how hard this is, but you don't want that. I say let her go.

 

[Umberphoenix]

I don't like flirty types. They're the kind of people who like to see how far they can string you along.

 

[Space Cowgirl]

She is possibly being a tease or trying to make someone jealous. If she continues flirting with you, ask her out again and if she says no again and still continues, just call her on it.

 

[Composer]

kick her in the shins then run!
jk these could both be right. there are to many variables u cant know

Maybe she isn't trying to flirt with you, and it just seems like she is. (Sarcasm, by the way)

So she flirts with you and you already asked her out but she said no... I say ask her again and if she says no again, ask why and bring up her flirting. Sure you could lose a friend but it sounds like it's killing you to have her as 'just a friend' as is.

id go with aby Z

 

[Rednog]

I'd ignore her, if she continues or increases flirting, I'd confront her and ask her why she is flirting with you.
I'm also wondering if that she is just being nice, a lot of girls might seem really nice and that they are flirting with you but they are just being friendly. Really hard to tell at 14.

 

[TheBluesader]

I suggest you buy a really expensive car. Women love that. Also, become a low-level lawyer or a sporadically-employed real estate speculator. Women also love that (though unlike the car, I'm really not sure why.)

Oh, you should also act like you're too busy to talk or hang out with her, but casually mention that you'd like to hang out when you get time, like it's not a big deal and you just tossed it off. Because then she'll think you might be a spy or a felon or a necromancer or something, and she'll get all into you, because women love being with guys who might be doing illegal or dangerous things, as long as they never find out the details. That's why mobsters always have hot girlfriends, even though most of them are fat and abusive and emotionally unhinged.

At least that's how it works on the Sopranos.

Though maybe the mobster thing is just because mobsters tend to drive really expensive cars. What with all the illegal danger money and all. And because some of them might be necromancers, too.

They never did that on the Sopranos. Despite all my letters.

 

[Soren91]

A girl who says no when you ask her to date you and then continues to flirt with you isn't a girl you want, my man. You're best moving on in all honesty. I know how you probably feel but it doesn't sound like she's worth it.

P.S. it's really tough to talk seriously like this when Schaffer The Darklord is playing in the background.

 

[Pyro Paul]

flirt back?

i dunno, that just seems the most obvious.


of course, you're a guy.
you don't know what flirting is... you'll never know.
it is why us guys always piss girls off.

 

[SnucklesMan]

I suggest you buy a really expensive car. Women love that. Also, become a low-level lawyer or a sporadically-employed real estate speculator. Women also love that (though unlike the car, I'm really not sure why.)

Oh, you should also act like you're too busy to talk or hang out with her, but casually mention that you'd like to hang out when you get time, like it's not a big deal and you just tossed it off. Because then she'll think you might be a spy or a felon or a necromancer or something, and she'll get all into you, because women love being with guys who might be doing illegal or dangerous things, as long as they never find out the details. That's why mobsters always have hot girlfriends, even though most of them are fat and abusive and emotionally unhinged.

At least that's how it works on the Sopranos.

Though maybe the mobster thing is just because mobsters tend to drive really expensive cars. What with all the illegal danger money and all. And because some of them might be necromancers, too.

They never did that on the Sopranos. Despite all my letters.

I think I'm gonna take your advice. You see to be serious. lol

 

[grimsprice]

Well, she might just be that way with you. I have a female friend, we're not together, and we have a mutual understanding about that. However she and i flirt all the time. I call her "love" and she calls me "hun". We just have that sort of relationship.

 

[Slayer_2]

I dunno, what do you define as "flirting"? Because me and a few of my female friends always "fake flirt", you might say. We might be working on homework together and one of them will say "Hey, I bet you wouldn't mind if we took a break from this. So... want a good time?", or I might come up behind one of them and say "Damn girl, I couldn't help noticing your sexy ass!". One time one of them was sitting beside me in Bio class, and she decided to grab my thigh and slowly work her way up. Kind of awkward...

It's all in good fun, and we obviously aren't serious, but a stranger witnessing it might think it's real flirting. So, it all depends on the people and context of the situation.

If it's not fake flirting, then call her out on it. One day when she flirts, ask her if she feels anything for you, and if not, why is she flirting. Remember that it could just be her nature, not everyone flirts only with people they're interested in.

 

[mokes310]

You're getting played son! Best you move on and forget about her...trust me, this will happen A LOT as you grow up.